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Saint Destruction
I'm another one who only gets aroused by pretty extreme fantasies. Like Heligan, I've probably done it to nearly everything except necrophilia and paedophilia. :oops: Alright, and politicophilia. George Bush will never fulfil any fantasies I might dream up.

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Ditto. The things in my brain are strange at best. Down right disturbing at worst.

The beauty of it is that it is in your head. Your mind is one of the few places you can explore without any commitment whatsoever. You don't have to be gay to imagine sex with your own gender, you don't have to cure your acrophobia to imagine flying.

I love the mind :)

As for fantasy specifics - demons, bdsm, aliens, monsters, cavemen, animals, humiliation, captivity, gods, power. But mostly demons - with angelic captives XD

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Morgenstern

Nothing :?

I have a vibrator and masturbation is merely stress relief for me so I don't really want to think about anything.

I used to have a lot of sexual fantasies when I was younger but now I can't think of anything that arouses me - I sometimes come up with things that make me think "That would be kinda hot" but nothing further.

Porn makes me want to vomit or even laugh because it is just SO absurd. Not my cup of tea.

Explicit fanfiction is nice but it doesn't do anything for me either.

So yeah, I guess my mind is a rather boring place.

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ghostgurl

I think about my fetish. It doesn't work for me otherwise, and no I'm not going to say what my fetish is because it's a secret I like to keep to myself.

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............

I don't really think about anything but the technicality of it.

I'm similar to Morgenstern; I used to have fantasies, but they went away.

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Ryan Pawz

Wow, do I really want you to know.

Well, I actually tried to fantasize about the sex act, erm, both ways even! I think I lost a few brain cells, and i got nothing out of it.

Now, on to what does get me going. I seem to be a very sensation driven soul. That lil fact would go great with being a sexual person, but for some reason or another, I am not.

So yeah, I'm one of those fetish people, I constantly think about being tied up, wrapped, or any number of things that will render me immobilized. I really enjoy the thought of just simply being transformed into an object, or statue.

I have shared this with others before, but not with anyone that would do anything with me.

Well there you have it, scared you yet?

Cheers luvlys!

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Ryan Pawz

Wow, now that got a smile going, thanks ^^

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BaronTheCat

I don't think about anything, really.

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tinkerboi
At the risk of sounding like a 12-year-old girl, I almost invariably think of fictional characters. My thoughts have never involved people I know, and they have never involved myself.

I do think of someone I know but I would totally freak me out if they actually wanted too.

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tinkerboi
At the risk of sounding like a 12-year-old girl, I almost invariably think of fictional characters. My thoughts have never involved people I know, and they have never involved myself.

I do think of someone I know but I would totally freak me out if they actually wanted too.

It is seeing a naked body that is a turn on, not doing stuff.

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beardsley007

Half the time I am simply concentrating on what I'm doing and the, cough, pleasure. The other half of the time I may fantisize about fictional or imaginary people never anyone I know and never including myself.

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myst

im usually doing my shopping list or trying to follow the plotline of friends on my tv

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Kamtoad

Usually I'm think along the lines of "What's the big deal about this? It's not doing anything for me, just feels... meh." It may well be why most of the times I masturbate it's out of curiosity to see if I can work out why people think it feels good. Never have worked it out.

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Shinnok

I don't mean to sound sick or anything..but I'm wondering something. I feel a physical "good feeling" while masterbating..I never usually think "meh" or "it isn't working" which makes me wonder, is this signs of me leaning towards being a sexual person or is it possible to still be asexual but enjoy masterbating?

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Apollonian
Half the time I am simply concentrating on what I'm doing and the, cough, pleasure.

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I guess it just goes to further illustrate how different I am from everyone else, but I've never been able to comprehend the idea of using visual aids or fantasizing about another person, real or fictional. Not only do I lack any interest in having sex with another person, but I couldn't even visualize myself having sex with another person in any kind of context whatsoever. I just don't get why or how one would. The thought of fantasizing about another person while masturbating... *shudders* no.

I'm not sure where that would place me even among asexuals since I have no interest in sex with another person in reality and even less in fantasy.

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EyeballKid
I'm not sure where that would place me even among asexuals since I have no interest in sex with another person in reality and even less in fantasy.

I doubt you're the only A in that situation. I have never fantasized about having sex with anyone, real or fictional. I can fantasize about having certain conversations with someone in particular, but definitely not sex.

And I don't masturbate, but I have tried a couple of times, just because I had read about it in books I liked and thought I'd see for myself. So I guess I was thinking about those books at the time, but didn't try for too long. I just found it boring and a rather unproductive use of my hands.

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Hallucigenia
I don't mean to sound sick or anything..but I'm wondering something. I feel a physical "good feeling" while masterbating..I never usually think "meh" or "it isn't working" which makes me wonder, is this signs of me leaning towards being a sexual person or is it possible to still be asexual but enjoy masterbating?

No, there are plenty of asexual people who do enjoy it (as well as plenty who don't).

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thewrll

I dont really fantasize or its really just thinking about fantasies which dont include me having sex but may include what was in the porn I watched, looked at, or read or something else.

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SandyStar

Hi there, I just discovered the word asexual and I think that describes me.

I masturabate once in a blue moon (very rarely, like a few times a year). When I do I usually think of machines touching me. LOL I never think about people. Even when I do masturbate I lose interest very quickly and often just getting aroused a little is enough to satisfy my physical need.

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Shinnok

I usualy think about kind of disgusting sex acts between other people..usually gay sex and this bothers me..I want to just stop masterbating completely. Because having those thoughts while doing it makes me sound like a sexual..which I don't want to be. I don't have any fetishes. I only get aroused from sexual things but I really wish I didn't.

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Ampzr

May be consider Explicit I hope not it's just to inform

Usually I'm just lying about, nothing sexual is happening or I haven't made a conscious decision that I'm going to masturbate but low and behold I have become aroused. Sometimes I just let it go away I'm perfectly happy with that. Other times I masturbate. I don't actually ever tough myself, that doesn't do anything for me it never has. I might think about sex vaguely or imagine to others having sex. I am never involved and no one has anything very distinguishing about them. I usually place something between my legs like a large blanket just for pressure and it only takes a few minutes to take care of it. Afterwards i continue on like nothing has happened, like oh ok that task is completed time to do something else. It's not a big hang up for me it's enjoyable but not enough so that it's something I seek out. And that's pretty much it.

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thewrll

Yeah I just do it maybe once every two weeks at the most.

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Seien Hananosei
I think about fictional chracters.

But it's them on their own...not invloving me.

I don't actually masturbate, but I thought this was an interesting thread, so I decided to post anyway. But this applies to my radar thing.

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Mr. Death
It's kind of like a habit for me, actually. I'll just be sitting there, doing nothing in particular, not even aroused, and think, "I should masturbate." I hardly ever do it because I am turned on because usually if I do it doesn't turn out too well. I feel bad sometimes after doing it, sometimes even half way through. I get really sad after every now and then and I can't tell when I'll be sad and when I won't so I usually try to just avoid doing it.

I sort of recognize that and I also do it just to see if I'm still capable of doing it. I don't think I've ever had anything in mind but the task itself; watching it, imagining the end result and the coming sensations, the whole anatomy thing. On a few occasions I've lost concentration and quit halfway through, but never after the "point-of-no-return". Typically, during those occasions, I've started thinking about some chore that I really should do instead.

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Somnium-Imbrium

..Hello.

I just joined this site in order to respond, here. I'd like to include a forewarning that I was a bit curious if it were unusual to construct some sort of scenario around this act, and so I googled it, and this was one of the links. The rest were very focused on hardcore sorts of imaginings with the opposite sex, and I knew that the response I would have to give might not be understood quite as well there as here, where I found some common ground. [in other words, I really have no experience in voicing anything like I will be <shortly.> I have never had any sort of relationship beyond friendship. I have no idea whether this constitutes asexuality..This is the first time I've come across the term, really..Although I have never had the wish to sexually interact with anyone, including models, famous actors/musicians, people that I know on a personal basis, ect. Ah..And just to have it out there, I'm only eighteen.]

Well, then. I've read through every single comment in this topic, but still haven't managed to find a match for my response, though some are the same, generally. I never imagine myself as <...why do I find myself trying not to use the term outright?> masturbating, I usually imagine it between either fictional characters, where I occupy both the perspective of one, and a cursory 3rd person perspective <this is more likely,> or where I see from the perspective of a general male.

The thing is, I usually don't imagine it as a sexual act at all. I've done a number of searches attempting to find the correct term, and this is the closest I could find from the list volunteered earlier of -philia's: thanatophilia: death or dying. Please bear with me. This is likely very odd. The closest term I can come up with is martyrdom. I imagine that I am either being poisoned, I am running myself through with my own sword, or having my life drained from me or consumed voluntarily, to save or ease the life of another. There is usually a brief contextual background for whatever the situation. In the real world, I have never minded pain, and have not the slightest fear of dying, but idiot that I am, I'm absurdly sure that if it ever came to taking the bullet, I would do it for anyone, but that does not mean that I don't value my life, and that does not mean that I wish to die. I have no psychological disorders that I know of, I've never had the inclination to cut, I'm neither emo nor goth.

..Very sorry for wasting your time, but I was just wondering what you might make of this.

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genwiz314

Like a lot of people (just from what I've read) my fantasies are usually between two other people and are about fictional characters. Because I'm an author, I have plenty of those to choose from, and generally just think about the latest sex scene I've written between a particaular couple I've been writing about. Normally, the fantasy itself is enough to make me feel satisfied. However, if not, I go ahead with the mastrubation, either continuing the fantasy or just thinking about the feeling.

The thing is, I usually don't imagine it as a sexual act at all. I've done a number of searches attempting to find the correct term, and this is the closest I could find from the list volunteered earlier of -philia's: thanatophilia: death or dying. Please bear with me. This is likely very odd. The closest term I can come up with is martyrdom. I imagine that I am either being poisoned, I am running myself through with my own sword, or having my life drained from me or consumed voluntarily, to save or ease the life of another. There is usually a brief contextual background for whatever the situation. In the real world, I have never minded pain, and have not the slightest fear of dying, but idiot that I am, I'm absurdly sure that if it ever came to taking the bullet, I would do it for anyone, but that does not mean that I don't value my life, and that does not mean that I wish to die. I have no psychological disorders that I know of, I've never had the inclination to cut, I'm neither emo nor goth.

This sounds more to me like an enjoyment of protecting others or the "pleasure" one can gain from giving something so precious to someone else, whether willingly or not. Reading this kinda reminded me of this thing I have with rape. I like writing about it, reading about it, and it is even incorperated into some of my fantasies. I've felt like I was in the prospective of the one raping or being raped as well as just an onlooker. If its just a fantasy and you don't have any other signs of depression or suicide, you're fine. I have all these fantasies and would never in my wildest dreams consider acting them out in real life. I think the reality of you being able to help a friend like that in real life is actually something to be proud of; it means you have an amazing bond to that friend. Cherise it.

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Nonz16

em i don't think about anything because if i do i get repulsed...

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Roger Mellie

I found it really hard to masturbate the 'conventional' way. I can get phyiscally aroused, but not mentally. I find gay porn as erotic as watching a sewing-machine on fast stitch [LOL]. With gay porn there's no passion I think, just "in, up, out and off"! The only way I could ever do the deed was think about a man I find athesetically attractive, having a shower or something-- only worked infrequently mind.

However recently I have bought myself an Aneros prostate massager. Basically if you're bloke, you stick it up your backend and you repeatedly squeeze your pelvic muscles... the Aneros massages your prostate and you... ahem... drain yourself (sorry to be graphic). You don't have to think of anything sexual, your body does the work for you.

So that's how I masturbate! I don't have ever have wet dreams AFAIK, so this is my only release Otherwise after while I get involuntary erections a lot-- can be uncomfortable! :redface:

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Parth

Umm this is going to sound weird, but I think about dunk people falling around and acting stupid. For some reason it relaxes me or something and allows for a quick and efficient "session". Nothing else does.

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meatball

Usually I throw some porn clips with regular, tranny or lesbian intercourse and watch while doing myself. Meanwhile I tend to think of gay intercourse with myself on the receiving end, though I'm straight.

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