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Brings to mind the famous succubi legend, of the demonic vixens who descend upon the hapless males in their bed, and then vanishes the moment the deed is done.

that actually happend to me except the "deed" was just a kiss.....

my first kiss was with a ghost :shock:

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Mathematics? :? I can't really explain this one, but sometimes I have been utterly aroused and incensed by the poetic beauty in that science of numbers.

I want to feel what you feel.....I can barely do a division problem........ :cry:

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Wild Seven
It's in my sexual fantasies I come closest to having to call myself poly, bi, and generally twisted in unusual fashions. About the only things I don't fantasize about are pain and humiliation. Which pretty much puts all of the standard motives for BDS and M right out the window.

I have always gotten a kick about writing erotic scenes. It's odd really, but it's just so interesting to describe in a scene the different ways that people could end up having sex. And then when I'm around in real life, it just doesn't carry over at all. Which is a good thing really, because some of these scenes...

I say scene, not story, because scenes do not have plot development, or at least very little. They are a moment in time, an encounter, a tryst. My stories, when I used to be able to write them, rarely involve sex at all. Although there's a story I was working on, where I was going to try to include a couple in it.

As for the actual things I fantasize about... well I might get in trouble for this, but I like that "furry" type zoomorphic stuff, and really, animals in general. :oops: I used to love watching when they'd reveal something on the Discovery channel, though thankfully I never quite seemed able to get comfortable with how insects do it. So yeah, sometimes animals, and their bodies and anatomy (and not usually the genitals either, depending), and how they'd go about doing it with each other if they were so inclined to do so in a way humans, or at least this human, can relate to sexually.

Mathematics? :? I can't really explain this one, but sometimes I have been utterly aroused and incensed by the poetic beauty in that science of numbers. Believe it or not I read a story by another person, that deals with the same scene. Imagine describing the triangular number set by tracing with dots in a circle on their bare tummy... yeah good stuff.

How about... well, when I do fantasize about the sexual experience, it's really physical and anatomical and stuff. I'm just a Biologist at heart I guess. During a masturbation session, imagining the feel of the vaginal fluid can physically jolt my body with arousal, and just holding the simple image of the feel of hips, and the famous squeeze, it can somehow have a real effect, as if I was actually doing it. Brings to mind the famous succubi legend, of the demonic vixens who descend upon the hapless males in their bed, and then vanishes the moment the deed is done.

...

You know, you really shouldn't have got me started on this. I still don't want to have sex! This is all like, fantasy stuff. Sex is one of those things it'd take a whole lot more convincing than just "it feels good" to inspire me to do such a weird thing. But we cannot control what we imagine, because once you decide not to imagine something you've already imagined it. And once the stimulation begins, thoughts intrude that would not play a part in my head during other times.

It's weird really, almost like a switch. Suddenly one's every thought is focused on the desired goal, but before and afterwards one has no urge or inclination to pursue it. It's like not wanting chocolate ice cream, and then as soon as you start eating it, it's the best thing in the world and you can't slow down until you stop. And then after orgasm you don't like chocolate ice cream again. wtf?

The male sexual response will always be a mystery to me. :(

I am with you, Synx. Dont worry- you are not a sicko bastard or something of the sort because in your fantasies there are animals and because you are on numbers. I can really relate to what was said, that is, excitement in some unusual ways... As I have talked about in another thread, in myself it is a series of translating various attractions/excitations to other senses modalities, so it may come that from purely aesthetic attraction it translates itself into sexual etc. with or without arousal, and such. I am working through seeing where this comes from and where it arrows to...

I know what you have with mathematics, or sort of, can relate to it myself. Numbers are incredibly beautiful, as well as, for myself, letters. I like graphemes in general, I can get so incredibly aroused and excited by them... this is also the way how I relate to some objects as well- feeling..how to describe it..- feelinĀ“ like falling in love, in some cases even empathically being that object myself, and then I am all in heat and really with serotonines flow in my blood, really happy... I guess intellectual/esthetic just translated into physical and physical into sexual :)

And I really came to conclusion that the whole "sexuality" thing is just about thoughts and feelings...As well as I guess that everything we absorb from an outside world makes our inner worlds deeper and helps us to open these hidden temples within ourselves...

So, just relax and enjoy the way you are:)

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Wild Seven
I want to feel what you feel.....I can barely do a division problem........ :cry:

Damaged4Life, I too have issues with Maths, but it isnt about what you intellectually CAN, but how you FEEL about it, as well as this attraction is not about computing mental abilities or so, but about feelings associated with numbers.... It just lefts mathematical abilities in a different level, even if in some people it gets connected, it is not necessary...

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Guest cases

i see............

well I will learn math in time......

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Shivers
well I might get in trouble for this, but I like that "furry" type zoomorphic stuff, and really, animals in general. :oops:

Bah. You are far from the only asexual furry here. *raises paw*

And theres about 10 more of us too.

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Wild Seven
Bah. You are far from the only asexual furry here. *raises paw*

And theres about 10 more of us too.

I've said that: we are really growing and we will be a big, and when I say big I mean BIG boom. Society has to adapt immediately, or they will be left up in the furry development tornado. :-p

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Heimdall

Oh fascinating subject. What could I think of ? Pretty much anything, or even nothing.

When sometimes I feel the need to do that, since the need is there, I can proceed with it; I'm thinking about what I'm doing, perhaps.

But it's already enough by itself not to need anything else.

Do you people always need something to think about ? It could sure make things easier, but after all, there's a lot of, eh, physical instinct involved in it, when you start it for a reason, shouldn't be easy to finish it then ?

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Vicious Trollop
Do you people always need something to think about ? It could sure make things easier, but after all, there's a lot of, eh, physical instinct involved in it, when you start it for a reason, shouldn't be easy to finish it then ?

Yeah, I pretty much do. It's relatively rare that I start out fully aroused, and can let my body just take care of itself -- I'm usually somewhat in the mood, start thinking about things, and take it from there. Interesting question -- I think it's quite possible if I never entertained sexual thoughts I would never or rarely masturbate.

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Cate Perfect
Yeah, I pretty much do. It's relatively rare that I start out fully aroused, and can let my body just take care of itself -- I'm usually somewhat in the mood, start thinking about things, and take it from there. Interesting question -- I think it's quite possible if I never entertained sexual thoughts I would never or rarely masturbate.

What she said. Lately it's more of a question of not being bothered. I think about it, but it just seems too much trouble.

Cate

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Mith

It's kind of like a habit for me, actually. I'll just be sitting there, doing nothing in particular, not even aroused, and think, "I should masturbate." I hardly ever do it because I am turned on because usually if I do it doesn't turn out too well. I feel bad sometimes after doing it, sometimes even half way through. I get really sad after every now and then and I can't tell when I'll be sad and when I won't so I usually try to just avoid doing it.

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ACME

Sounding familiar there Mith. I tend to do it to relax myself, though the thing itself is far from relaxing x_x

As far as thinking about things goes..I find that imagining myself as being irresistable yet unnatainable, or just a massive bitch work pretty well. I guess i'm a bit sadistic in that respect :twisted: ..which is weird, because i'm far from arrogant IRL.

Sometimes i force myself to think of other people, but that never really works, and it completley puts me off.

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Peix

Hmmm. I must be thinking of something but I'm not even sure what it is. When I pay attention it's usually another guy, but I rarely imagine actual sex (when I was younger I sometimes made myself think about it to see what would happen, it rarely had much of an effect really). Thinking about... well, being close (emotionally and physically) to another man is what's usually going through my head, but rarely is it the act of sex itself with him.

That's about as well as I can explain it. Did that make sense?

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Mith

Well, that was a simple post. So simple, it's pointless actually. :(

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fig

How nice it feels to get it done and get to sleep.

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Mith

Actually, lately I've been thinking, "don't do it!" It always ends in tears and bloodshed.....really....but just on a small level. I'm sure that's not healthy. I should probably talk to someone about it, but I think it would be better if I just don't do it. And I think I've developed a fetish for cutting.:shock: These images just pop into my head without warning whenever I do it. I'm sure that's not good either. Anybody know what's wrong with me?

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Guest cases

same thing I think about everyday........how to take over the WORLD

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Peix
same thing I think about everyday........how to take over the WORLD

Love Pinky and the Brain :lol:

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Wineblood
Hmmm. I must be thinking of something but I'm not even sure what it is. When I pay attention it's usually another guy, but I rarely imagine actual sex (when I was younger I sometimes made myself think about it to see what would happen, it rarely had much of an effect really). Thinking about... well, being close (emotionally and physically) to another man is what's usually going through my head, but rarely is it the act of sex itself with him.

That's about as well as I can explain it. Did that make sense?

i used to do that too although at the time i couldn't quite imagine myself having sex very well. i've come to realise that whatever i think about has no effect.

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apparentlyblue
It's weird really, almost like a switch. Suddenly one's every thought is focused on the desired goal, but before and afterwards one has no urge or inclination to pursue it. It's like not wanting chocolate ice cream, and then as soon as you start eating it, it's the best thing in the world and you can't slow down until you stop. And then after orgasm you don't like chocolate ice cream again. wtf?

My thoughts exactly. Like I don't even know why I start, usually through boredom or in the hope that it will send me to sleep, but then once in it... well I can't actually articulate it better than synx13 to be honest.

But exactly what you said. Good analogy with the chocolate ice cream though! It is just as strange as losing all taste for a food after eating it. And not even wanting it before you have a bite.

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oven_baked_wiener

Seriously, when I masterbate, I think about what happened that day. Like "I wonder if I got that question right." "What did I eat today." Crap like that. :D

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Mith
Seriously, when I masterbate, I think about what happened that day. Like "I wonder if I got that question right." "What did I eat today." Crap like that. :D

That's kinda cool, actually. :)

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bedbug

Hi everyone

Just joined this group and it seems my answer to this query is opposite to most others. What I think about is MYSELF. But I also think about work colleagues in fantasies about things like work peformance , but in a context others would not consider remotely connected with sex or eroticism. I do also sometimes have very private solo fantasies which involve humiliation or other sort of masochistic ideas, and I always think of me in the third person not as "I". I think all this helps my work performance and makes me less lazy than I might otherwise be, but it is also nice. Doing it also makes me relaxed before sleep.

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Time and dust

For some reason or another I like to think of a vast ice land in a blizzard when I masturbate. I must have something to do with my nordic blood.

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tahrgajohno

hate to admit this, but i have to use visual aids in order to masturbate. otherwise, i wouldn't know what else would relieve the occassional pressure buildup in the nether region.

perhaps i should volunteer to do the penthouse interview, since that is my preferred visual aid

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Wario

I need visual aid as well. I always just think of other people, generically, but the connection is not something I......errr.......feel comfortable sharing. But I don't ever think of myself or anyone I know. I have to myself a few times but I don't enjoy it that much, as I don't really have a big interest. But with generic people, it's fine.

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Iosis

God... Since I never read the Harry Potter series, I had to google the names Sirius and Remus.

What came to my screen first was two men wrapped up together. :D

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Wario

LOL! I suppose I should specify in case someone gets the wrong idea. When I say visual aid, I mean mental visual aid. I have to picture it, and even then, it's been an effort lately. I don't look at pornography or anything is basically what I'm saying.

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