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I have a number of online friends and I can't recall its having arisen as a topic recently. So either these people are all asexual - I've never asked, and it doesn't seem statistically likely - or even sexuals can discuss other things. Maybe they're more educated types though *shrugs*

When it did arise a long time ago I got very uncomfortable and I think they sensed that and changed to another discussion. That was a PM though... For chatrooms, if you go to an age-restricted chatroom there shouldn't be any mention of it. The point of most chatrooms is to discuss a particular interest, isn't it? So just try one whose topic isn't 'sex' :-P

Heh, I didn't say they only talked about sex. I've asked some of my friends to tone it down when they're speaking specifically to me, but to be honest after a while most of my friends get the idea anyway. Though not all of them. :?

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People talking about sex doesn't bother me all that much really. I can talk dirtier than most when it comes to it too. Having no frame of reference in the sexual community in that way I can gross out most people :lol:

What upset me and still does but to a lesser degree as I educate those around me of what I am; was the fact that when it came to discussing physical attraction to people and 'rating' of females I had nothing there to go on.

It is nice to be able to have an answer to inquisitive people who ask why I don;t have a girlfriend though! My problem is the not knowing part. Even if I turned out to be homosexual (which as one stage I thought I might be) knowing what I am means I can deal with it better.

I like the fact that I can be as loving as I please with people and not worry about the sex part. It may cause me problems in the future if they think I'm 'coming onto them,' but right now I;m just content to hug the s**t out of my close friends and be happy with the emotional wellbeing they give me.

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Heh, I didn't say they only talked about sex. I've asked some of my friends to tone it down when they're speaking specifically to me, but to be honest after a while most of my friends get the idea anyway. Though not all of them. :?

I meant they've never brought it up. These are people I met after the incident where it was brought up :oops: which was a bit of an extenuating circumstance - somebody else had hacked into my IM account and made remarks to one of my contacts, and they thougt it was me...

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Really? That's cool. They must have realised it makes you uncomfortable, I guess, or maybe you just subconsciously pick friends who don't talk about sex :D

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