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Kathlyn

well umm I always put myself into a fictional character, different time, and always have it coerced... never really thought hard about the last part until now. I think it could be because I would never put myself into a situation in which I have sex. it also removes emotions and leaves the stimulation (which I focus on, what the people/person is doing to me). but then during the day I have running stories in my head, which aren't about sex, but rather me (but not me) having a happy ending, through various and always changing situations (though always historical setting and in other dementions)

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Chuckney

Whilst I usually start off thinking about fictional characters (always men, men masturbating themselves or men together), my mind actually wanders so much while I masturbate I've caught myself thinking about the most ridiculous and entirely banal things. Like, what to cook for dinner. Where's my Waterstones card. I wonder if we'll get a snow day this winter.

I don't really derive any pleasure from masturbating until the actual point of orgasm. Until that moment I can completely forget I'm even doing it. It doesn't feel like a sexual thing at all.

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Rappy28

Let's just say it almost always involves bondage, but never me or real actual people. Real life people popping in kills the mood, big time.

So it's mostly "faceless" people (i.e. I just made them up on spot) or fictional characters who are only there for the logistics, and it often involves a woman, because I can relate to the feelings better.

And basically, the only motive behind it is that it helps me sleep. I usually end up doing it when I've been in bed for at least one hour, and still can't sleep. <_< I don't really feel an "itch" I've seen many people mention.

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Dylan-Michael

Never myself having sex. Either Made-up people. Or just the Pleasure that comes from masturbation. I can never imagine myself doing anything, and if I do it turns me off pretty quickly.

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WakingDreamer

I fantasize about my fetish, mostly, though it's rarely involving myself. It's usually with two fictional characters.

I've attempted to think about sex, about myself, about people I know.. doesn't work. I get bored and lose track of what I'm trying to get finished.

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Orion

Honestly, I think about nothing...

Seeing or thinking about people just doesn't turn me on. The only reason that I ever feel horny is due to my hormone levels, I believe. The two days before the beginning of my menstrual cycle I am just, well...horny. Not a lot but enough. But anyway, I get bored or tired halfway through and usually give up and dance instead to burn off energy. I've never derived any pleasure from it.

Dance is fun! Yay polka!!

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Cupcake_Master

Think..

Ah. My inner animes.

As in, those day dreams I have in my head that are connected. Cartoons in my head; I have two series. One based off the Pokemon games and one I made up three years ago.

Anything about them.

Yea, I don't get it either..

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jay williams

I don't masturbate very much anymore. I used to enjoy it though. The older I get the less I get aroused enough to desire to masturbate. Oftentimes, I start and then go limp before I can get much out of it. I have learned a lot through masturbating though. I found out I am bisexual. I not only get turned on by thinking about women, I also get turned on by thinking about male genitalia. I think that masturbating is kind of a truth detector. We can tell ourselves that homosexual behaviors are disgusting, but if we keep totally aroused and salivate when thinking about the sexual parts of somebody of the same gender, it is obvious that...well the real truth comes out.

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Plague #11

I'll think about things like what I want for lunch, my plans for the next day, my plans for later in the day, whatever. Not once have I ever thought sexual things while masturbating.

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Well, when I was 10 my thought would start off kind of sexual, but just seconds later my mind would go blank.

Sexual thoughts tend to make me laugh which in turn tends to turn me off.

Though thinking sexual things on purpose to turn me off doesn't do any good. :mellow:

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FallenAngel

I don't really think of anything, just if I can find the place where it feels the best.

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chrysalide

I usually think of TV/movie/books characters, and almost always imagine myself as being one of them.

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Mistoffelees

I think about some sort of a competition between me and a girl where the girl is winning. It's the only thing I've found that arouses me (besides mechanical stimulation). And I have yet to find anyone else with this fetish.

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Shinnok

A few days ago, while masturbating, by accident thoughts of the character in my avatar went through my head and it really really aroused me. I got really ashamed and almost stopped masturbating

I hate it when that happens...

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niku-bot

I have a fetish. I think of that, and the only way this fetish arouses me is through fiction, which I've always found odd. In real life, it does nothing for me. But even in fiction, it doesn't always do anything for me. It's always been the same scene, for as long as I can remember, and I never seem to really tire of it. I've never in the scene, either, never have been, haha.

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Misterstomp

I don't think of anything. Before I knew I was asexual (which was recently) I use to look at a lot of porn. The porn did not do anything at all. I can masterbate just to the feeling of it. I find myself masterbating less and less each day now.

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Abel

When I was younger I would Masturbate just because I enjoyed the feeling. Then I discovered pornography and I have never parted from it. When I masturbate I usually think about everyone of my fantasies (which usually takes an hour or so), female & male genitalia's, physical attributes of men and women, transsexuals, hermaphroditic women, fetishes (legs & feet mostly, but also gagging), interspecies sex (involving me), and a nice round ba-donka-donk.

I am not Asexual. If you really want insight to what my sexuality is, take a guess because its probably better than mine.

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tattool

Other people than me having sex. Porn is good to speed up the process. xD

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Adrian P W

I am usually not there, or else bodyless. Nobody is naked, and if they are the "details" are absent. I don't seem able to imagine any specific "feeling" when imagining touching. Usually what I focus on is the expressions of the parties, or else the impersonal concepts of the fantasy (which I won't elaborate on!). Usually I will be fixated on one particular (real) person for a long time and they are the consistent factor, but sometimes there is no specific person or even gender.

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Professor Godric
*cough*Remus/Sirius*cough* And I imagine myself as Remus. *runs away*

(Yeah, I'm a gay man in a woman's body.)

You are awesome! I go through rounds with this one now and then -- I imagine myself as Sirius, incidentally. :D

I should add, then, although I never picture myself in any scenarios, I do usually associate with another person...

Glorious win.

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Mike555

I have a fetish. I think of that, and the only way this fetish arouses me is through fiction, which I've always found odd. In real life, it does nothing for me.

yeah I'm the same

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Floor

I don't do it anymore, but I used to think about whatever popped into my head, which was pretty banal "what am I doing later" kind of stuff. No sexual thoughts whatsoever.

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Gas Mask John

Anything. potatoes, ham, what am I going to do after this, did I leave something in the microwave, but at some point or another war and gore come to mind.

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Silly

hmmm...not much. It's about the feeling of release for me. Strangely, I see colors sometimes. Red when I hurry, Blue and Green when I slow things down. I don't have fantasy of other people or scenarios though.

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Changed773

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an1malclawz

I usually think of a girl with no clothes on or with clothes, that is masturbating herself, but I wouldn't imagine myself having sex with a girl though.

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Rappy28

When I was very young, it was always being tied up. Just the act of being restrained or tied up did it for me. As I got older, my fantasies included men, but always faceless. I have never been sexually attracted to the blank, faceless men in my fantasies, but more of what they do to me. My fantasy fetish is being coerced or forced. I think this comes from not wanting sex in real life. Perhaps some part of me feels guilty to have sex and enjoy it? So I must be "forced" in my fantasies. Psychology here! :lol:

I'm not sure about the psychology behind it, maybe bondage is just plain awesome. Glad I'm not the only one here. :lol:

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womaninablackdress

I can watch a comedy and cum. I don't know if there are many women like me (I'm guessing it's easier for women to cum without fantasizing). Most of the time it's just a physical thing. I can think about just getting the "job" done or nothing at all.

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lpsim580

This seems like a really freeing subject and very... :blush:...private. lol i don't even talk about this with my friends.

I think about 2 people sometimes fictional characters, usually real (gay or straight). NEVER myself lol. ANd I have to focus really hard...probably my ADD haha sometimes my mind slips out of focus and into other daily stuff. Though, I have had sex dreams about myself as a man, though I'm a woman for real so I don't understand that.

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The Doctor Who?

Nothing. Maybe about the rest of my day, school, grocery shopping, whatever my head is full of-- my mind wanders. But if I were too focus on something sexual, definitely just the physical feeling. :blink: x

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WhenSummersGone

I usually focus on the feeling. If that doesn't work then I think about a fetish or maybe someone I may have some sexual feelings for.

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