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Though this is only a Tumblr blog mentioning a 1978 article about lacking sexual desire! indifference to sex etc that could be interpreted as Asexuality now, there's no reference to any actual article so there's no way of knowing the blog is legitimate.

The blog mentions it being under different titles in different American newspapers, I can't find a mention of it in the archives unless it is titled differently.

http://nextstepcake.tumblr.com/post/78423878649/fun-historical-bits-asexuality-mention-in-an-article

Above is the Blog and below is the apparent text, formatted for ease of research if necessary.

(The following article was originally published in the New York Times, under the title "A Lack of Sexual Desire Emerges as a Contemporary Condition. It was also later republished in the Globe and Mail (Toronto) under the title "Those who are indifferent to sex are coming out of the closet, therapist finding", and in the Chicago Tribune as "The noncombatants in the sexual revolution". Article by Georgia Duller. The text below is from the Globe and Mail version.)

Their sex lives never measure up to those superlative examples reported in the surveys. They are alternately intimidated and bored by the sex manuals. The truth is, they have stopped having sexual relaltions, at least for a while, although one hesitates to admit such a thing in the midst of a sexual revolution.

As a New York therapist put it: People will go on TV and talk for hours about their homosexuality or their bisexuality, but who wants to talk about their asexuality? Asexuality is, of course, a term used by the public, not the professionals, who stress that no one is truly sexless. At the same time however, the professionals do acknowledge that the chief symptom of self- styled asexuals - a lack of interest in sexual intercourse - is being expressed with growing frequency at clinics around the country.

Indeed, there was much discussion and one or two scholarly papers on desire dysfunction at last months convention of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors and Therapists. According to Shirley Zussman, New York co-director and vice president of theassociation, some members reported that a lack of desire seemed to be the prime problem with at least 50 per cent of their patients. In the past, she said, the most prevalent complaints were premature ejaculation, impotence and failure to achieve orgasm. Older people have already reported low interest for cultural, psychological and sometimes physical reaons, Mrs. Zussman said.But now were seeing more and more of this among young people, males and females in their late 20s and early 30s.

Are more willing to talk about it?

Lacking research on the phenomenon, the experts are not sure if this means that more people are actually experiencing less desire for sex or simply that more people are willing to acknowledge it. Among proponents of the latter theory is the dean of sex therapy, Dr. William Masters. We are seeing an increase of people with reduced sex interest, he noted at the Reproductive Biology Research Foundation in St.Louis, but then more people are coming for help, period. At one time, who dared admit to impotency or nonorgasm? Now that were past that, people are coming i with other distresses. Not all sexual distresses have to do with facility of function.

On the other hand, not everyone living the celibate life speaks of distress. For a number of single men and women interviewed, all in their late 20s or 30s , all with reasonably active sexual histories, a period without sex with a partner offers a comforting antidote to such contemporary ills such as traumatic divorces, truamatic affairs,random sex and the pressure to score- in bed as well as on the job and on the tennis court. My ex-wife would never believe this, but I havent slept with a woman for three, maybe four months. I lost count, said an advertising space salesman,who attributedhis marital breakup to her low sex drive, not mine. I was always cheating on her, he recalled. Since the separation Ive had several relationships with women, none I gave a damn about. You might say Im taking a sabbatical from sex now, to sort out my feelings. Im also going to the shrink twice a week.

A divorced actress drifted into celibacy two years ago, for much the same reason: I had just broken up with another man and I thought,My God, when is this going to end? Unlike most of those interviewed, the actress, who has since become a disciple of yoga and meditation, seemed to regard celibacy more as a way of life than a temporary shield against its pains. No, I didnt take a vow or anything, she insisted. My sexual appetite just fell away. Its like I no longer drink. I no longer smoke. I no longer take dope. Im a vegetarian. She laughed. I dont mean to equate sex with addiction, but its not a bad analogy.

Other people spoke of losing interest in sex during periods of illness, stress or preoccupation with work. To their surprise, they felt ambivalent about becoming active again once those periods had passed. When you dont have it, you dont miss it. Now I know how nuns and priests feel, said a writer who gave up sexual relations because of abdominal surgery and has still not resumed them, nearly a year after her recovery. Its not that I havent had the opportunity, she said with a shrug.

A social scientist recalled being so caught up in a research project that four months went by before he realized, Hey, I havent had sex with anybody for a long time. That seemed O.K., he said, and I didnt feel the need for a romantic relationship with a woman until six months later. It wasnt that difficult. What I missed most was no sex, but the closeness you feel in a primary relationship. I learned a lot about myself and sex.

Contrary to popular belief abstinent men are not plagued by consuming sexual appetites, according to Bernie Zilbergeld, a clinical psychologist in the human sexuality program at the University of California in San Francisco: Abstinence need not rule out masturbation.

Mr. Zilbergeld, whose new book, Male Sexuality, includes interviews with men who found temporary abstinence an instructiveand even gratifying experience, said he had talked to more men who were contemplating abstinence than actually practicing it. The idea is still too strange for most guys, he explained. They are afraid theyll end up thinking more about sex than they already are or that it will take up more of their time. With women, its somehow more permissable, but for a man its still considered weird. Shere Hite agreed. For centuries men have been told they ought to have sex as often as possible. Otherwise they would lose their virility, said Miss Hite, now working on a male sequel to The Hite Report, a book on female sexuality, which was based on the experiences of 3,000 women. In the Sixties, she went on,society began pushing and pressuring women into having sex. I think a lot of people were having more sex than they wanted. Its only natural to have a reaction in the opposite direction.

Some are joining underground

Some are reacting by joining what they jokingly call The Chastity Underground, if only for a time. Its not a movement, of course, Others react by visiting the sex therapy clinics. In general, these patients fall into one of two categories: those with low interest and low response; those with low interest but good response.

As Dr. Leon Zussman, a gynecologist and co-therapist with Mrs. Zussman, explained: They have good sexual response when they get around to it. But that be once in six months. Or never. There are men who have ejaculations and say, So what.There are women who have orgasms and they tell us, Id rather read a book. This is the kind of thing we hear very often.

What brings patients with little or no interest in sex to sex therapy clinics in the first place? Many experts theorize that the sex information explosion of the Seventies has prompted some with low response, typically women, to say: Im entitled to sexual pleasure. Whats wrong with me? Others having experienced sexual pleasure, are seeking therapy because their lack of desire is causing marital stress.

Although the authorities tend to agree thtat depressed sexual desire in a younger person is generally a sign of pathology - a symptom, not a fact, as Dr. Masters put it - they do not necessarily recommend increased sexual activity as a cure.

Said Dr. Helen Kaplan, associate clinical professor of psychiatry at New York Hospital-Cornell Medical Centre: For some people sex is fraught with so much anxiety, anger and negative emotion that it may be a better adaption not to risk it.

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What's disgusting about this article is all the so-called "experts" sitting on their perches of ill-gotten privilege and labeling all asexuals as unhealthy. God, I am so glad the 1970s are over. The decade gave us some great movies, but in so many ways it's as if we were mindless animals rather than human beings back then.

Thank you for making me, for a change, glad that I live in the 21st century, even if I'm an old man by now.

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That's awesome, to have info of such an old article

/archivist mode off

I know the blogger, she is definitely trustworthy :)

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For the record, the blog Next Step Cake is run by former PT member Cleander.

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