*Judy* Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 What if it's not your desire he needs? What if he mostly "just" needs sexual activity? For me, as a sexual, my partner's desire isn't that important to me. Everyone is different... talk to him about it. Even if it's not heaven for you, if it's heaven for him, and you're ok with it, that could be a great thing that's just what he needs. Definitely have a conversation with him about it and don't be scared. I already know that he can't enjoy being sexual if I don't want it too. One time he kind of felt that I wasn't really into petting and he was like: You're not like doing that today, right? and then he broke off and we watched a movie instead...I could deal with just pleasuring him, but he definitely needs my desire... Link to post Share on other sites
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