AltairNox Posted May 3, 2022 Share Posted May 3, 2022 Going to buy a new bed - gets a double bed - family/friends making weird comments… #asexualproblems 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Osiyo_Waya Posted May 6, 2022 Share Posted May 6, 2022 When you realize that an allergy to cats would be more of a hinderance to dating than being ace / aro. 🙃 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AltairNox Posted May 11, 2022 Share Posted May 11, 2022 When you research the hell out of sex so you can give advice to your allo friends - but end up more confused… #asexualproblems 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
usernotfound Posted May 14, 2022 Share Posted May 14, 2022 When you explain asexuality to someone and they suggest therapy #asexualproplems 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted May 15, 2022 Share Posted May 15, 2022 17 hours ago, Blueskiesx said: When you explain asexuality to someone and they suggest therapy Me in college, after a class on sexuality, the tutor pulled me out and talked about discussing this with college therapy. It’s from the ‘what sexualities are out there’ type of question. But that was over ten years ago. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
usernotfound Posted May 15, 2022 Share Posted May 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Janus the Fox said: Me in college, after a class on sexuality, the tutor pulled me out and talked about discussing this with college therapy. It’s from the ‘what sexualities are out there’ type of question. But that was over ten years ago. I think a lot of people don't realise how hurtful it can be to to some, I personally just dropped it cuz it's a waste of energy. My city doesn't have sexuality ED they haven't reached that point yet sadly. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kimi_gata Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 On 3/17/2022 at 7:04 PM, Clowel said: A coworker dragged me to the company Christmas party once. I bumped into someone I hadn't met before. First words out their mouth: "where's your husband?" Apparently, "non-existant " is not the right answer. It’s also not the right answer to “where’s your boyfriend?” unfortunately. But ”I don’t see anyone that way” was definitely the right answer when my parents warned me about doing the deed if I ever got a boyfriend Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kimi_gata Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 On 3/20/2022 at 5:27 PM, creek_ said: I want to be in such a deep loving relationship but know I will never feel that way for another person. It gets annoying and lonely lol. On the one hand: being able to simply want platonic love, without having to explain QPR stuff to people, is something I wish I had. My poor squish is probably so confused. On the other: I can see how it would be hard to want a romantic relationship but not feel that kind of attraction. Best of luck!! Maybe try asking for a QPR with someone if that’s what you want. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kimi_gata Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 On 4/13/2022 at 10:49 AM, Blue eyes white dragon said: I hate physical arousal reactions, it's annoying and makes me question every single time. I remind myself that just because it happens and sometimes can feel nice, it's just a physical response and nothing more. Also it can be awkward having extra body things while cuddling This. This has started happening with my squish and it’s ridiculously annoying, even though I know the arousal has nothing to do with him and everything to do with the fact that I experience various forms of attraction to voices (not the people). I understand the frustration—why can’t we just cuddle in peace? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elizabeth Bennet Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 On 5/2/2022 at 11:58 PM, DemonicEnby said: Or well, they told me if I got it that I would be charged with murder for eating my spouse. No corpse, no crime, baby. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted June 2, 2022 Share Posted June 2, 2022 On 5/31/2022 at 11:44 AM, plund3r said: No corpse, no crime, baby. Technically, you can be charged with murder without a corpse. It is just much more difficult to prove a crime has been committed without one. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Revan Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 When you forget that people actually have sex. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
simpleminded90 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 affording the air and travel costs to meet the next nearest asexual 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheSmolFoxWeeb Posted June 5, 2022 Share Posted June 5, 2022 When you feel out of the loop the minute your friends start talking about relationships 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AavaMeri Posted June 6, 2022 Share Posted June 6, 2022 When you you acutely realize that your adorable nibling exists because your sibling had sex. And then soon decide not to think about it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDustbin Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 On 6/4/2022 at 2:22 PM, Lord Revan said: When you forget that people actually have sex. My downstairs neighbours unfortunately make that impossible 🥶 (it's all fine and dandy, but not that loud, and not at 1 am) 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AltairNox Posted June 10, 2022 Share Posted June 10, 2022 Being terrified of kissing someone, because you are afraid that they will think it leads to sex… #Asexualproblems 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AltairNox Posted June 10, 2022 Share Posted June 10, 2022 Or choosing not to go to a bar, because you feel to uncomfortable with all the flirting and touching… #Asexualproblems Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GreyWizard Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 5/14/2022 at 8:33 PM, Blueskiesx said: When you explain asexuality to someone and they suggest therapy #asexualproplems Had a friend suggest I go to France and hook up with some French girls because that'd surely make me forget about asexuality... All I could come up with was "it doesn't work that way". 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DemonicEnby Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 5:10 PM, GreyWizard said: Had a friend suggest I go to France and hook up with some French girls because that'd surely make me forget about asexuality... All I could come up with was "it doesn't work that way". It's always fun to turn that around. Especially when you know of their orientation - like if it is a hetero oriented person, "Well, just go to (insert known gay establishment here) to make you forget about men/women whatever." Or the other way around, really. Either people then notice such an advice is dumb or stop bothering you. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Real Estate RICO Posted June 17, 2022 Share Posted June 17, 2022 Dare I say it: realizing that by being 5'4" and Apothisexual, you essentially make a good number of women rethink the whole "destroying gender roles" thing Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted June 19, 2022 Share Posted June 19, 2022 When you know what the term DP means but your mothers doesn't so you embarrassingly have to explain to her why she shouldn't use that term. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GreyWizard Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 On 6/15/2022 at 10:05 AM, DemonicEnby said: It's always fun to turn that around. Especially when you know of their orientation - like if it is a hetero oriented person, "Well, just go to (insert known gay establishment here) to make you forget about men/women whatever." Or the other way around, really. Either people then notice such an advice is dumb or stop bothering you. I do that sometimes, but in this case I wasn't sure of their orientation cause this was the first time to discuss and honestly, after that "the woman (me) was too stunned to speak" 🤣 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bio 7 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 On 6/19/2022 at 2:45 PM, Hermit Advocate said: When you know what the term DP means but your mothers doesn't so you embarrassingly have to explain to her why she shouldn't use that term. I’m drawing a blank on it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 2 hours ago, Bio 7 said: On 6/19/2022 at 2:45 PM, Hermit Advocate said: When you know what the term DP means but your mothers doesn't so you embarrassingly have to explain to her why she shouldn't use that term. I’m drawing a blank on it. Its.. not to do about a type of intimate picture...? only thing comes to mind. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Trans Aroace Girl Posted June 22, 2022 Share Posted June 22, 2022 On 6/20/2022 at 12:18 PM, Bio 7 said: I’m drawing a blank on it. The only thing I can think of is Danny Phantom, but I'm guessing in this case that's not it. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bio 7 Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 On 6/20/2022 at 7:41 PM, Janus the Fox said: Its.. not to do about a type of intimate picture...? only thing comes to mind. Ah I just did not connect that to the initials. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Revan Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 I’m bi and ace and I don’t know where to side in the bi-ace war 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Auri-Fela-Mola-Davi Posted June 29, 2022 Share Posted June 29, 2022 When the interesting books you pick out have sex scenes. *skip 3 pages. 2 chapters later *skip 5 pages read one page. Dang it, they are back to having sex *skip another 6 pages. It's extraordinarily annoying. And of course, the rest of the book is still good enough that you aren't willing to just stop reading it, so instead you just end up skipping a large percentage of the book. Just why do authors feel a need to just add sex scenes? And then repeat them? (At least some authors just skip them... But unfortunately it seems like most authors feel it is a requirement to have at least 1 sex scene per book... It is really, really, annoying...) 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDustbin Posted June 29, 2022 Share Posted June 29, 2022 14 hours ago, Lord Revan said: I’m bi and ace and I don’t know where to side in the bi-ace war Nowhere, because there is none (or not that I've noticed in the past 10 years). Unless it's of your own making 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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