Raptor Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Can Heteroromantic asexual be repulsed by sex? Link to post Share on other sites
The Great WTF Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Short answer: yes Long answer: Anyone, regardless of sexuality, romantic orientation, or whatever other random factor might apply to them, has the potential to be sex repulsed for one reason or another. Sex repulsion is simply the state of finding sex repulsive and it's not particularly picky about who might end up feeling that way. Link to post Share on other sites
GirlDreamer Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Just because you're A doesn't mean you have to be B. No matter what sexual or romantic orientation a person have, we're all different with different likes and interests. There can even be people that considers themselves aromantic asexual, but that still enjoys sex. Because behaviour isn't the same as orientation. An asexual person might love and even crave sex, they just lack the sexual attraction. And and asexual person might be indifferent or even repulsed. But the same can be true for a sexual person. Doesn't matter what orientation, skin colour, sex, hight, nationality etc, we're all different. Link to post Share on other sites
Unseasonal Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I think I would be a heteroromantic asexual who's repulsed by sex. Well, sometimes a little biromantic, but basically leaning more towards heteroromantic. I would love to have a relationship; kiss, cuddle, share my life with one person, be their partner through life, their family, do romantic date-type things :P , live with them when it got serious enough. Personally, I wouldn't be repulsed by the body of someone I love. I am repulsed by the bodies of people I don't like. But I would be repulsed by the act of sex/parts of my own body that would mean I wouldn't want to have sex with my hypothetical partner. I would do it if they really wanted it, but I wouldn't like it, and I'd struggle to understand why they wanted to do these gross things with me. Link to post Share on other sites
Raptor Posted November 29, 2012 Author Share Posted November 29, 2012 Interesting replys. I thought that a heteromantic could be repulsed by sex but wasn't sure on it though Link to post Share on other sites
JGR Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 I'm heteroromantic and sex-repulsed/nervous about sex. But I love the idea of cuddling and tongue-free kissing. :) x Link to post Share on other sites
Mostly Peaceful Ryan Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 Moved from Asexual Q&A to Romantic and Aromantic Orientations GIR, Asexual Q&A Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 Correct! :D of course there will also sexuals, asexuals, homoromantics, aromantics etc. that will have some form of repulsion or not. Link to post Share on other sites
ragemaiden Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 Sure! And even within that is a spectrum to be found. I'm heteroromantic who can enjoy sex but is moderately grossed out by oral stuff. I second what GirlDreamer said about variety :) Link to post Share on other sites
Raptor Posted December 1, 2012 Author Share Posted December 1, 2012 And I thought there was something wrong with me being repulsed by sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Unseasonal Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 And I thought there was something wrong with me being repulsed by sex. I thought that too. But sometimes I think there's something wrong with other people for finding it so attractive. And then I feel bad for being a prude and judging people. It's just tough being in the minority, but I don't think our feelings our wrong. We just don't like something other people do like. As long as we respect other people feel differently, it's ok to be repulsed. Link to post Share on other sites
weethreequarter Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 personally, not too keen on the idea of sex either. i'm not totally against it, but i don't think it would bother me if i never had sex. Link to post Share on other sites
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