deletethisplz Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 Hi! So... After alot, but really ALOT of thinking. I'm still not sure. I am 100% asexual. That's for sure. I first thought that I also was aromantic, because I don't always like romantic stuff. But sometimes I do like someone to be with. And slowly I started to feel this could be a boy or a girl. Because one time I could really like this one boy, but the other moment I like this girl. I do think about kissing and cuddling. Nothing more. With both men and women. But with girls I am like; oh wait. I can't think of that. What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted August 22, 2018 Share Posted August 22, 2018 Moved from Questions about Asexuality to Romantic and Aromantic Orientations. TheAP Questions about Asexuality mod Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Constellation Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 This does sound like you are biromantic. Having romantic feelings for two genders, which is what you describe by the sound of it, is biromantic. Link to post Share on other sites
GutsyCowardLep Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 wanting a romantic relationship with male or female appears to make you a biromantic. Link to post Share on other sites
CatsClubsNCake Posted August 25, 2018 Share Posted August 25, 2018 On 8/22/2018 at 5:28 PM, followthehorse said: I do think about kissing and cuddling. Nothing more. With both men and women. But with girls I am like; oh wait. I can't think of that. I DEFINETELY know what you mean!! It's like, I could imagine it, and it's not that bad, but it's like... am I just forcing it? It's kind of like I feel like I could be into both, but so far have only had crushes on guys (if you can call them crushes) But at the same time it feels like I'm just fooling myself into believing I could be romantically attracted to girls? It's soooo confusiiinggg someone helllpppp Link to post Share on other sites
deletethisplz Posted August 26, 2018 Author Share Posted August 26, 2018 On 8/25/2018 at 5:51 AM, CatsClubsNCake said: I DEFINETELY know what you mean!! It's like, I could imagine it, and it's not that bad, but it's like... am I just forcing it? It's kind of like I feel like I could be into both, but so far have only had crushes on guys (if you can call them crushes) But at the same time it feels like I'm just fooling myself into believing I could be romantically attracted to girls? It's soooo confusiiinggg someone helllpppp Yes! Exactly that! Even though sometimes I think I like this girl. But then I don't know if it's real or just platonic. But wanting to kiss can't be platonic. But then I am not sure anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
deletethisplz Posted August 26, 2018 Author Share Posted August 26, 2018 On 8/23/2018 at 4:31 AM, Lady Constellation said: This does sound like you are biromantic. Having romantic feelings for two genders, which is what you describe by the sound of it, is biromantic. On 8/23/2018 at 7:38 AM, GutsyCowardLep said: wanting a romantic relationship with male or female appears to make you a biromantic. Then I guess I am biromantic. Even though I still feel weird thinking that.😂 Link to post Share on other sites
CatsClubsNCake Posted August 26, 2018 Share Posted August 26, 2018 28 minutes ago, followthehorse said: Yes! Exactly that! Even though sometimes I think I like this girl. But then I don't know if it's real or just platonic. But wanting to kiss can't be platonic. But then I am not sure anymore. Sometimes I'll have a dream kissing a girl and I'll wake up just like "wtf... wHat DoEs thAt mEaN" because it seems like something I wouldn't mind doing 😂 Link to post Share on other sites
deletethisplz Posted August 28, 2018 Author Share Posted August 28, 2018 On 8/27/2018 at 12:22 AM, CatsClubsNCake said: Sometimes I'll have a dream kissing a girl and I'll wake up just like "wtf... wHat DoEs thAt mEaN" because it seems like something I wouldn't mind doing 😂 Yes! I have had those kind of dreams too! Haha😂 Link to post Share on other sites
gear26 Posted August 31, 2018 Share Posted August 31, 2018 When I found out I was asexual I started thinking if i would like both boys and girls (only from curiosity). Then I started thinking a LOT about girls, and i was like, am I faking it? Am I just forcing myself to feel stuff about ex. My classmate? Maybe i am just straight after all. Still it confuses me....but I know how you feel and I think you are biromantic but the only way to be sure of it is to date a person of the same sex and see if you are comfortable with Link to post Share on other sites
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