Ariana 358 Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 I'm new here, over 40 with a youthful spirit and I'm tired of people just not getting it when I say I'm not in the dating arena. Friendship is great- just zero interest in sex, zero interest in romance (with no disdain for the sexually active). But I'm completely able to have deep feelings of love and appreciation for friends. Because we are human we have value and worth! We can celebrate, love, admire and appreciate each friend's beauty and magnificence! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tonibeth Posted May 3, 2020 Share Posted May 3, 2020 Hi! I'm late 30s in the Bay area (Fremont). Kinda asexual but also love having friends. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted May 28, 2020 Share Posted May 28, 2020 On 4/17/2020 at 11:47 PM, Ariana 358 said: I'm new here, over 40 with a youthful spirit and I'm tired of people just not getting it when I say I'm not in the dating arena. Friendship is great- just zero interest in sex, zero interest in romance (with no disdain for the sexually active). But I'm completely able to have deep feelings of love and appreciation for friends. Because we are human we have value and worth! We can celebrate, love, admire and appreciate each friend's beauty and magnificence! There are 3 meetup groups in Bay Area ,Sacramento or Southern California area Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LHan Posted June 16, 2020 Share Posted June 16, 2020 I'm in San Jose 🙋🏻♀️ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Keva9 Posted September 16, 2021 Share Posted September 16, 2021 Hi everyone! My first post ever! I and early 50s, asexual/heteromantic, very introverted, very self-aware, seeking friends within 1 hour of Sonoma County (SF bay area). Another member posted about a 'designated companion"...i would love to create/find that, with someone I feel comfortable with/strong resonance/ develop deep friendship. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tanwen Posted September 17, 2021 Share Posted September 17, 2021 Welcome to AVEN in general and Oldies in particular. Hope you'll enjoy and feel confident about posting - we're a friendly bunch Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted September 19, 2021 Share Posted September 19, 2021 @Keva9 I would check out this meetup thread on the forum called " California Meetup list (Official)" or use the search engine on the forum to find the thread. I'm 51 year old heteroromantic introvert female living in Northern California. I am trying to find older asexual born before 1973 in Northern california so we can support each other. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ponchie Posted July 30, 2022 Share Posted July 30, 2022 youthful attractive 70 year old desires friendship or romance. Asexual Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted July 31, 2022 Share Posted July 31, 2022 Just a gentle reminder that AVEN isn't a dating site. To want to meet fellow Aces for socialising is fine, Meet-up mart is the forum for that. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mtara Posted April 23, 2023 Share Posted April 23, 2023 I’m 40s w in lake county . ukiah area. I am new . I discovered asexual about when men tells me “sexy “ makes me very upset me . I don’t like that word .there are tons of people wearing sexy clothes why me . I like that people tell me beautiful very much . men is often using friendship word turn to be want to something I don’t want . Very disappointed about life doesn’t feel safe.waste of my time energy. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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