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The Bajorans on the extremely off chance that I'd get to meet Commander Kira? Not that they would be likely to abduct anyone.

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Maybe the Tactillians from the newest Futurama season. They're a peaceful and understanding people, they live and breathe that pneumatic lifestyle, and they're not afraid to hug.

The nox from Stargate sg1

People have can have wildly differing categories of what actions they place as romantic or platonic - that's why clear communication is all the more important to make sure you guys are on the same page to avoid hurting yourself, them or anyone else. I had a potentially awkward situation earlier this week where I was having a conversation with a stranger who suddenly gave off very strong "I'm interested in you" vibes - but it didn't register until we'd already been talking for a bit & then I felt desperate to leave & find my friends. I think he's one of those who were lo

I guess my hopes were possibly twofold. For us, maybe if they are savvy with ace and mixed relationships they could provide some experience, tips or guidance on how to best navigate a relationship - especially the first adjustment period. Secondly would be more for my partner - to see if we could explore the recent No Touch element and see if it is something that is here to stay. I think my partner could also do with some professional advice and support as they are dealing with a lot of change in themselves as well as stress at work and with family. I think for me it would make a h

Better than yesterday.

The human heart I'm gonna do this every time I change my avatar...which will be very often.

Well most xenogenders aren’t like that. For foxgender, people aren’t foxes, they just find connections with their gender to foxes. I’m not an expert on xenogenders but that is what I’ve learned when I researched them.

This has my strong endorsement! I almost wish I had said it myself.

This is really helpful, thanks! As you can see, I have a hard time understanding all this stuff. I will admit that I have also had sexy feelings for this guy -- but absolutely no desire to act on them, which is part of why I consider myself ace. I'm sure there is a microlabel for this, but tbh idc what it's called. Meanwhile, if I read you rightly, it sounds like you're saying chemistry is chemistry. That goes a long way to at least reassuring me I'm not crazy, so thanks for that! -j

Soup is such a comfort food, isn't it? I'm all about the classics too, like chicken noodle and potato soup. Ramen is a go-to for me, especially when I want something quick and satisfying.

Yeah, this was something that bothered me. I suspected that may have been happening -- which to me would indicate some boundary issues, in which case, I am much, much better off without him! But, I like him enough that I don't want that to be true, because, well, you know, crushes. Until I know otherwise, this guy poops rainbows, you know? XD -j

I have lots of places on my bucket list already. Finding new ones to add wouldn't be too much trouble, though.

Haha, great questions! Underlying part of my rant was the fact that I can observe the microcues as they are happening, but I can't figure out what they mean! Many of these are unconscious behaviors, so I think it would prob take a lot of work to suppress them: 1. dilated eyes when talking to me 2. eyes following me when I walk past (esp when I'm wearing something that others compliment me a lot on, i.e. I look sexy) 3. fidgeting when I approach; this happened a LOT early on -- he sees me coming to talk to him, he makes sure he grabs a paper clip or some other thing to twirl betw

Devil Gate Drive is a cracking song, but I think I would put it into the category of "rock" rather than "rock n' roll". I think they are two fundamentally different music genres. When I think of rock n' roll, the first song that comes to my mind is Rock Around the Clock. Despite its lyrics, it is a classic example of rock n' roll.

Also by the way, as for learning Norwegian - at least at that time I was still at an age when I travelled with my mom... and now she prefers travelling with her husband, and I can't afford travelling abroad at all. So I'm unlikely even to revisit Norway ("even"... actually, I haven't even been to Ukraine, which is quite clearly closer anyway, and small ski towns such as Nadvirna or Vorokhta can be considered safe even now - although it's a valid question whether it's OK to visit Ukraine in a touristic manner during the war, as if nothing happened...), and I went there just knowing that there a

I don't think I know enough about alien zoology to pick a species. But I remember a story about a friend of mine who was in the bathtub while under the influence of ayahuasca - suddenly, the aliens landed through the ceiling and demanded his brain for experiments... He's one of those Bella and me always mention, when we say that we have a tendency to befriend weirdoes. (And believe me, just a psychonaut and drifter is nothing compared to "silly Alice" who tells some totaly invented stories... actually, she's a poor woman, she's trans and quite clearly suffers from some "mental diso

Harry Potter And The Philosopher's Stone

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I also learned some French and Latin during my studies. But, to be honest, I always found learning French difficult. But I still... somehow felt I "should", considering my partially French roots. (Anyone knows the movie "Madame Sans-Gêne", with Sophia Loren - or perhaps its theatrical original, although I don't think it's played much anymore nowadays? The protagonist, Catherine Hübscher-Lefebvre, was my ancestor. )