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  2. everywhere and nowhere

    frustrating night with allosexual friends

    everywhere and nowhere replied to T.Dutch's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings

    Are your friends aware of your alcohol problem? Clubbing is already a risky environment for people recovering from addictions, and if they are drinking, they only exacerbate your alienation. In my opinion inviting you to this kind of night out is inconsiderate of them. It would be better if one of them invited you and the others home or you invited them. It's a safer kind of social meetings for those recovering from substance abuse. And if they can't imagine partying without getting tipsy, then sorry, but I think that they have a problem too. Alcohol abuse can have different grades and, u
  3. Pack-rat

    The Banning Game!

    Pack-rat replied to a topic in AVEN Arcade

    Banned for making me google that only to have google say: did you mean- parce que je parle un petit peu français apparently the first two words are one word i guess.
  4. yellowxlin

    Do you like kisses?

    yellowxlin replied to Heaven in hiding's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings

    I never kissed someone on the lips or had the impulse of doing so. I do it in the cheek only for salutations and I'm happy it only lasts one second. The contact is not something I long of people, but I don't know, maybe if someday I have a partner and I have a very strong connection with them I would be more comfortable of doing it (probably not kissing on the lips, but yes in the cheeks or other parts of the body).
  5. chronicallypessimistic

    What is your MBTI type?

    chronicallypessimistic replied to chronicallypessimistic's topic in Census Forum

    Jesus, how long did that take you?! 400 questions is a LOT.
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  7. Philip027
    I'm not talking about a simple difference in opinion. I mean that your post will get deleted and you will get banned. The mods there go on banning sprees on people who don't even post on that sub, simply because they post on a different sub that they don't like. The actual content of their posts doesn't matter, either. It's basically run by petulant children. Keep on shilling for it, though; it's entertaining to me if nothing else. Not the same sub as r/asexuality so it has nothing to do with this topic, but nice try at stirring the pot.
  8. soong_type_freak

    Is gender a part of your personality?

    soong_type_freak replied to Picklethewickle's topic in Gender Discussion

    my true personality is lost so discovering new traits is like finding lost pieces of puzzle. and my gender identity is one of them.
  9. soong_type_freak

    soong_type_freak

    woke up to a sound of heavy rain. after many days of sun (which i hate) this is so peaceful ^^

    1. chronicallypessimistic

      chronicallypessimistic

      Ahhh, that sounds wonderful. I haven't been able to get any rainy days where I live, just either blinding sunny weather or just clouds on clouds on more clouds :,)

  10. Aleria started following Incredible Aromantic Moments (other romantic orientations invited)
  11. Aleria
    There is this one conversation I had before I knew what aromanticism was. (And to be fair, I barely knew alloromanticism was a thing either.) A 13-ish year-old me, two 13-ish year-olds, and two 16-ish year olds have a conversation about seeking relationships. One of the 16-year-olds turns to me: So, what about you? (Aka are you looking for anyone?) Me: I'm not really looking for anyone, but of course, if I were to meet someone I wouldn't just shut them down. 16-year-old: Well, you can't expect to meet someone if you're not looking. Me
  12. chronicallypessimistic

    The characters in alphabetical order game

    chronicallypessimistic replied to Pack-rat's topic in AVEN Arcade

    Yu Narukami - Persona 4
  13. Sarah-Sylvia
    Demisexual means that sexual feelings can come around once someone has a strong emotional bond with someone (or longterm). It's like being/feeling asexual until a connection can change how someone feels, to be sexual. Graysexual is a broad label but it's usual definition has to do with feeling close to asexual but not quite, as in weak or rare sexual feelings/attraction/desire. (not counting libido which can cause arousal but not necessarily desire for partnered sex) You're right though someone can be or feel like both in some ways, since people wont always fall neatly in one spot. I
  14. BunchOBees

    BunchOBees

    It was me and my girlfriend’s one year anniversary today. Crazy how it’s been a whole year and we haven’t had a discussion about what our relationship actually is, and yet it’s still worked. She won’t get back from her university a few states away for about a month so unfortunately we couldn’t be together to do anything. I did draw this picture of our Trollsonas though, because Trolls Band Together is something we both really like, (plus I’ve seen other people draw themselves in the Trolls style before and it seemed fun). We are cringe but we are free.

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  15. Autumn ace

    The characters in alphabetical order game

    Autumn ace replied to Pack-rat's topic in AVEN Arcade

    Xander - Buffy the Vampire Slayer
  16. Autumn ace

    Quickly, Before They See!

    Autumn ace replied to Mad Hatter's topic in AVEN Arcade

    9
  17. DuckDuckGrace
    Ha ha, yeah I chose my username since with what research I have done, grey-sexual seems like a good starting point as a label until I learn more. Hence, DuckDuckGoose was already taken so I chose DuckDuckGrace and I'm happy to see you picked up on it! 🥰 Can you explain what grey-sexual is compared to demi? I feel both may apply. As to your question of whether sex is a form of intimacy that is important in someone I love, no I don't feel it is important. It's nice when it happens and I enjoy it. A major difficulty I have wrapping my head around all of this is that looking BACK on my
  18. Sarah-Sylvia
    @DuckDuckGrace It's a little hard to say if you think your feelings around sexuality could come up, but is it a kind of intimacy you feel is important to you in a relationship with someone you love? I think graysexual could probably make sense, since you might've felt some sexual feelings from what you said but not enough to really be a sexual person. I'm gray-ace myself and I feel either being with someone on the ace spectrum or who at the very least doesn't 'need' sex would be the easiest way to go.. though obviously it's a bit harder to find. I'm more monogamous too, I'm not sure if
  19. WanderingPurpleDragon

    Quickly, Before They See!

    WanderingPurpleDragon replied to Mad Hatter's topic in AVEN Arcade

    8
  20. Sarah-Sylvia

    Is gender a part of your personality?

    Sarah-Sylvia replied to Picklethewickle's topic in Gender Discussion

    I find it hard to answer too but that makes it interesting. I voted 'kind of' because I think gender is deeper in someone and at some point who we are will affect our personality. It actually depends what someone thinks personality is. I don't think of personality as just on the surface, so not just how we act, .. so for that deeper part, is it connected a bit to our gender? I think probably a little at least, but I'm not prepared to say that it's part of personality, because that's not exactly right to say it that way. I think it's part of me, so I can't necessarily separate it totall
  21. BluePanda2143
    BluePanda2143 joined the community
  22. Missing

    Coffee and a Lack of Empathy (game)

    Missing replied to Ace-TheTimelordsCompanion's topic in AVEN Arcade

    I don't know how you pay attention to that stuff, the news is so boring. My ex changed their Netflix password and now I can't watch it anymore.
  23. Missing

    How not to answer a newbie

    Missing replied to TheAP's topic in AVEN Arcade

    First, be a kind, helpful, funny person. Well, you don't have to be funny, but it helps. Second, don't talk about how you used to shoot ant hills with a BB gun as a kid, especially not in your mod bio. In fact, it's best to leave all forms of violence you've committed out of your bio, unless it's just too cool or funny to leave out. Lastly, mobilize your army of sleeper cell sock accounts to all vote for you. Well, you should have a couple of them vote for the other person just so it doesn't look too suspicious. Boom! You're now a mod and have the power to officially determine other people's o
  24. Karret
    Like a weeaboo or Koreaboo, but for America instead of Japan/Korea. Someone not from America obsessed with American culture and stuff; which ... it's a little harder to escape American culture than other cultures, but there are still some people who take it to obsessive levels.
  25. nickolekuebler
    I wish that I could say that it is going to be easy, I am the same in some aspects being that I find oral and anal to be completely disgusting and would never have anything to do with them and I don't like kissing with tongue. I don't mind like a quick peck though. I have not had good luck finding a partner either, I have been on dating sites and am always ghosted when I tell them no sex. I find that so many people just want a hook up more than anything else. I have not been on a date in about 15 years though which was long before I discovered my asexuality. I was never very interested in it t
  26. nickolekuebler

    Is gender a part of your personality?

    nickolekuebler replied to Picklethewickle's topic in Gender Discussion

    I just don't really know how to answer this question. I feel like there are parts of our personality that might be colored by our gender, but it is more so colored by what we experience. I do know that how we experience things is also colored by our gender to a certain extent. I think that there just might not really be a good answer to this question with my way of looking at things. or I might be reading to much into it.
  27. Sally
    What is an Ameriboo?
  28. uhtred
    Sex aversion due to trauma may result in someone not wanting sex but I think it’s different from what I’d call innate sexuality O course someone who is asexual can be sexually assaulted and have trauma as well.
  29. DuckDuckGrace
    Hello! I'm at a point in my life where I've stumbled across this forum and so many things I'm reading about resonate with me. I want to figure out my identity so I can explain it to future partners, and for more clarity for myself. Maybe you can help? I've had fulfilling sexual relationships of all genders in my life. However after my last relationship, it's like a switch has turned off. The whole time in that relationship I was grossed out by kissing, and I'm realizing I've never liked kissing on the lips (in my whole life). He would always french kiss me and it felt
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