when it comes to sex --- are you repulsed or indifferent??

[Guest Bicinga]

Advise him to try Extagen. If it is just a low swx drive or problems with erection it will help him.

[Guest Bicinga]

Only variants?

[Kiki Asexual Superstar]

Completely disgusted for my own body, but I don't care what you decide to do with yours. I am a 29 year old virgin and will be staying that way. That includes all variations of sexual or genital contact.

[Guest Fosco]

Indifferent.

[janekatherine]

I'm generally aroused by sexual scenes and scenarios in books and films... watching couples cuddle and kiss is quite charming.

But when it comes to me, personally... it can be either disgusting or indifferent. Kissing is alright, sometimes... when it's just that and we both know that is all it is. Other times, kissing is gross.

And other sexual behavior just kind of annoys me or leaves me unmoved. Sometimes it's just indifference. Other times its truly nasty... and just thinking about it grosses me out.

So I guess my answer is across the board...

[Loki]

indifferent only one extemption!

the only thing that is VERY repulsive to me is the oral sex giving someone a blowjob so freaking gross and unhygenic (gags)

[Seien Hananosei]

I used to be repulsed, but I think most little kids are. XD Now I'm more indifferent. I probably won't ever entertain the act, but I have no problem with other people doing it. (I usually act repulsed, though, because otherwise people don't get that I'm asexual. Don't ask me why.)

[waterbear]

I voted "repulsed" but, it's more certain forms of the act and context in which the act is done that repulse me than the act itself.

[Ewok]

A lot of it repulses me, but not all of it.

Somewhere in the middle, I guess? :D

[< retired >]

Enthusiastic but mostly incapable. No option was provided for a hyposexual: not sexual enough for most sexuals; not asexual enough for most asexuals. We're a pathetic lot, I guess... :D

[shadiyah]

I'm repulsed by it, so much so that I feel physically sick when I see a couple kissing.

But that only happens in real life though, I have no problem watching it in movies or whatever.

[Bellatrixx]

I'm indifferent

[Shockwave]

Neither. The few times that I've experimented with it I enjoyed it, I'm just not attracted to anyone in that way.

Why is it that every time someone starts a new thread on this topic they only include those two options? Life is not binary, people!

[Angelica Soprano]

Basically indifferent, until approached by some horror with 3 week old cabbage bits in their brown teeth, and they want to suck y'face! (runs screaming!) :(

[spinneret]

Intrigued.

[Wolf X Omega]

Both, I'm repulsed by the biological sense but am indifferent to it.

[cijay]

Indifferent is as good of a word as any. I'm not repulsed but I don't spend any time thinking about sex, what other people are doing and how they're doing it. I'd just as soon it not be in movies (implied is fine, thank you) and think it's very rude to be groping and grinding on buses and in theatres. Not because it repulses me but because it just shows a lack of manners.

[desoleil9]

Definitely repulsed.

*newbie comes out of lurking and posts*

Quite honestly, I never grew out of the EWWW! phase that most children go through. Everything about sex, in my opinion, is disgusting. I also cannot stand to be touched, so I guess I am hypersensitive to a point. Even the idea of kissing grosses me out, and I have a huge aversion to saliva/tonges/etc. Yuck!

[Angelica Soprano]

As indiferent as the last two dogs I saw at it, in the park.

[AVENCakes]

indifferent when I can maintain my belief that no real person wants it, completely repulsed when I realize it happens in reality.

[stormwind]

I voted indifferent. I couldn't care less if other people do it, but it's just not for me.

[chatha]

Put me in the "disgusted" camp. Ew.

[kt8]

Indifferent. Sex doesn't repulse me or anything, I'm just not sexually attracted to anyone. When I consider a relationship, I don't even think about sex, I'm just like "He has a nice personality." Doesn't matter matter he looks like. So, really, I might have sex one day, if i found someone I really liked, but right now, I'm pretty much just indifferent. I don't care about sex or looks or anything else.

-Katie

[Solodancer1]

Do you think a lot of fetishes are an attempt to reconcile a physical desire for stimulation with a mental revulsion? So people look for a totally different thing to stimulate themselves with? Shoes are the classic fetish. They look extremely unlike sexual organs. The ones that notoriously attract fetishists are hard, smooth, shiny, clean and delicate. Sexless. Something to look at to avoid what is really going on perhaps. Just wondering.

[Shinnok]

Disgusted usually. The only time I'm not disgusted by it is if it's in one of my sex dreams then I'm usually the complete opposite o_O

[pikku]

I don't care what other people do. At the thought of sex, I'm still indifferent.

Now, if I was supposed to have sex myself... No thanks; kinda repulsive.

[pawprint prettysure]

Indifferent.

Been there, done that. Almost got bored to death. I can talk about sex, watch it and even have it.

But as someone already said: Why waste your time having sex when there's so many more interesting things to do?

[AProud]

I'm indifferent, but repulsed by the thought of it involving me. Yuk.

[Sally]

Do you think a lot of fetishes are an attempt to reconcile a physical desire for stimulation with a mental revulsion? So people look for a totally different thing to stimulate themselves with? Shoes are the classic fetish. They look extremely unlike sexual organs. The ones that notoriously attract fetishists are hard, smooth, shiny, clean and delicate. Sexless. Something to look at to avoid what is really going on perhaps. Just wondering.

Well, "hard, smooth, shiny, clean and delicate" remind me of something...

[UltraViolet]

I'm indifferent. Been there done that, and it was OK at best, boring most of the time. Looking at porn leaves me cold. I can talk about sex as much as people want, and am unshockable there.

I just can't see what all the fuss is about, when there are so many other, more interesting things to do. It's not worth wasting time over, and if I feel obliged to do it then I actively hate it.

Wow - another great example of another asexual saying word-for-word how I would describe it. This happens a lot on this site - a communal mind perhaps?