Paper Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Hey there(: I'm asexual, i find sex fun, and i like it but i like it more as an activity. sounds super weird, its true though :Pive never had an orgasm and have never really been sexually attracted to anyone. butttt i still feel the need to be sexy sometimes. even though i dont have my eye on anyone and sex obviously isnt my motive, maybe its just an aesthetic thing. anyone else feel like they need to be sexy? or am just odd... Link to post Share on other sites
WhenSummersGone Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I'm the same. I like to look attractive or sexy, depends on my mood. I don't really want to attract sexual attention though as it creeps me out. Link to post Share on other sites
Paper Posted November 30, 2013 Author Share Posted November 30, 2013 I'm the same. I like to look attractive or sexy, depends on my mood. I don't really want to attract sexual attention though as it creeps me out. interesting. it doesnt creep me out, at all. i guess im just a tease. :p Link to post Share on other sites
Nairda Rose Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I like looking desirable, but I feel gross when someone finds me too desirable. What I mean is I like looking good and to have people looking at me until they want me in a sexual way. Then I feel like its creepy and unsettling. Link to post Share on other sites
Arethusa Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 That's not odd. I don't feel the need as much (I think), but it's perfectly normal and you shouldn't be afraid or ashamed at all to embrace it! Link to post Share on other sites
Snusmumriken Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Almost everybody likes being loved and recieveing good words. Call it as you want. I don't think that's really odd. Link to post Share on other sites
""" Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 what sexy is?? To me sexy is the fact in how someone can be perceived in a positive way for others. So to me someone sexy is: someone with humor sense Someone kind Someone smart Someone authentic someone with a kid soul Whats no sexy? Someone that tries to be sexy show extra skin and trying to impress with muscles and stuff like that ewwww Link to post Share on other sites
ThaHoward Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I think sexy is subjective, and it is what people find sexually attractive. In most cases it's purely the physical parts, but it may also be scents, voice, movements etc that make a person sexy. However I don't think it's purely subjective, as humans tend to find similar persons sexy, or the "sexiest" of them, most of the population find them sexy. Link to post Share on other sites
Saroon Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I like looking desirable, but I feel gross when someone finds me too desirable. What I mean is I like looking good and to have people looking at me until they want me in a sexual way. Then I feel like its creepy and unsettling. This perfectly describes me.. and it really, really bothers me. :( Link to post Share on other sites
rotanimonedaifg Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 I have that too. I really do like looking good and feeling aesthetically attractive. When people give me compliments about my appearance it usually makes me happy. But then, when if people start aggressively hitting on me, or show strong sexual interest I don't really know what to do. It makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
Dimitra_Blud Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 I don't think that really has to do with sexuality. I think that's just a human thing, people just want to look good. It's just a nice and flattering feeling from people of all genders, sexualities, and walks of life. Take me, for example, I like to dress up and looks sexy just for me. It doesn't turn me on or anything, and whether it turns anyone else on is completely out of my interest, I simply like to look good just to look good, and I think most people are the same way regardless of sexuality. Link to post Share on other sites
steeplechasers Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 the way i think of it, so much of our culture's sense of "self worth" for women is directed at their sexiness, their ability to play the part of a sexual object and not be smart or funny. i know, everyone isn't like this, but for me, if i dress "sexy" it's like a costume i wear to make people like me, or make people jealous of me. i see sexiness as a way to gain power over people. like in movies, tv, the strongest female character is always scantily clad, with a "perfect" body. so when i want people to notice me, think i'm strong, i dress the part. if someone shows sexual interest in me, it disgusts me, and i view that person as weak. if i dress like myself, people think i'm weird or artsy. i love to dress up, but dressing sexy isn't about me, it's about how people see me. i have been this way since i was about nine. i dress provocatively for attention and then ignore the attention. i realize this might make me seem cruel or like a tease, but i honestly just feel like a doll, dressed up to impress, but totally lifeless. Link to post Share on other sites
boxed toast Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 I personally love it when a girl is dress attractively, unless it's too explicit. I can get really sensually attracted to someone, but the minute it's overtly sexual, I get kinda awkward and uninterested. Link to post Share on other sites
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