demikitten Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 I am demisexual and in a happy, committed, very loving relationship with a hypersexual allosexual. But I LOVE having sex with them and no amount is too much for me so in that arena we are great! However, I'm struggling because they constantly kind of graphically verbally sexualize, like everybody. It doesn't make me jealous but it makes me REALLY REALLY bored and I just don't like it or relate especially because there's this expectation of me to make a lot of room and space to have drawn out conversations about how sexy x y or z random person on Instagram, celebrity, stranger on Facebook, person on the street is. And they MIGHT VERY WELL BE but as a demi person I don't want to talk about it in depth like that because I genuinely do not care. That said I also don't want to stifle or censor my partner but I just don't relate. Any advice? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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