anon_anonymous Posted April 14, 2013 Share Posted April 14, 2013 and then - BAM. it wasn't... could it be that i am indeed a sexual, but, at that point where i would have that [my identity, my wishes and that] confirmed, suddenly it all got pulled away from under my feet and... there is now this sexuality with a thin veneer of asexual STUFF. i am not saying that the latter can or should be done away with. but perhaps sexual development comes in stages, and some of us [fools] are simply missing / or whatever, the last piece? what do you think??? Link to post Share on other sites
TheKindredSoul Posted April 14, 2013 Share Posted April 14, 2013 and then - BAM. it wasn't... could it be that i am indeed a sexual, but, at that point where i would have that [my identity, my wishes and that] confirmed, suddenly it all got pulled away from under my feet and... there is now this sexuality with a thin veneer of asexual STUFF. i am not saying that the latter can or should be done away with. but perhaps sexual development comes in stages, and some of us [fools] are simply missing / or whatever, the last piece? what do you think??? You might have a fluid sexuality. It is possible that you are going through a shift. Asexuality is based on the lack of sexual attraction (common definition on AVEN). If you are not experiencing sexual attraction to anyone, it might be your libido. Link to post Share on other sites
anon_anonymous Posted April 14, 2013 Author Share Posted April 14, 2013 when we broke up i had flickers of sexual attraction now and again, but my libido did plummet, and not due to apathy. i felt awkward in my [own] body suddenly. currently i think i am still attracted to people in the same way as i was last month. i am wondering if the lack of desire i mentioned is actually a lack of a form of attraction. not that it is thhhhaaattt important haha. Link to post Share on other sites
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