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Punk Floyd

I don't do it often, I only do it because it helps to clear my head and relieve some stress.

I don't think about anything in particular; I usually just let my mind wander and think about anything.


I don't do it often, I only do it because it helps to clear my head and relieve some stress.

I don't think about anything in particular; I usually just let my mind wander and think about anything.

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Geohdu

It's weird really, almost like a switch. Suddenly one's every thought is focused on the desired goal, but before and afterwards one has no urge or inclination to pursue it. It's like not wanting chocolate ice cream, and then as soon as you start eating it, it's the best thing in the world and you can't slow down until you stop. And then after orgasm you don't like chocolate ice cream again. wtf?

My thoughts exactly. Like I don't even know why I start, usually through boredom or in the hope that it will send me to sleep, but then once in it... well I can't actually articulate it better than synx13 to be honest.

But exactly what you said. Good analogy with the chocolate ice cream though! It is just as strange as losing all taste for a food after eating it. And not even wanting it before you have a bite.

Perfectly said. I guess it's kind of a bored bad habit. Just spontaneous and all-consuming.

When in the midst of it, I think of any person of esthetical interest who pops into my mind, in intimate normal situations. I even drop all conviction that I'm asexual during the act,.. until I finish, then I don't even know why I started, or how I could possibly think those things.

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Slainmonkey

Oh boy......masterbation, I remember when I was still just trying to work out if I was just a late bloomer. I remember masterbating but with no understanding of what arousal having no idea what it's even meant to feel like, sufficed to say I never found it. I remember tugging myself but thinking "shouldn't something be happening now?"......teenage years were confusing.

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Hardly any

I read. Not sexy things either, pretty much whatever is available as a distraction. "Advanced Packet Analysis" recently.

Do this to feel this and appease the latent libido.

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Frozen Fairy

All I will say is that the things I think about are pretty family-friendly, lol.

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fish of hearts

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LeaveOnYourColours

I'm gonna take a minute to laugh at myself here and share.

So recently it's been a round room with lots of men in it but all kinda spaced out. Then in the center there is a man and a woman performing sexual and sensual acts on one another. It's all casual though, not like the Satanic ritual it's seeming like. The couple in the middle can go wherever they want, stay in the middle, lean on the walls and all other men just watch and I just like imagining the tension I guess. Because at first it's relaxed but the energy gets really intense. And everyone just gets this empathetic satisfaction from it. Including me. I'm really weird!

My thoughts do wander a lot and I feel like I have to force physical and mental parts of it. And I'm never aroused if I don't want to be.

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TalkingOak

I do sometimes masturbate and when I do I just think of whatever comes into my head as it's just something I do when I'm really bored. *shrug* However as if I've got older I've began to enjoy it less and it's rare I do it anymore.

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Gumby Jellybeans III

well I might get in trouble for this, but I like that "furry" type zoomorphic stuff, and really, animals in general. :oops:

Bah. You are far from the only asexual furry here. *raises paw*

And theres about 10 more of us too.

I also sometimes think of anthropomorphs. Like, generic ones that are different each time. I feel really awkward imagining people - that includes fictional characters - in sexual situations and I think keeping sexual thoughts strictly in the fantasy/unrelated-to-anything-in-real-life realm helps to keep that sense of distance. Otherwise it just seems gross. Or disrespectful.

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The Terrible Travis
blue dog

since my wife and i dont have sex and knowing she would like to or does , i think of her getting satisfied, is it odd to think this am i the only one who does.?

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tobi.is.a.gross.nerd

I personally do not think of anything. I don't masturbate very often in the first place. The only time I do is, sorry if this is tmi, the period of time right before my period starts. Because that is the time that I am the most sexual.

I will occasionally listen (not watch) to others. 

But again for the most part my mind is a blank slate when I masturbate.

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Warsaw

I do it to relieve pressure do to riding a motorcycle and riding standing pretty much standing/sitting on a wedge, thus too much pressure means painful jolts of pain in the gut.  I think of women, but for one reason or another only asthetically, I think the female form is beautiful, but generally don't associate the beauty with sex, it just helps speed the process.  Also sometimes lesbians, but still asthetically.

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will123

Rather than get into a long post, I'll just post a link to what I've posted earlier this year.

 

 

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Kersenne

I imagine sexual acts between two people (can be any gender), always people I don't know (not even real fictional characters, no, they're just... non-identified people), and I never put myself in there as that turns me off completely. It takes me about a minute to be done, and then, off to bed^^ 

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Guest Deus Ex Infinity

I'm not much into either unless it's really necessary but if...there's only thoughts about me and the one I love that could ever drive me over the edge.

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Kazka

I'm a pr0n user :) I don't do much 'thinking' but I view porn & read or write literatica, I need kink material most of the time, 

Spoiler

Being a furry helps

Sometimes just nothing at all.

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will123

Most of the time I'm thinking about a sexual fantasy (go figure). Twenty percent of the time I'm just 'doing it' with no thoughts other than what Im doing/feeling. Occasionally look at a slide show on my laptop of porn images (solo girls and girl on girl pics).

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will123

@Pixley

What you wrote here has had me think since I read it:

 

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And sexual frustration for asexuals is definitely on this ironic, twilight zone-ish, kind of plane of frustrating. To be asexual, but to still like masturbating, although it's a stupid stereotype, sometimes I do find myself thinking: "Shit. What the fuck AM I supposed to think about?" 😫

My fantasies/imaginings while masturbating are quite explicit but plausible. For the longest time they were of hetero' pairings but suddenly switched to homo' activity. I was really upset as I couldn't understand the reasoning for the change. Chatting with an AVENite who related to my perceived differences in fantasy and real life, they suggested that I had become bored with the hetero' fantasies (which was somewhat true) and was exploring a new direction. After a bit of discussion about the subject (her fantasies were completely different from her own situation) my concerns subsided.

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PixleyDust✨
2 hours ago, will123 said:

@Pixley

What you wrote here has had me think since I read it:

 

My fantasies/imaginings while masturbating are quite explicit but plausible. For the longest time they were of hetero' pairings but suddenly switched to homo' activity. I was really upset as I couldn't understand the reasoning for the change. Chatting with an AVENite who related to my perceived differences in fantasy and real life, they suggested that I had become bored with the hetero' fantasies (which was somewhat true) and was exploring a new direction. After a bit of discussion about the subject (her fantasies were completely different from her own situation) my concerns subsided.

I've never really been upset by my fantasies, but that might be because I'm genderfluid, I don't know. All I know is, if it turns me on, for the most part I roll with it. But GOD do I understand that boredom. Ugh.

 

Though, that's not a terribly difficult obstacle to overcome. The one advantage to being ace in that situation is that literally ANY kind of sex is going to seem kinky to me. 🤣

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will123
8 hours ago, Pixley said:

I've never really been upset by my fantasies, but that might be because I'm genderfluid, I don't know. All I know is, if it turns me on, for the most part I roll with it. But GOD do I understand that boredom. Ugh.

 

Though, that's not a terribly difficult obstacle to overcome. The one advantage to being ace in that situation is that literally ANY kind of sex is going to seem kinky to me. 🤣

That's pretty much the way I feel about it now. It might be one thing tomorrow and something VERY different next week. Since I always thought I was heterosexual (but doing nothing about it), the change in 'interests' concerned me. Would I act out these new 'things' in real life?

 

Up until a few years ago I was more into fiction or visual stimulation. Then I started with the imagining sessions when I was masturbating.

 

My AVEN 'pen pal' suggested that I had probably had become bored with what I had been thinking of any needed something racier to arouse myself.

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PixleyDust✨
18 minutes ago, will123 said:

That's pretty much the way I feel about it now. It might be one thing tomorrow and something VERY different next week. Since I always thought I was heterosexual (but doing nothing about it), the change in 'interests' concerned me. Would I act out these new 'things' in real life?

 

Up until a few years ago I was more into fiction or visual stimulation. Then I started with the imagining sessions when I was masturbating.

 

My AVEN 'pen pal' suggested that I had probably had become bored with what I had been thinking of any needed something racier to arouse myself.

Amen brother. I feel that.

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nothinbuttrouble

mind's blank. though... occasionally I think, "Take it like a man!" ha

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Wizadora

I usually read something in which the protagonist's enjoyment of sex is described and try to imagine how it feels.

 

Pretty much the main reason I do it is because sometimes if I relax my muscles in the right way, I can get my lower back to click in a really satisfying way... Most of the time this doesn't happen and I end up feeling disappointed.

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PittAce92

Est. 98% of the time, nothing... just enjoying the traditional physical feelings from the usual penis strokes and scrotum (balls) squeezing (sorry for the TMI  :excl:!). :o

 

However, the other two percent is from videos I watched to gain ideas other than the "usual" (yes, I have watched masturbating videos to get other ideas, the same old after a while can get boring).

 

Other things such as current events, books I have read (such as Orwell's 1984). 

 

On May 7, 2017 at 4:05 AM, The Terrible Travis said:

 

 

As The Terrible Travis brings up, items as such (by the way, love the Avatar!). :) 

 

 

On December 10, 2017 at 11:41 AM, will123 said:

@Pixley

What you wrote here has had me think since I read it:

 

My fantasies/imaginings while masturbating are quite explicit but plausible. For the longest time they were of hetero' pairings but suddenly switched to homo' activity. I was really upset as I couldn't understand the reasoning for the change. Chatting with an AVENite who related to my perceived differences in fantasy and real life, they suggested that I had become bored with the hetero' fantasies (which was somewhat true) and was exploring a new direction. After a bit of discussion about the subject (her fantasies were completely different from her own situation) my concerns subsided.

will123, the bolder statement exactly for me as well very early on, but now as a 25 year old, these issues subsided. I think it was something that came up as a way to try to relate to the different types of relationships. :blink:

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will123
6 hours ago, PittAce92 said:

Est. 98% of the time, nothing... just enjoying the traditional physical feelings from the usual penis strokes and scrotum (balls) squeezing (sorry for the TMI  :excl:!). :o

No apologies needed mind you my topics about the subject are usually in the Sex Talk forum ;) LOL.

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nate-1234

I usually masturbate to my specific fetish whether that is through erotica, videos, or boorus or I just masturbate to my favorite porn videos/genres or my favorite booru kinks in general. So, I am usually thinking about how hot and arousing that stuff is.

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Darth Tribble

The planet Neptune. There’s just something so appealing about its two dark spots. Saturn has a nicer ring, though.

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Tirisilex

I just focus on the pleasure of the orgasm.. I don't really think of a person for me I kind of consider thinking of a person while masturbating mental rape. I dont have that persons permission to think about them sexually so I feel it is like rape in a mental sense. Kind of like what Jesus said about Lusting after someone in your heart while being married is the same as Adultery.

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Janus DarkFox

Yeah when there is thought, I'm not thinking about sexuality, but often the thought of being a particular gender I'm masturbating like, when there's times I do feel gender, or simply, it's part fetishized.  The rare thought is being a solo masturbating male, female, a fantasy of having both together, or having no configuration, where then pleasure is sought differently.

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