Which part of sex do you find most disgusting [May 2009]

[pawprint prettysure]

Am I the only ace who enjoys kissing?

No. Sorry. :P

[Næt.]

What comes out the other end nine months later.

hahahaha The other end?! Ummm... do you know about the birds and the bees, Fish? Babies usually tend to come out the same end where, ummm, sex happens. :P

That explains a lot, actually.

[-V-]

Whats Hayley's "gross" fetish?

[Guest]

Oral and anal for me, too.

I never got nor did I understand the draw towards either--especially anal.

Mostly because some of my friends have filled me in about the "unsightly accidents" that can occur during an anal session (You do crap out of there, afterall--i'll leave the rest to your imagination).

[Guest member25959]

[Edit: Sorry, opinions change :P ]

[AllyCat]

what's this "chick's brain" business?

Seconded. *squelches and burps*

As the only regular sexual poster I thought I'd say that I find this thread entertaining and informative.

You're not the only regular sexual poster (there's also me, Bunny K, Olivier, and Hallucinagenia), but I second the "entertaining and informative".

Funnily enough, I am happy with all sorts of body parts and fluids and whips and chains, but really squicked out when people expect sex to be all gender stereotypical. And yeah, pregnancy squicks me too.

[Shockwave]

Just anal, because that is NOT what that orifice is for!

[-V-]

As the only regular sexual poster I thought I'd say that I find this thread entertaining and informative.

You're not the only regular sexual poster (there's also me, Bunny K, Olivier, and Hallucinagenia), but I second the "entertaining and informative".

Funnily enough, I am happy with all sorts of body parts and fluids and whips and chains, but really squicked out when people expect sex to be all gender stereotypical. And yeah, pregnancy squicks me too.

I didn't know that, never saw anyone mention it (explicitly) before.

[Hallucigenia]

As the only regular sexual poster I thought I'd say that I find this thread entertaining and informative.

You're not the only regular sexual poster (there's also me, Bunny K, Olivier, and Hallucinagenia), but I second the "entertaining and informative".

Funnily enough, I am happy with all sorts of body parts and fluids and whips and chains, but really squicked out when people expect sex to be all gender stereotypical. And yeah, pregnancy squicks me too.

I didn't know that, never saw anyone mention it (explicitly) before.

BunnyK and Olivier mention it a lot. I mention it sometimes. Then again I hardly post anymore anyway.

I'm squicked out by the way people look when they have sex, but I can deal with that by, like, not looking at them. Problem solved! (Also there seems to be an exception for people I'm very used to seeing in that context, which is convenient.)

[nesS]

Well as most have said, apart from the unconcievable fetishes some people have, which make me think "OMG they have serious issues o.O" more than gross me out, I don't get grossed by sex. The idea of me doing it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I do NOT want to go there, but if other people find it enjoyable good for them. Almost everyone is running at the thought of oral sex, and I must say it it quite disgusting o.O I mean you eat with that, and you pee with the other that, so WTH?! Once again, the idea of me ever doing it makes me "ewwwwwwww" but if other people like it, though I find it odd, I don't have a gross issue with it. About anal... Well in heterosexual intercourse I don't really see the point, whereas in homosexual I can kind of get it.

Has been said here by someone, but I find something about gay sex quite fascinating, while hetero just makes me yawn in boredom.

Kissing, I don't really like it in a romantic level, but I don't mind it if it makes the other person happy. I can actually get used to and enjoy lip kissing, but put a tongue in it and it's just no more fun. I think anything further to lip kissing goes beside the point'-_-.

If there is indeed something that does trouble me about sex though, is the publicity, the industry, the culture that surrounds it, and how much importance society puts into it; as well as the hypocrisy of telling everyone to do it, and then going and saying oh don't do it kids it's bad! after they've beem bombarded with such things. That and I find it so stupid how easily people succumb to sexual desires and stimulation, it's quite laughable in a way, the influence it has on them, and doesn't have on me lol.

[Fixxer]

I don't find sex disgusting. I don't hate sex.

Sex does nothing for me... it's about as fun as flossing my teeth.

[niku-bot]

Haha, I feel odd and left out because I'm absolutely okay with oral. :lol:

[square peg]

Never had it, but the thought of all the goo is the most unpleasant one, regardless of the specific act. Plus, genitals are ugly to me and I gather become even uglier when aroused.

[Glyn]

Strange thing is, I'm indifferent to sex in general. Surprise surprise, oral sex (on both genders) that revolts me. An erect penis is disgusting to me too. The vagina will inspire ether indifference to me, or total disgust (to me, there are some pretty revolting ones out there).

[Blueflare]

Well, each to their own and all, but there's no way I would anal, or any kind of pee/poo stuff.

Most other stuff (within reason) I would give a chance.

[Samarkand]

Smells, I'm preoccupied by the smells of people's mouths. That music video with Ciara and JT makes me obsess over the smells whenever it's on.

And oh yeah 'O-faces'. When I was getting tattooed, my friend took a video of my face and she claimed I was making O-faces. I scrutinised porn videos after that and now I'm grossed out by it.

[Moon Ace]

I would say the way people lie, manipulate, or play with each other emotions to 'get' each other. If people would be honest about who they are and what their looking for it would prevent a lot of unnecessary heart ache.

Hear, hear!

[Moon Ace]

I'm surprised that with oral and anal sex both having been brought up nobody mentioned oral-anal contact (commonly rimming).

Now that's really the pits, to me anyway. As for me:

Oral: you must be joking!

Regular: I have to agree with others on this... the fluids and the sweaty bodies... yuk

Tongue kissing: the ultimate bore

Using your hands: the ultimate bore

everything else: definitely yuk!

I'm not even keen on sleeping (literally) with anyone in the same bed. I went to visit a friend's parents with her the other week, and with her brother out, she expected me to sleep in her brother's bed without changing the sheets.. Let's say, I was glad I brought my sleeping bag. The next day, she mentioned it in conversation with everyone presesnt, that I'd slept in my sleeping bag on her brother's bed.. how embarrassing.. Anyway, this is completely off topic I realise, so I'll shut up now.

[ProdeFemme]

I'm one of those people who will whip my steak-knife at you if you sit there smacking you food around with your mouth open at the table. I have a real "thing" (read OCD) about squishy sounds.

But OCD is an anxiety disorder... A person who suffers from it is afraid that if s/he will not act in a certain (irrational) way (like switching on and off the light 3 times in a row, for example), something bad will happen.

Anyways, I too, have this 'thing' about such sounds, they sort of 'drive me to crazy'.

Ohhhh, that's only one facet of OCD. It's not always a sense of impending doom either, sometimes it's just unwarranted panic. Order compulsions for example don't necessarily cause that sense of impending doom, quite often it's just extreme irritation or anger. The impending doom feelings are usually tied in with alot of the more ritualistic compulsions; but it's not all there is to OCD by far. Intrusive thoughts, for example, doesn't have any of the wash-your-hands-50-times-a-day-or the-world-will-end features that have become the assumed definition yet it's can easily be one of the most debilitating aspects of OCD. And then of course the rules bend again if someone has OCD and Tourette's.

The disdain of squishy/wet sounds and a dread of lotion or other type of topical stuff on the skin is actually very common amongst OCD sufferers.

Just as an extra, extreme sensitivity/irritation with nylon is common in those with ADD.

I'm all done rambling now...:P

[SilverCandleKid]

ok.. graphic, but you asked for it:

- sexual organs. they're not pretty in general and they're even worse when they get..ehh.. lubricated

- the place the whole act is focussed on... seriously. people poo and pee down there! Don't get me started talking about anal.. that's just to jucky to contemplate.

- The way people sort of shake about rather uncontrolled, just looks stupid

so yeah.. basicly everything taking place around the sexual organs.

All the stroking and petting in other places doesn't disgust me so much, though I'm not personally interested in it.

O, yeah, one thing I find silly is a man licking/sucking a woman's nipples. wtf? makes a man look like a baby, and who would want to have sex with a baby? juck.

completely agreed.

[nosexforme]

For me, all of sex is disgusting. But I'd have to say oral sex was the worst for me. Back in the days when I was sexual, I gave my fair share of BJs (I'm a woman), and I hated doing it and found it degrading and disgusting. Equally disgusting was having it done to me. NEVER AGAIN!!!

I'm now married to a man who is quite content to receive my fabulous back rubs, and I am equally content to receive his awesome foot rubs (after a long bubble bath with squeaky clean feet, of course). :)

[Lady Dreamer]

Poop shoot's an exit only. But I don't find it disgusting as a whole. However the noises bother me, but I'm one of those people who will whip my steak-knife at you if you sit there smacking you food around with your mouth open at the table. I have a real "thing" (read OCD) about squishy sounds.

ROFL! I am totally with you on that..

[Lady Dreamer]

Sex should be a way of becomeing or achieveing a greater intimacy with your loved one. Not as a way to further your own little preversions. I hate what it can do to you and what people will do to get it and or use it to control someone. Alot of generations have managed to turn it into a tool...

[ChaliceFlame]

Not the sexual intercourse act it self. The sexual festishes. Like when people put penises in their mouth or get aroused by poop.

[Stormy Wether]

Nothing disgusts me that anyone wants to do with a consenting adult who isn't me.

[NamTar]

Speaking generally, none of it. Not regular sex, not fetish stuff. When I used to be in relationships, I didn't mind giving the occasional BJ, but what I hated was trying to explain that I never, ever want oral sex done on me. Then my BF would say I just need to relax, and I would enjoy it. No, I would not. Some people just can't understand not wanting oral sex. Annoying. (And I could vaguely appreciate the sensations of regular sex, but I just wasn't sexually attracted to anybody.) That being said, it's not that oral sex disgusts me, as that it is not pleasurable for me and I simply do not want any part of it. Same with kissing, I just don't enjoy the sensation. I think genitals are kind of silly looking, but they don't disgust me at all.

[Member 35376]

This is going to be a strange answer.

I will try to exclude the "technobabble" in my mind like sex being on the "'wrong' emotional 'frequency'" and focus on stuff that actually makes sense for others. Sex simply does not feel natural! Much like violence actually - that does not feel natural for me either! Sex is actually, in my emotional world, very similar to violence! When I had sex in the past and even now and again with myself (I find that to be a very convenient way to say it) my emotions goes almost directly to violence! And it is not that I feel that I would be violent towards myself or a partner.. absolutely NOT (as I am not a violent person).. but rather a "rage-feeling" just pops into my emotional world without any particular "direction" which takes away ALL the purpose of having sex actually (almost forgot that sex already WAS on a "wrong emotional frequency" to start with). I guess it is some kind of strong "chemical reaction" within me. I have suspected that it might be so that I have so strong emotions that they simply turn my "adrenaline-pump" to "overdrive-mode". Wow... I couldn't help myself from using the technobabble despite the enormous effort to avoid it :lol:

EDIT: I have always wondered if some "different configuration" in my personality (or chemistry or whatever that really is in control!) would turn me into a fully fledged sexual with an enormous appetite for getting laid due to my probable enormous production of adrenaline.

[Astrobot]

Most disgusting? Hmmm... Oral sex. I just wouldn't feel very comfortable to put my penis into a woman's mouth. I mean... what if she eats it? :P :lol: Nah, just kidding! But seriously, I find oral sex gross...

[Trolley Girl]

Aside from the anal or oral sort, it doesn't really disgust me. I'm just indifferent. I find it impossible for me as an individual to be disgusted by most natural acts, just so long as I am not involved.

[Stormy Wether]

You said that already.

(this was a reply to a post that now doesn't exist)