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I take responsibility for coining the term 'acquired asexual'. Bit of an oversight in proof-reading the ending there.

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Wow, that's awesome. Especially when you've actually spoken to the people in the article on AVEN! And kinda seen it all take shape. Nice! :wub:

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Very grateful for this article, for leading me here to AVEN (and to start considering my asexuality as a part of who I am, not a problem to be overcome). I don't normally read the paper, either, I just happened to pick it up in a waiting room ~ serendipity.

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Hello, I'm Jo's platonic partner. So proud of her! I asked not to be identified, because we were concerned that it could be misrepresented as a poly relationship, when really it isn't. The ring was actually a gift from me and my wife. It was my idea, but my wife picked it out. We gave it because it's a traditional token of love which can be given to a partner, a best friend, or a family member. And somehow Jo is all of these things. She and I have a close bond, like family, but it doesn't fit the pattern of a romantic relationship. So my wife and I thought it was really appropriate. I'm really glad Jo wears it! She decided to point the heart that way to indicate that she has 'someone special' and that she isn't really looking for another relationship, not to indicate being 'taken.' I hate that word in relationships!

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I hadn't seen that someone posted this here. (I'm Jo from the article.) I'm glad everyone likes the story - I am pretty happy with the way it turned out as well! For previous media stuff I've done I've always known what the text was going to be prior to publication, but this one I didn't know anything about, so I'm happy it turned out the way it did.

Very grateful for this article, for leading me here to AVEN (and to start considering my asexuality as a part of who I am, not a problem to be overcome). I don't normally read the paper, either, I just happened to pick it up in a waiting room ~ serendipity.

Willie wagtail, I'm so glad you found the article! Doing visibility work is stressful sometimes, but this is exactly the reason I do it and think it's so important. Best wishes on your journey. *hugs*

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"David Jay - a handsome, articulate American Gen-Y spokesperson"

Haha I love how the first word they used to describe him is handsome.

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"David Jay - a handsome, articulate American Gen-Y spokesperson"

Haha I love how the first word they used to describe him is handsome.

Yeah... that happens a lot. It's happened to me too, in other articles, where there is this huge emphasis on the fact that asexual people are attractive, and not just asexual because they can't get laid or something! (Which is a ridiculous idea anyway.)

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"David Jay - a handsome, articulate American Gen-Y spokesperson"

Haha I love how the first word they used to describe him is handsome.

Yeah... that happens a lot. It's happened to me too, in other articles, where there is this huge emphasis on the fact that asexual people are attractive, and not just asexual because they can't get laid or something! (Which is a ridiculous idea anyway.)

Sadly, I do think there is a common mis-belief that asexuals aren't good looking or 'sexy' or handsome or what have you.

It's strange. But as weird as it is, I guess it's kinda good that articles like this try to fight that misconception.

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Yep, it's been on a bunch of different Fairfax online platforms. I don't think it's been in print anywhere else though, other than Good Weekend.

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