Finding someone.

[Voided]

Continuing the trend:

* Fellow atheist

* Highly moral

* Intellectual

* Decidedly more extraverted and worldly than I am (not difficult)

* Rock solid sanity a must, previous dragon handling experience desirable (I'm not good with humanity full stop, fragile people doubly so. Existentialist dread? Bring it on, Sartre, you pansy.)

* And of course, must be in it for the love - not this icky sex stuff.

Basically, this female Darcy needs a Lizzy (male or female).

[TashyChan]

added mine ^^

*Anime fan

*Atheist or Pagan :>

*like tattoos/is acceptable of them

*likes fashion/is fashionable/follower of fashions, be that alternative or not :>

*likes movies

*Is willing to put up with my Asexuality

*Willing to put up with my "drag king" cross dressing habits >.>

*Would love me for me

*Good sense of humour

*"Looks after themselves" appearance wise.

*Someone to spend my life with and spoil rotten :>

[Julesie]

Hmmm. It's a bit hard to think and list but I'd have to say:

Personality. I want someone who has a pretty accepting personality and is sweet/willing to help out in return as well as taking advice.

Sexual or asexual - I don't mind which, though if they were sexual, I'd like it if they were very willing to understand and accept me for me.

Does NOT like to go out all the time. I'm a introvert and having an introvert as a partner would be perfect

Someone whose willing to be kind of dorky. Play games with me, chat on the net even if we are just next room over, go out to places together like arcades and silly things like that. I'd hate someone whose too serious. But I want someone mature at the same time, as in they won't go out and party at clubs.

Either gender, but I'd prefer a male. - but as stated before, personality is the top factor.

Accepting of all sexualities =) This includes asexual of course.

Likes anime. Bonus if they love the same anime I do.

Uh I'm sure theres more but I can't think of anything else for now so ^^;

All I really want is personality.

[ily]

What are you looking for in an asexual date?

Someone who is asexual and shows up. The rest is negotiable.

To me this makes the most sense. A lot of people can look good on paper, but that doesn't mean there'll be any connection between you. I feel like even with non-sexual relationships, chemistry is important. You need to be able to communicate well with the person. If I can't do that, it doesn't matter whether the person shares my politics, taste in music or whatnot.

[Guest member31022]

Not looking (have a boy who has pretty much most of these, somehow), but traits I want/need in a person:

- To be a true romantic. Not roses on Valentines Day, but someone who listens to things I say and acts on them, or does the little things.

- Artistic in some way. Mainly so they don't think I'm crazy.

- Passionate, but not ambitious. To love doing something, but to be content as a bit of a drifter

- To be louder, more talkative, and generally more extroverted than me (bearing in mind I am well known in my friend group as the loud one)

- To understand that sometimes I will be clingy and sometimes I will need space.

- To fascinate me, to know things I don't, to have intelligent conversation, and to hold my interest

- To be as much/more of a geek than me

- To appreciate that I'm straight-edge. I don't mind drinkers, if they don't expect me to drink, same with smokers and people who do drugs.

Physical traits I like but don't actually need:

Dark hair

Blue or Green Eyes

Taller than me

A 'quirky' style.

[RandomDent]

Hmmm, okay I'll throw mine in.

Sex/Gender - not terribly important. I tend to like men but I have no real aversion to women, transmen/women, intersexual etc. I just require that you be awesome. Oh and whilst I am physically female I feel more like a man/androgynous so don't give me the 'cute widdle fing' treatment. I'll bite your ankles.

Sexuality - asexual or very lazy demisexual. I may give in to constant begging, but if you really loved me you wouldn't trick me like that now would you ;)

Religion - whatever you like, but don't except me to join in except for big holidays. I always find those quite fascinating.

Politics - don't really care but I stay away from the whole homophobic, racism, kill all 'special people' at birth kind of thing, so I'd hope you do too.

Bad habits - I'll forgive a little drinking and weed. Hard drugs are out, smoking is out. And don't spit on the floor unless a fly has lodged itself in your throat. I can't staaaand people who spit. Spitting is for porn.

Likes - I can become quite obsessive over things. If you dare start a conversation about one of these subjects I will talk forever. I don't demand that you listen - just nod your head and laugh when you think it's appropriate. You can like whatever you want, and I shall do the same when you have a rant.

Dislikes - Same as above. I try not to have a strong opinion about things, and when I do I keep quiet unless someone is talking balls. Also Trunks > Vegeta > Gohan > Goku. No arguments. It is LAW.

Music - I'll listen to most stuff. Please please please do not be one of these 'THIS IS THE BEST BAND EVA' people every few weeks. Their 'best band' is usually horrible. Also if you play an instrument then you are cool. Even if it's just the triangle.

TV/Movies - I love comedy, some action, foreign films and anime. Basically if it's cheesy I'll watch it. I also watch a lot of TV when I get the chance so that's most of what we'll do together besides card games and playing on swingsets.

Personality - Must be a joke-bouncer; that is to say you must be funny, but you must be able to share. You make a joke, we all laugh, someone else adds something to it, we all laugh, I add something, we laugh some more. Don't hog the spotlight.

Me: My cat is everything to me. You will always be second. It's just how it is. I don't mind if I'm second to your pet. We'll share 'omg how cute they are' stories. I am also really shy about intimacy, even if I'm sure someone isn't trying to steal my bases so I'll try my best to hug and kiss you but don't expect miracles.

Long story short, expect long nights curled up in front of Blackadder.

[Admiral Kitteh]

Mmm.. lets see for me.

1. Atheist - as others mostly mentioned here, I do not do well with religious dogma so any sort of religion is a no-no deal breaker for me. Friendships are find but if I am to find a romantic partner to connect emotionally with, this isn't the place.

2. Intellect - I need someone around my intellect level or at least someone who knows/went to college and made something of themselves.

3. Personality - they need to have a beautiful personality that I fall in love with.

4. Similar interests - no explanation needed.

5. Sexual or Asexual - I am extremely iffy about having a sexual person as a partner because I am insanely fearful of breaking their heart should I not want to give them sex and I don't want my heart broken if/when they seek other forms of sexual gratification (I feel that many people misinterpret lustful feelings with love and he may mistake these and think he doesn't love me?). I MAY compromise if I really love the person and try to be a demisexual if possible but above all else, I will choose someone who is Asexual over a sexual. My compromises are pretty slim and will probably only result in dry sex or non-contact mutual masturbation. But again I am iffy.

6. Age.- Ok I am 22 going on 23. I prefer my partner to be older than me but no more than 5-6 years. I don't want to date my own father. :lol:

7. Long distance is OK!

There's also many other factors but those are some I am hoping to look for in a partner. I really want to have a loving connection with someone on an emotional level because I always felt more open and loving mentally than physically. Although embracing them in a loving hug does wonders for me, feeling an incredible deep connection that goes beyond physical is amazing to me.

[Fricai]

intellligent

I hope this is a joke? :P

[Guest member31022]

intellligent

I hope this is a joke? :P

Ooopsie.

That is me posting on very little sleep.

*sneakily goes back and changes it and pretends it never happened* :P

[Sleeping Beauty]

Not looking (have a boy who has pretty much most of these, somehow), but traits I want/need in a person:

- To be a true romantic. Not roses on Valentines Day, but someone who listens to things I say and acts on them, or does the little things.

- Artistic in some way. Mainly so they don't think I'm crazy.

- Passionate, but not ambitious. To love doing something, but to be content as a bit of a drifter

- To be louder, more talkative, and generally more extroverted than me (bearing in mind I am well known in my friend group as the loud one)

- To understand that sometimes I will be clingy and sometimes I will need space.

- To fascinate me, to know things I don't, to have intelligent conversation, and to hold my interest

- To be as much/more of a geek than me

- To appreciate that I'm straight-edge. I don't mind drinkers, if they don't expect me to drink, same with smokers and people who do drugs.

What I pointed out in bold is something I absolutely second but most of all I want a person who understands me and my contradictions and can handle the person I am, which is not easy but I have a lot to give

[Guest member31022]

True romance and passion are definately underappreciated things - most of my friends value ambition far more than passion, and think 'true' romance is Disney.

I hope you find someone who gets all those things and likes your contradictions :) (It must be possible, someone's currently putting up with mine...)

[Sleeping Beauty]

To me are the most important things and they are the major traits of my personality. I don't condemn ambition itself, I am the first, but I consider the causes and what is your real ambition (I want to leave a mark in the world, I find it different from wanting to be a rich lawyer on the way because it's cool).

Thank you, I wish you all the best with your "dare-devil" :lol:

[emoatheist]

My dating preferences are…

Either Non-Religious or Moderate to Less Than Moderately Religious. I’m an agnostic-atheist, but unlike the typical “arrogant“ atheist, as most Christians see us as, I am respectful to other people’s religious backgrounds as well as their opinions and beliefs, therefor, it doesn’t matter to me if you are an atheist, or a Christian, Jewish, Pagan, Wiccan, Satanic, etc. My only rules are that you do not try to convert me, or put me down for not believing in God (like telling me I’m going to go to hell and such), or try to regularly or constantly get into religious debates with me. (there’s a difference between expressing and sharing, and debating.)

Can be Vegetarian, Vegan, or a Meat Eater. I’m a vegetarian, however, unlike some of you who I have been reading up on, I’m not a chauvinistic pig about my dietary choice. If you eat meat, that’s fine. I don’t care. I won’t give you sh*t about it as long as you don’t give me sh*t about being a vegetarian.

Asexual. I need to be with someone (preferably a man-sorry, but it‘s that inner heterosexual part of me that likes guys, not chicks) who isn’t going to expect me to “put out” for him every once in a while. I am much happier when I’m not having sex…isn’t that kind of the point of being asexual? Just like a homosexual man is much happier having sex with other men than with woman. Same difference.

Low to Middle Class But Not White Trash (or black trash for that matter.) You don’t have to be rich to be on my potential list, but I’m not about to date any man who doesn’t at least try to make something of himself.

Personality. Must have a sense of humor! That’s number one! I will warn you that my sense of humor can be somewhat dry, so if you are someone who is clueless or completely incapable of hinting at sarcasm…bye.

Someone who is laid back and down to earth…nobody likes an a-hole. I don‘t care for smugness. Someone who is honest and trustworthy. Someone who I share common ground with.

No Expectations For Marriage. At the age of only 24, I’m still unsure as to whether or not I want to get married. I think being in a long term, committed partnership would be nice, as long as it’s with someone who is asexual like me, but marriage…we’ll see.

Must Be Local! I don't do long distance relationships. See profile to know where I'm from.

[Face]

Wow. Seems like a lot of females in the UK who I'd get on with. On paper at least. Saying that, my main requirement is that they are willing to meet for real without a long period of online communication as I've often found that to lead to a disappointment and dead stop in the relationship when we don't get on anywhere near as well in person.

I'm atheist, asexual and take my career seriously but see it as a way to achieve something while obtaining the freedom to do other things like the 19th month trip I've just completed. I have plenty of intellectual interests outside of work and enjoy that in a partner too.

I'm a romantic sensual asexual so I want someone who will make contact intimately but not for it to "go anywhere".

I don't mind an occasional relationship that has periods of being apart, whether it's just weekdays when we are busy or whether it's every few weeks or months when one of us can travel to the other.

[Preskom]

I decided to change my list;

-Someone who won't think about touching my vagina.

-Respects me.

-Won't smoke cigarettes in my presence.

And, me liking the person of course XD

shouldn't be hard... right? right?!

[Huggs]

looking for?

nothing at all.

if the person is indeed soulmate and twin flame,

everything simply falls into place and we are whole, together.

I second this... !

I third it !

I fourth it ! ( can you actually fourth something? ) eh no matter that's never stopped me before :P

Think of all the interesting people you'd be missing by trying to have then match a list anyway :D

[prettyeyes]

I say again, each and every poster here seems to want someone who's completely stone sober 24/7.

Let alone all of the other frivolous impossibilities they've listed.

You'll be lucky if you even meet another asexual, ever.

Stop being so arrogant.

Christ, one of these days I'll actually meet one of you, and you'll want nothing to do with me because I like a beer or a glass of shiraz here and there and smoke a bit of weed every few of days.

And eat meat.

And am not artistic.

I don't want so sound like I'm lashing out like this (believe me, I don't), but seriously - why are we all condescending, straight-edge, vegetarian artists? It would be perfectly understandable to simply want someone similar to yourselves, but you all list reasons that have nothing to do with that, just non sequiturs like "I want my person to take care of themselves," as if a drink and a puff here and there were going to give them heart disease and colon cancer.

Here's a question: what if they smoked? If they were otherwise healthy, and smoked like 2 or 3 cigarettes a day, always outside, and brushed their teeth afterwards? I daresay your conviction is such that you would still find some problem with this.

Forgive my zeal here, but I feel bit cornered and hated on right now.

I'll hang out with you... I'm a major carnivore and I love my Mary Jane. :twisted:

[420tumsnstuff]

i also love to partake in alcohol and marijuana. and the occasional hallucinogenic. and meat!

i just want another nerd that isn't boring or dramatic. and leans the same way i do on most political and religious issues. i like debating, but don't force your opinion down my throat or ever say that i'm wrong for having a differing opinion. i think that's pretty open-ended.

and i def would rather date another asexual, just as long as making out and cuddling was up their alley. but i'm not throwing sexuals out of the mix, they'd just have to be cool with it, because i'm all for compromise, but that's something i'm not really willing to change.

[geek-in-a-half-shell]

I'd rather play Monopoly with myself than to play the dating game...

At least Monopoly has instructions.

[RandomDent]

I'm a romantic sensual asexual so I want someone who will make contact intimately but not for it to "go anywhere".

Can I fall asleep on you? Or is that an asexual version of a slut?