PoeciMeta Posted December 27, 2019 Share Posted December 27, 2019 I second that welcome, @Helpful Hardware Folks! I love your profile pic~ 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gnomeish Posted January 2, 2020 Share Posted January 2, 2020 Yes, this thread is what I needed. I wish I could find people irl but the Internet will have to do. Hi I don't care if I am called sir or miss just don't call me because I hate talking on the phone, hyuck hyuck. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky Black Cat Posted January 2, 2020 Share Posted January 2, 2020 3 hours ago, Gnomeish said: Yes, this thread is what I needed. I wish I could find people irl but the Internet will have to do. Hi I don't care if I am called sir or miss just don't call me because I hate talking on the phone, hyuck hyuck. Hello and welcome~ Help yourself to some cake! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Paca ermito Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 Greetings. I just found this thread, and I just learned that I am neutral good. I'm allergic to potatoes, so no chips (American or British) for me, thanks. I am fond of rice crackers, though. I haven't really decided what terminology is most appropriate for me, gender-wise, but I feel no affinity to either of the standard gender roles in my culture... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Luftschlosseule Posted January 8, 2020 Share Posted January 8, 2020 13 hours ago, Paca ermito said: Greetings. I just found this thread, and I just learned that I am neutral good. I'm allergic to potatoes, so no chips (American or British) for me, thanks. I am fond of rice crackers, though. I haven't really decided what terminology is most appropriate for me, gender-wise, but I feel no affinity to either of the standard gender roles in my culture... Well, we're on AVEN, so there is always Welcome! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
PoeciMeta Posted January 8, 2020 Share Posted January 8, 2020 Welcome ~ 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
venetau Posted January 12, 2020 Share Posted January 12, 2020 Hello o/ It's nice to know there's others in the same boat. Please call me whatever you want, I don't particularly care about pronouns. Alignment-wise, apparently I'm neutral good c: 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ray is agender aroace blob Posted January 15, 2020 Share Posted January 15, 2020 Hi everyone! I just found this thread and what can I say except let's unleash chaos upon the world? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
PoeciMeta Posted January 15, 2020 Share Posted January 15, 2020 35 minutes ago, Ray is agender aroace blob said: Hi everyone! I just found this thread and what can I say except let's unleash chaos upon the world? That's exactly what we like to hear! Welcome, new, uh, person ! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ExquisiteMystery Posted January 24, 2020 Share Posted January 24, 2020 Hi all, just found this thread. I am apparently Chaotic Good. It's nice to meet all of you. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
#Cthulhu Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Hello, I'm new to the agender thing. Genders confusing. (and so are words but we won't get to that) As For Allinement neutral good/ true neutral/ chaotic neutral/ chaotic good/ so chaotic it refuses to fit in the boxes. Any way I saw this meme, Lawful chaotic. Try's to make as much chaos with out breaking the law ever. (not a real thing but accurate) ~Kaeo 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Luftschlosseule Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Hello new people! I really like how everyone know introduces themselves with their alignments. There can't be enough DnD on this planet. Especially dragons. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ColeHW34 Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Hello Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JustJay04 Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 (edited) Hi. I think I’m agender? Idk, it’s confusing. I’m not really anything? So I think that’s agender. Ack, whatever. Anyway, I heard there was chips? Edit: realized we were doing alignments, and I think what y’all are talking about is like Lawful Good and stuff? (Yeah, I’m an uncultured swine, shut up.) I would definitely be Lawful Good. Edited February 8, 2020 by JustJay04 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zagadka Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 Hi, fellow really confused person here. Also confused because I want to be chaotic neutral, but I'm chaotic good. Nothing is simple. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JustJay04 Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Zagadka said: Nothing is simple. Understatement of the entirety of history. Edit: I have accepted at this point that most of my posts will be edited bc I forgot something. Now I’ve forgotten what I’ve forgotten. Give me a minute. Edit 2: Okay, I’ve remembered, and it is going to bring the conversation down considerably, so sorry in advance. Any other agender people have dysphoria? Like, really bad dysphoria? Bc half the stuff I see about agender people says that y’all (we?) don’t really get dysphoria. And, although I don’t really have a gender (which would be agender), my dysphoria is really really bad, so... basically everything is confusing. Yeah. Edited February 8, 2020 by JustJay04 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky Black Cat Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 4 hours ago, JustJay04 said: Any other agender people have dysphoria? Like, really bad dysphoria? Bc half the stuff I see about agender people says that y’all (we?) don’t really get dysphoria. And, although I don’t really have a gender (which would be agender), my dysphoria is really really bad, so... basically everything is confusing. Yeah. I do experience gender dysphoria. It's usually not that bad for me but can sometimes hit pretty hard that my body isn't how i expect it to be. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Strange-quark Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 8 hours ago, JustJay04 said: Anyway, I heard there was chips? Yes there are indeed! P.S. Yeah I have dysphoria I guess. Agreed everything's confusing 🤷 (that's an enby shrug btw in case it doesn't render properly). 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Luftschlosseule Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 Again, hello new people! : D Yes, I get dysphoria. Those days are really bad and nothing can fix it at the moment. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fooledbysecrecy Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 i definitely experience dysphoria. i've started to have some body image issues because of my female bits. wish they could just disappear. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JustJay04 Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 Okay, first, where in the world are y’all, bc it’s like 6:30 am here, and when I checked at 5:15 there were some people awake. (I am up for speech). Why are y’all awake?! Second, thank you for the replies. There are some I related to a little too much (nothing helps for me either, I have a playlist that can make it slightly more tolerable, but that’s about it). Yeah, I’m awkward, so... bye! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Morgenrot Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 19 minutes ago, JustJay04 said: Why are y’all awake?! It's two in the afternoon on a Saturday. Why wouldn't I be awake? xD 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky Black Cat Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 1 hour ago, JustJay04 said: Okay, first, where in the world are y’all, bc it’s like 6:30 am here, and when I checked at 5:15 there were some people awake. (I am up for speech). Why are y’all awake?! It's 2pm for me now... *lives in England* 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JustJay04 Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 (edited) If it was 2 pm, I’d already be done with my last round, and know if I made it to finals. It’s 10:40 right now. Wish me luck, I’ve got another one at 11:45. Have fun with y’all’s chill Saturdays and not having to get up at 5:15. Edit: public restrooms suck. Edit 2: It is now 3, I did not make it to finals, in case anyone wanted to know. I still have a chance at the three “surprise medals” (13th, 14th, or 15th). Edit: last one, I promise. Didn’t place. Edited February 8, 2020 by JustJay04 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rynn Posted February 8, 2020 Share Posted February 8, 2020 16 hours ago, JustJay04 said: Any other agender people have dysphoria? Like, really bad dysphoria? Bc half the stuff I see about agender people says that y’all (we?) don’t really get dysphoria. And, although I don’t really have a gender (which would be agender), my dysphoria is really really bad, so... basically everything is confusing. Yeah. Yes, I do. And yeah the 'agender people don't experience dysphoria' thing bugs me too. Some don't, some do. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Larkaloke Posted February 9, 2020 Share Posted February 9, 2020 23 hours ago, JustJay04 said: Any other agender people have dysphoria? Like, really bad dysphoria? Bc half the stuff I see about agender people says that y’all (we?) don’t really get dysphoria. And, although I don’t really have a gender (which would be agender), my dysphoria is really really bad, so... basically everything is confusing. Yeah. Yeah, I do. Some days it's really bad, some days I can mostly forget it, but it's always there. I think the assertion that agender people don't get dysphoria is one of those things where people at one point tried so hard to make the point that some don't that now other people assume that most don't. Which, as far as I can tell, is false (at least judging by myself and others I know personally). 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AM42 Posted February 10, 2020 Share Posted February 10, 2020 Some days are good, others are worse. For me, I've found it's connected to my general mental state; if I'm in a good place mentally, it's much easier to ignore the parts of my body I have issues with. But it's challenging to wake up every day and feel "Oh yeah, they are still here and I have to squeeze into the d*mn bra again". 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Keth Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Hello, may I ask what is the difference between agender and non-binary? I always thought non-binary is an umbrella term for a variety of things including agender. So I felt comfortable identifying as such. Am I wrong? P.S. Also, I found very nice honorific for nb folks - Mth., sounds like"myth". Actually, what are your thoughts on honorifics in general? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Strange-quark Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 5 hours ago, Keth said: I always thought non-binary is an umbrella term for a variety of things including agender I agree, I identify as non-binary because I'm not binary. But some might argue that agender is not a non-binary gender, since it's the lack of gender. Hmm, I think that like pronouns, honorifics should be established enough to be comfortable... Frankly, where I'm from we don't use them that much compared to English-speaking countries. So being called "ma'am" or "sir" on an airport would feel weird even if I was cis. By the way, have you had crisps yet? *Offers you some* 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Keth Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Thanks) *begins crunching on crisps* Well, I'll stick to non-binary then. We too don't have honorifics, but I always liked the idea of them. Because it is very uncomfortable for me to refer to somebody by their first name and hearing others saying mine (mostly because of dysphoria). 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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