JABAJA Posted March 12, 2021 Share Posted March 12, 2021 I’m late 60’s married 46 yrs., grown kids, retired. My year of COVID brought many new understandings about myself and my relationships. I find myself here at AVEN looking for some cerebral connection because I’ve lost my best friend. :....>( I’m the sexual half of what started as a sexually active duo back in the 70s and 80s ..... many yrs later I find myself forever married to an asexual who hasn't yet realized she’s ace. I vacillate between hurt (rejected) angry (cheated) lonely (masturbation) and resigned (hopeless). I SINCERELY believe she has the right to be who and how she is as a person. But I reserve the same for myself. My question: How does one navigate a sexless marriage late in life when it no longer grows? Link to post Share on other sites
spencexists Posted March 12, 2021 Share Posted March 12, 2021 I don't know but I just wanted to say that I'm really sorry you lost your friend and I hope you find a solution. Link to post Share on other sites
JABAJA Posted March 13, 2021 Author Share Posted March 13, 2021 I would so appreciate hearing from ACE and married individuals to offer A to my Q! Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 You might find some input and maybe some answers in this part of the forums: https://www.asexuality.org/en/forum/30-for-sexual-partners-friends-and-allies/ Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
JABAJA Posted March 20, 2022 Author Share Posted March 20, 2022 newbie your story seems to be mine..... Link to post Share on other sites
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