Sarcastic Bob Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Okay, one thing I absolutely hate is being under pressure. I absolutely hate the idea that someday your life might depend on how fast you can run, or whatever. I also hate the idea of being given strict time limits with dire consequences, and so on. The thing is, if the consequence is something comical or if it links into one of my other fetishes, all of a sudden it becomes really arousing. So for instance, someone having ten minutes to escape a set of ropes otherwise [fetishy thing] would happen to them, that would be a definite turn on. I've heard that sometimes people develop fetishes in order to deal with stuff they don't like the idea of, and I think that might be true in this case. The trouble is, because I don't know the name for it (if there even is a name) I've been unable to find any porn relating to it. As ridiculous as it sounds it also makes me feel quite unpleasantly weird thinking that I might be the only one with this kink. Does anyone know of a name or a term for it, or even if it exists somewhere outside of my head? Cheers. Link to post Share on other sites
knout Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 This tends to be a good point of reference to find kinks/fetishes and most paraphilias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphilias Could it be that?Autassassinophilia Being in life-threatening situations Symphorophilia Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents Good luck :) Link to post Share on other sites
Schrecken Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 I've never heard of that kind of kink, but it's clear that you aren't the only one who has ever had an interest in such situations. Consider all of the escape artists from Houdini on who were really into that kind of thing (and not just as a fantasy), though no word on whether or not any of them found it arousing in that way. But that kind of thing is also an adrenaline rush for many people, even those who garner no arousal from it. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarcastic Bob Posted October 28, 2014 Author Share Posted October 28, 2014 This tends to be a good point of reference to find kinks/fetishes and most paraphilias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphilias Could it be that? Autassassinophilia Being in life-threatening situations Symphorophilia Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents Good luck :) I already checked that, but cheers. The two you listed are too "serious" to really match up; the key thing is it has to be something trivial/fetishy, like getting soaked or something. On the plus side, there were a lot of fetishes I know about that aren't on that list. Where's Quagmire when you need him? I've never heard of that kind of kink, but it's clear that you aren't the only one who has ever had an interest in such situations. Consider all of the escape artists from Houdini on who were really into that kind of thing (and not just as a fantasy), though no word on whether or not any of them found it arousing in that way. But that kind of thing is also an adrenaline rush for many people, even those who garner no arousal from it. Huh, I'd have thought that if escape artists did partially do it for the kink element, it'd be more a general bondage thing than anything else. For me it doesn't have to be escaping ties; it can also be outrunning someone, sneaking away from someone or pretty much any tense, high pressure situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Frac Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 http://fetishfuel.wikia.com/wiki/Examples_of_Common_Kinks,_Tropes,_Clichés,_and_Fetishes Here's a more comprehensive list of common kinks, hopefully you'll find something at least close to what you're looking for. Sorry for the formatting, I'm posting this on my phone. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarcastic Bob Posted October 30, 2014 Author Share Posted October 30, 2014 http://fetishfuel.wikia.com/wiki/Examples_of_Common_Kinks,_Tropes,_Clichés,_and_Fetishes Here's a more comprehensive list of common kinks, hopefully you'll find something at least close to what you're looking for. Sorry for the formatting, I'm posting this on my phone. For a moment I honestly thought it'd be on there considering the size of the list, but it doesn't seem to be :-( The weird thing is, even though there's about 400 items on there, I can think of some really common ones that they'd missed. To be fair most of them had a lot to do with sex scenes and fanservice, so I guess that makes a weird sort of sense. Link to post Share on other sites
Frac Posted October 30, 2014 Share Posted October 30, 2014 For a moment I honestly thought it'd be on there considering the size of the list, but it doesn't seem to be :-( The weird thing is, even though there's about 400 items on there, I can think of some really common ones that they'd missed. To be fair most of them had a lot to do with sex scenes and fanservice, so I guess that makes a weird sort of sense. Due to the nature of kinks and fetishes alike, (that is, just how many of them exist), making a perfect list is pretty impossible. Don't worry, it can't be the most weird and obscure thing one can have. I think what makes it so hard to find, is that it seems to be a combination kink. I mean, if you replace the "fetish thing" with sex, it'd just be preferring porn with a certain plot device. I wouldn't be surprised if it was in fact a semi-common one in erotic fiction, but only sans the fetish thing and instead with regular old sex. Good luck trying to find some material with both this kink and whatever other fetish(es) you have, you'll need it. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarcastic Bob Posted November 5, 2014 Author Share Posted November 5, 2014 For a moment I honestly thought it'd be on there considering the size of the list, but it doesn't seem to be :-( The weird thing is, even though there's about 400 items on there, I can think of some really common ones that they'd missed. To be fair most of them had a lot to do with sex scenes and fanservice, so I guess that makes a weird sort of sense. Due to the nature of kinks and fetishes alike, (that is, just how many of them exist), making a perfect list is pretty impossible. Don't worry, it can't be the most weird and obscure thing one can have. I think what makes it so hard to find, is that it seems to be a combination kink. I mean, if you replace the "fetish thing" with sex, it'd just be preferring porn with a certain plot device. I wouldn't be surprised if it was in fact a semi-common one in erotic fiction, but only sans the fetish thing and instead with regular old sex. Good luck trying to find some material with both this kink and whatever other fetish(es) you have, you'll need it. Not necessarily. I don't think you could replace the fetishy thing with sex without straying into rape territory, and it's such a strong kink that pretty much anything fetish-related will do. Again, I just wish I had a name I could put to it. After that the rest should be fairly easy. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 5, 2014 Share Posted November 5, 2014 This may be a question you need to pose to Fetlife or some other fetish community. It sounds rare enough that you'd need to find people very experienced to know if there is a name for it. But, I doubt you are the only person in the world to have it. Link to post Share on other sites
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