SpirallingSnowy Posted November 3, 2005 Share Posted November 3, 2005 Hi everyone! Im a 23yr old chick and i live in sydney aus. Ive always assumed i was straight, tho its a lil blurred on the bi side of things. I never considered that there was anything other than normal, because normal is all u ever hear about. I just assumed i was someone who didnt care about sex, who may or may not be turned on by their partner at any given time, and felt guilty when they wanted it and i didnt. It doesnt help that i have several mental illnesses that inhibit my wanting of any sexual contact. ive been avoiding sexual anything with my boyfriend at the moment and hes feeling very rejected. i just dont feel like it, it doesnt even occur to me to start anything. hes stopped asking me cos i keep saying oh its the new meds. and perhaps it is. but ive felt like this before when i wasnt on meds. I guess im curious and undecided. ive got some thinking ahead of me, as it never occured to me that i could be anything other than straight... So yeah thats me! Hi again! :D Link to post Share on other sites
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Amcan Posted November 3, 2005 Share Posted November 3, 2005 Hi nad welcome. Have some more You can be straight and asexual, we're a diverse bunch. Enjoy AVEN I hope it helps you figure things out. Link to post Share on other sites
Lors Posted November 3, 2005 Share Posted November 3, 2005 welcome SpirallingSnowy. Hope you find aven useful. Link to post Share on other sites
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Chronicler Posted November 5, 2005 Share Posted November 5, 2005 Yeah, you don't hear much besides the norm, do you? That's why it's such a journey to find an accepting place like this. Whatever your decision, I hope you enjoy these understanding forums--the cake is delicious! . Link to post Share on other sites
SpirallingSnowy Posted November 6, 2005 Author Share Posted November 6, 2005 mmmm thanks peoples!!!! Thanks for the warm welcome :D Link to post Share on other sites
Kez Posted November 6, 2005 Share Posted November 6, 2005 *grins and waves* Hello! Link to post Share on other sites
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SpirallingSnowy Posted November 7, 2005 Author Share Posted November 7, 2005 :cry: I just brought asexuality up to my boyfriend the other day. i showed him the main page of here and the overview bit and hes not dealing :? i asked him did it bother him that we hadnt have sex in a while and he said a bit and i asked him how much it bothered him and he wont tell me. He doesnt want to tell me. arragghh im sick of giving him his personal space to have his issues with stuff and im over him shutting up and going off to play a stupid game when he doesnt want to talk about it or doesnt want to deal, or him making a random comment instead of saying i dont want to talk about this. its so frustrating, it feels like im dealing with a little kid instead of a 21yr old guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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