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Nico-Nico Friendo

science (it's like dirty talk except it's about string theory, not sex.)

Talk nerdy to me! lol.

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Guitar Guy

Yeah i'll admit that I have some fetishes that are... Strange you can say... But anyway they're called "Macrophilia" and "Vorarephilia" which are linked together. Yeah go ahead and google them...

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Vampyremage

It occurs to me just how many fetishes I've learned about through AVEN, which is rather ironic when you think about it. I find it rather fascinating.

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My fetish / kinks are:

- Androgynous / Feminine looking guys

- Hair colour. I notice I am attracted to either black haired guys & honey blondes

- Arms , shoulders , lips

- Hearing other people's fantasies

- Boy x Boy stuff

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

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Blossomforth

I have quite the thing for androgyny. I suppose I have other fetishes too but they either don't come to mind or I'd rather not talk about them.

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Pyro Yoshi

I have a couple, but they're all things that most people wouldn't associate with sexual activity.

I'm an emetophile, as I get severely aroused upon seeing an attractive guy puke. I've had this fetish as long as I can remember, and all the puking videos on youtube are like porn to me, as long as the person doing it is a guy. I'm also aroused by the thought of using a chainsaw and cutting through various objects. Sometimes I get a little hot just thinking about the saw itself, or the noise it makes. Knee high boots is another kink of mine, as I think they're incredibly sexy. Any guy wearing a pair of nice knee high boots will get a visual scan from me, no matter how old he is or what he looks like.

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Well thanks to my sexual boyfriend, I might go back to my asexual femdom fetish. Wow, I haven't been in the BDSM scene in over 5 years. :lol:

Miss Newgirl

P.S See everyone on fetlife's asexual BDSM

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Vampyremage

Well thanks to my sexual boyfriend, I might go back to my asexual femdom fetish. Wow, I haven't been in the BDSM scene in over 5 years. :lol:

Miss Newgirl

P.S See everyone on fetlife's asexual BDSM

There are a couple of asexual groups on Fetlife. I'm a member of 2 of them. Under the same name as here, if anyone happens to be interested.

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improbability

I don't know if this is exactly what you're looking for, but I've noticed that I find attractive men even more attractive when they're wearing glasses.

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Gho St Ory Qwan

My new Dom might have made me develop a thing for spanking now. >.>

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Qutenkuddly

I don't know specifically what it is about this comic series that gets my attention (multiple things, I suspect), but I've been finding the stories presented by Shiniez to be really captivating, which is odd, as I'm not really into porn or hentai.

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

Yeah I am aware of that much like some peoples reasons in getting their tongue pierced,although I had my lip pierced and the last thing I thought about was smooching someone or anything else.Asthetic reasons only.All I was saying was that for someone who hates kissing I can't take my eyes off of their lips,but it makes me feel twice as queasy to do the old lip lock hold.

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I have a nose kink. If you have a pretty nose, I'll surely point it out and compliment you. As an art student, though, I like to observe and copy any kind of noses. Other than that, I really love Asian features and I often draw Asian celebrities in my sketchbook.

Also, I have a thing for Ryuhei Matsuda pretty boys in crossdressing.

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Vampyremage

I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

I have a labret and even if that was the intent, I don't know how it might enhance "smoochy time"? The labret sticks out half way down the lip and making out with tongue on the outside down the the bottom of the lip would be...upleasant. And I think unpleasant for (most) sexuals as well. Tongue piercings I can at least understand the practical benefit, although its important to note that many who get their tongue pierced do not do so for any sexual reason, but a labret? I can't even comprehend the point there...

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

Yeah I am aware of that much like some peoples reasons in getting their tongue pierced,although I had my lip pierced and the last thing I thought about was smooching someone or anything else.Asthetic reasons only.All I was saying was that for someone who hates kissing I can't take my eyes off of their lips,but it makes me feel twice as queasy to do the old lip lock hold.

I know the feeling of being unable to remove one's eyes from a place they really don't want to be, in the first place! I'm always hoping I won't be misunderstood; as if my eyes were giving away a secret desire, that most certainly is not there!! :)

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

Yeah I am aware of that much like some peoples reasons in getting their tongue pierced,although I had my lip pierced and the last thing I thought about was smooching someone or anything else.Asthetic reasons only.All I was saying was that for someone who hates kissing I can't take my eyes off of their lips,but it makes me feel twice as queasy to do the old lip lock hold.

I know the feeling of being unable to remove one's eyes from a place they really don't want to be, in the first place! I'm always hoping I won't be misunderstood; as if my eyes were giving away a secret desire, that most certainly is not there!! :)

I actually felt this way about eye brow piercings(Hmmm there does seem to be a pattern emerging here)which made it super hard to gaze at,as said piercee thought I was looking longingly into their eyes.So I ended up getting my brow pierced and the urge dissapeared.

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I'm afraid my main fetish is rather bland:knee length socks.But I really don't need to see anything past the thigh area.And the top half needs to be clothed.

I also like tattoo's and labret piercings.If I sse someone with a pierced lip,especially centre bottom I can't take my eyes off of it.More of a kink really,but it makes me feel even less inclined to have smoochy time,even though they have a pierced lip.

I don't believe a facial lip piercing is intended for enhancing "smoochy time". (Without getting graphic), its use probably has a different function in mind.

Yeah I am aware of that much like some peoples reasons in getting their tongue pierced,although I had my lip pierced and the last thing I thought about was smooching someone or anything else.Asthetic reasons only.All I was saying was that for someone who hates kissing I can't take my eyes off of their lips,but it makes me feel twice as queasy to do the old lip lock hold.

I know the feeling of being unable to remove one's eyes from a place they really don't want to be, in the first place! I'm always hoping I won't be misunderstood; as if my eyes were giving away a secret desire, that most certainly is not there!! :)

I actually felt this way about eye brow piercings(Hmmm there does seem to be a pattern emerging here)which made it super hard to gaze at,as said piercee thought I was looking longingly into their eyes.So I ended up getting my brow pierced and the urge dissapeared.

:D :D :D

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Clothing.

Ohhh my god, clothing.

I love love love men in suits, vests, suspenders, pointy toed shoes, military uniforms, priest collars, round glasses, ties, etc. Women in elegant dresses or hotpants, floral print layers, stockings and tights, lace, etc.

I just love well-dressed people, and sometimes, as in the case of hotpants, I like women who are dressed sexily but not...graphically?

Also, I love long skinny legs, on men and women, red hair, dark-skinned girls with brightly colored hair, hourglass figures, and crazy haircuts like mohawks etc.

ALSO haha, to go with the person who had the hair fetish, I have such a desire to brush long, pretty hair.

...yeah I have a lot of fetishes for someone completely uninterested in sex. OTL

You know, I never considered myself as a person with a fetish, but as soon as I read your post I had to stop and reconsider what my obsession with GQ is lol. People in nice digs. Gets me every single time.

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I have a "fetish" for crying women, particularly if they use tissues/handkerchiefs to dry their eyes, blow their nose, whatever. Also, intense trembling, some audible sobbing, and the whole consolation/cuddling thing gets me all weak-kneed and stuff. However, now I don't consider this a "fetish" and more of a hyper-intense romantic fantasy, as I am just as repulsed by the thought of kissing/doing sexual activity with said crying girls as I am with anyone else, but want badly to give the crying girls a tissue, a giant hug, and someone to talk to/"lean on".

I used to be a very active member of the Proboards forum for this crying fetish, and once that got taken down, I was semi-active on its Boardhost replacement. This lasted for about three years, back when I still strongly identified as a dacryphile/crying fetishist, which was the key reason why I did not identify as asexual until this past year, despite knowing what the term meant for longer than that.

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crimsonglass123

Feet very clean no dead skin pure white nails like they have never been walked on then even odder from just one angle back view kneeling so both feet touch and the balls of the feet are on the females bum.

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okay to some my fetishes will appear normal to others they might be a bit gross but as this place is all about honesty i will carry on

I have 2 fetishes that are linked, leather and smoking, I love to see females wearing black leather (nothing kinky just a jacket or coat) smoking cigarettes, it just looks so good and natural, the smell of the leather and the smell of the cigarette. Suppose when I was growing up my late mum and most of her friends were smokers and most wore leather jackets, it seemed that anytime you saw a woman wearing a leather jacket she had a cigarette in her hand. I got my 1st leather biker jacket at 16 and a few years later one of my mum's friends encouraged/helped me to start smoking myself, almost 20 years on I still love it. Even yet I love going out in leather and smoking, times if I am feeling depressed I will sit in the house wearing a leather jacket and chain a few cigs, perhaps it is the nicotine being an anti depressant, i love watching myself smoke too. yes i know it is bad for me cancer and a whole load of other nasties but sod it, I have already lost both parents to cancer (not caused by smoking) so my name is probably down in the chemo room already so doing something i enjoy isnt going to make things much worse

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I like giants, giant robots (humanoid), giants in uniform or "gear". Mild vore fascination, and I like most things that would fall under the BDSM umbrella. I'm an all around sub/little.

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I've been seriously turned on once in my entire life, it was purely by accident and completely unexpected. But I think it kind of relates to being a fetish, although I haven't really pursued it to figure out what about the situation got me off exactly. If you're curious, what happened was:

My best friend and I were sleeping together, which is really typical of us. We are very cuddly, but not sexy at all. Anyway, I got bitten by sand fleas earlier that night, so he was trying to keep me from scratching by holding my arms down. There was a bit of struggling because I was half asleep and wanted to scratch. I wasn't feeling anything other than grumpy for most of it, but at one point he ended up on top of me while holding my wrists down; that got me really aroused for some reason. I'm sure it had something to do with me being restrained/vulnerable and him being rather aggressive/forceful with me. But something similar happened way back in high school with a (now ex) boyfriend. He had me pinned down so I couldn't get away, but I was more afraid than anything. Definitely not aroused. I'm not really sure what was different in the situation with my friend vs ex-boy... Maybe because I trust my bestie more and that he wasn't interested in me sexually. I don't really know.

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emilyannelisa

I have a tooth (teeth?) fetish. I'm just obsessed with certain teeth, if I notice someone in a program or music video with attractive teeth I'll watch it repeatedly. Even at college I constantly look at people in my classes teeth during lessons aha. I imagine these people biting me and ugh. I'm not at all attracted to the person, just their teeth. - It seems weird now that I've written it down aha :huh:

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I have a couple, but they're all things that most people wouldn't associate with sexual activity.

I'm an emetophile, as I get severely aroused upon seeing an attractive guy puke. I've had this fetish as long as I can remember, and all the puking videos on youtube are like porn to me, as long as the person doing it is a guy. I'm also aroused by the thought of using a chainsaw and cutting through various objects. Sometimes I get a little hot just thinking about the saw itself, or the noise it makes. Knee high boots is another kink of mine, as I think they're incredibly sexy. Any guy wearing a pair of nice knee high boots will get a visual scan from me, no matter how old he is or what he looks like.

I'm actually an emetophobe, so this would be my worst nightmare... :o

But in any case,, I do have a fetish that arouses me, but I still consider myself asexual. None of my fantasies involve anything more than the fetish act/situation itself. I don't imagine faces, or any personal characteristics really. And the feeling I get from the fetish has never occurred with an actual person. I'm not opposed to sex, I just don't care for other people in that equation.

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MidnightFrog

I'm not sure if this would count as a fetish, but I love people that are shy. If someone is shy, I just want to talk to them all the more.

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Strawberry Shortcake

Tattoos... I think that I have a renaissance/Victorian fetish. A fairy fetish, and if someone is jousting I find that attractive, and cowboys. I've never actually thought much about fetishes. Peoples hands (oh gosh I love the way hands look). KILTS.

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