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Naples

I don't usually think at all. I just zone out, ideally. Sometimes there's a fantasy, but it's more of a scenario I return to because I associate with "I should find this erotic" rather than because I find it erotic at ALL on its own.

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Vincent

I don't think of anything, just how it feels.

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Chaotic Rice

I'm another "fictional characters, not my self!" person! XD I have a lot of favorite pairings!(I'm a die-hard shipper!) I'll imagine myself as one of the characters, but sometimes I'll switch characters throughout one scene. Even if the character is the opposite sex, I'll still imagine myself as them. I usually imagine them masturbating eachother rather than having sex. However, I usually focus more on their expressions (and moans XD).

I've been doing this since I was eleven. XD

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I dont like carrots either

My fantasies have to be very elaborate. Like hugely so. I can't just start up a scene - even if I'm feeling horny beforehand - and get in to it. I need setup and backstory and reasons why people are where they are and who these people are and why they're together - but I think that's more the creative writing B.A. in me than actual necessity, though it may be necessity since I feel the need to have an emotional bond before the sex really does anything for me.

Once I get these set up though, they are usually fictional characters with a made up fictional character that I relate to - oddly, not a self insert as they never look like me at all and the description, sex, etc. varies for this relate-able character between stories. From there, it can become just normal sex or it can go into all kinds of farout fetishes. I think the only things I haven't explored are pony play, blowup fetishism and pedophilia.

By the end of a session - which I try to make last only about five minutes or less as I hate the time wasted masturbating - my mind is usually totally blank as I've started thinking about 'what should I make for supper?' oh wait, stop thinking about that, you're going to make this take longer.

The backstory and the 'scene' set me into the mood enough to do it when my body demands it, but they just can't carry through.

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Professor Godric

I don't think of anything.

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Chaotic Rice

Oh yeah, sometimes I don't think of anything either (especially when I was younger).

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Maverick Askew

I usually don't think of anything, but sometimes I just let my mind wander and I think about random mundane stuff while I masturbate to pass the time. I've never really thought about someone while masturbating, most of the time what arouses me is the physical stimulation. I do watch porn, and I think it is the voyeuristic quality that can get me turned on. I can't fantasize about people, but I've tried because a lot of people talk about doing that; I just can't seem to picture people having sex or anything in my head. I don't feel any desire what-so-ever to have sex, but I think it's interesting watching others, but sometimes the repetitiveness of it makes me bored.

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as24

It really depends on what mood I'm in. There are times when my mind is so full that I couldn't help but think of fictional characters, although I have never thought about anyone I actually know or even myself. Then there are times when my mind is quiet and still and I stop thinking. During these times, I'm more about the simple pleasure of touching myself and knowing there is no need to worry about impressing anyone or that I'm doing something wrong. I just enjoy the way my body is feeling at that moment.

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federica

what do I think when I'm masturbating? Just me

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Chaotic Rice

what do I think when I'm masturbating? Just me

Ha, I do that too sometimes! XD

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Beatrice

Most of the times, I am concentrating on the feeling while thinking about what I'm going to do when I'm done.

Some times, I imagine a fictional situation with fictional people, probably characters from one of my stories.

I have never felt the urge to fantasize about a real person, even ones I had a crush on. When I tried to do that, just to see if I would be able to do it as sexual people seem to, it just made me lose my concentration and did not enhance the "experience" in any way.

Probably I am repeating what other people have said, but I gave it a try. :3

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Pinki Keane

I'm with most of you on this. I have thought of scenarios involving made up characters (never myself) as well. The scenarios rarely involve actual sex, though they are usually about a situation leading up to it. But I don't do this often.

Mostly I play cretin songs and just focus on the music, usually something without words. Most recently it has been Panoranic from the Book of Eli soundtrack :/ {weird} I also imagine... this may be strange too but... really really bright sunlight that makes your eyes squint. Usually a sunset that is beaming through tree branches or something... errr yeah that's it :redface:

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Hermathena

I make up sexual senarios with human beings (homo and hetero) and maybe animals but I never play a part role in the stories.

Its just like watching porno movies but in my imagination.

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Smashly

Usually when I masturbate I do use some porn but only to get things going. Once I've got a good visual of the scene in my mind I can then focus on developing the scene and the sensations. Scenes are either about myself or fictional characters, usually zoomorphic, daemons, xenos, synthetic or mythical creatures but never humans.

I tend to make up short stories about why and how I'm in certain scenes. I don't feel the need for long back stories. My scenes are massively fetish orientated, usually transformations, bdsm, sentient interspecies romances, merging and several others I'd rather keep secret. Sometimes there might be sex in my fantasies but it's definitely more about my feelings towards that character and the sensuality than the act alone. My head is still the only place that sex is going to happen for me :P

Things are just better in your head :lol:

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MelissaJC

to stimulate a sensation, I always think about having sex with anime characters - I don't think I've ever had a real person in my head

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Smallrus

I don't mean to sound sick or anything..but I'm wondering something. I feel a physical "good feeling" while masterbating..I never usually think "meh" or "it isn't working" which makes me wonder, is this signs of me leaning towards being a sexual person or is it possible to still be asexual but enjoy masterbating?

Shinnok, masturbation feels good because you're stimulating your genitals. Plain and simple. It has nothing to do with your sexual attraction to other people. I have the same experience, and have never felt sexually attracted in any way to anything.

As for what I think about? Nothing, really. As I saw one user write somewhere else, "It's just me and my junk." And, I mean, if that certain spot on your body gives you pleasure, why the hell not? It's free and easy.

I suppose you could say I imagine the orgasm and work toward it, but that's not really a visualization. It's like seeing bacon and thinking "If I eat that bacon, it will be tasty and I will no longer be hungry."

When I was questioning my orientation I decided "Hell with it, let's watch porn and see if it works." So I headed over to RedTube and loaded up examples of several categories. Blegh. They made me want to take a shower, and not that kind of shower. I felt unclean. When I imagine anything, let alone a sexual situation, during masturbation it's like my genitals want to leave and crawl under a rock.

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Vampyremage

Sometimes I think of nothing at all and just concentrate on the sensations that I'm experiences. In the right mood, however, I do think of certain scenarios. Like many of the previous posters, usually those scenarios involve completely imagined characters. A certain physical aesthetic but never an actual person. I have some masochist tendencies and a bit of a blood fetish, so on the occasions when I do let my mind wander and think of things, it often involves being tied up and bleeding or sometimes my imaginary partner bleeding. My fantasies don't really involve actual sex, just the sensuality of of the experience.

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FrozenCherry

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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ushuaia

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the interesting part about when I do it (TMI warning here people) I think about girls, but not girls who are 'sexy' in the conventional sense. I usually think mroe about girls that I see in real life, even though there may be sexier girls that I saw that day. Thinking about celebrities doesn't do it for me, I have a more off-beat taste.

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Elleipsis

It's usually "acts" themselves if that makes sense? For instance I've read maybe about certain acts in some stories, and I kind of explore the act itself, but there aren't people present, and if they are it's in an abstract way; they don't have faces and there are no discernible features, just blank shadows to play it out with. They have no definable presence or personality?

Occasionally I think about the acts in relation to myself, but if an abstract way I guess?

I've tried to place people in the fantasies, and it either has an adverse effect or makes me feel a little ill.

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suikakujyu

1. anime characters and pairings, never about myself. I will get a fetish for a pairing eg (Naruto - SakuraxItachi) and read fanfiction about them.

2. acts of rape (in anime only)

3. Sometimes wildlife documentaries on animals mating

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ArcticVanguard

It depends. Sometimes I just zone out, sometimes I think of current/past girlfriends, sometimes I think of fictional characters, sometimes I think of... *coughs* Um... Furry fandom things. .///.

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Rhaenys

1. anime characters and pairings, never about myself. I will get a fetish for a pairing eg (Naruto - SakuraxItachi) and read fanfiction about them.

When I used to like Naruto I used that couple still do sometimes mainly the scenes from FFs to <_< .

It's never myself in the sex acts. Usually anime pairings or I remember scenes from hentai with the couples going at it. When I'm in my thoughts it's usually me cuddling with someone from irl or me at times being a tease towards my ex or being a non sexual dominatrix to him ( once I used the image of me kissing his cheeks and playing with his hair , telling him I love him but I can't live without the poison ( or doing things to make him upset/ confused ) in our relations )

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wolfie

ok my turn ( :redface: very tmi): in high school and through college it was about wrestling (guy on guy,zoomorphic, anime) but it never went further into the sexual act. i had one of my fantasies go into the act,but it didn't turn out well and i lost feeling, so all it ever was just two guys wrestling. now, i just got tired of it, and just if it happens it happens (in private anyway :) )

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Can'tFindAGoodName

:cake: :D

Couldn't resist. :3

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Satrie

Sometimes a song that I've listened to randomly plays in my head. Other times it's the physical sensations. Then there's yiff. Also, a certain fetish that I have and the fantasies that goes with it. And through the internet only: when my some of my guy friends do anything that I find really "cute," >3> but thinking of anything that has happened in real life puts me out of the mood.

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Fio

It's usually "acts" themselves if that makes sense? For instance I've read maybe about certain acts in some stories, and I kind of explore the act itself, but there aren't people present, and if they are it's in an abstract way; they don't have faces and there are no discernible features, just blank shadows to play it out with. They have no definable presence or personality?

Occasionally I think about the acts in relation to myself, but if an abstract way I guess?

I've tried to place people in the fantasies, and it either has an adverse effect or makes me feel a little ill.

That makes complete sense to me! :) That's the way most of my fantasies are (altho for some reason, I always give the guy (and it's always a guy) a name, but as far as physical characteristics go, there's nothing there). Same thing for reading erotic stories.

Not quite the same when watching porn, because there are definite people there, but I'm not putting myself in the place of one of the people in the video. It's the act that fascinates me, or the emotion I can feel from the video (like in most BDSM or spanking videos I've seen, I either get the sense of anger or strict control, and that's what I focus on).

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Conker

I'm too incapable of just shutting my brain off, so I think of random shit that probably ruins the moment now that I think about it. Ah well :3 Still good for the prostate.

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Vdougie

Warning: TMI (Very Graphic)

I normally fantasize about zoomorphic creatures, yiff, animals, animals mating, interspecies erotica (bestiality), transformation fetishes, or being a furry. My fantasies are very surreal and are usually sci-fi. Sometimes, I fantasize about having sex with furries straight, gay, or herm sex. I've recently began fantasizing about being humiliated and abused by furries and involving me in such activities as omorashi (pee desperation), diaper fetism, and vampirism. Sometimes, I imagine that I am wearing drag while another male furry has anal and oral sex with me or I am involved in bdsm. Sometimes, I'm involved in a three or four way while one furry anally penetrates me and I am giving one furry oral sex; and sometimes one furry is giving me oral sex all simataneously! It usually involves alot of sexual fluids too.

I've fantasize having sex with all sorts of creatures ranging from aliens, to werewolves, to demons, to furries, and even to monsters. Some of the creatures I've seen from TV/movies are involved in my fantasies.

Pretty weird stuff, huh?

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Cazz333
*cough*Remus/Sirius*cough* And I imagine myself as Remus. *runs away*

(Yeah, I'm a gay man in a woman's body.)

You are awesome! I go through rounds with this one now and then -- I imagine myself as Sirius, incidentally. :D

I should add, then, although I never picture myself in any scenarios, I do usually associate with another person...

Pretty much what I think; I'm a man who sometimes is with a woman or a man but is never that sexual with them or sort of does for the connection not the pleasure.

If I'm a woman, I become slightly less asexual and more sexual unless it's with men. Most of the time though, it's random sensual scenes usually just hugs, massages, lounging in the sun feeling its heat or just water. Sometimes I get waterfalls of numbers twisting themselves in all sorts of shapes and colours.

I think about fictional chracters.

But it's them on their own...not invloving me.

If anything real slips in, I squick and nearly gag.

It's weird really, almost like a switch. Suddenly one's every thought is focused on the desired goal, but before and afterwards one has no urge or inclination to pursue it. It's like not wanting chocolate ice cream, and then as soon as you start eating it, it's the best thing in the world and you can't slow down until you stop. And then after orgasm you don't like chocolate ice cream again. wtf?

My thoughts exactly. Like I don't even know why I start, usually through boredom or in the hope that it will send me to sleep, but then once in it... well I can't actually articulate it better than synx13 to be honest.

But exactly what you said. Good analogy with the chocolate ice cream though! It is just as strange as losing all taste for a food after eating it. And not even wanting it before you have a bite.

Pretty much me. I'm out of it afterwards and have really bizarre dreams afterwards. Must be serotonin overload. It's probably that more than anything else; and the whole like erogenous sexuality that creeps in; that makes put it off for as long as I can biologically stand.

May be consider Explicit I hope not it's just to inform

Usually I'm just lying about, nothing sexual is happening or I haven't made a conscious decision that I'm going to masturbate but low and behold I have become aroused. Sometimes I just let it go away I'm perfectly happy with that. Other times I masturbate. I don't actually ever tough myself, that doesn't do anything for me it never has. I might think about sex vaguely or imagine to others having sex. I am never involved and no one has anything very distinguishing about them. I usually place something between my legs like a large blanket just for pressure and it only takes a few minutes to take care of it. Afterwards i continue on like nothing has happened, like oh ok that task is completed time to do something else. It's not a big hang up for me it's enjoyable but not enough so that it's something I seek out. And that's pretty much it.

I wish I could do that. But it's never intense enough.

Usually, it's humans I envisage, or its aliens but never interspecies stuff. Certainly no animals although I did envisage that more when I was a lot younger and I think in a more fetish-y kind of stage.

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