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BDSM, Kinks, and "Asexual Fetishes"

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lily300

BDSM, men with nice hands, calf muscles. People with their own unique style...

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Nomad in Stasis

I am into pain, bondage, pet play,and being a servant.

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Caya

Bondage and pressure applied on my body in overall(it doesn't have to turn me on always, it's just pleasant).

Pain, certain types. It's somewhat related to previous.

Clothing, usualy the kind which constricts body but also materials.

And some other particular activities in BDSM(I am S).

I've never dared to get into any of it for various reasons. Bondage is prolly what attracts me most of all, but as mentioned in previous posts, main thing is to find partner to trust to. And speaking of trust I believe it must be mutually based on openess which is not always easy for me for being weird.

Actually only thing I can (and do) enjoy is fetish for leather; since I ride motorbike there was no hesitation while I was getting gear. It doesn't turn me on, but I feel too damn comfy while wearing it :wub:

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Dawn Marie

I love this thread. I was always having trouble separating kinks from sex. But reading through here has helped me to understand that differentiation.

For example, I have been tied down before and it was enjoyable at first but it led to sexual interactions that totally ruined it for me. I guess for me it really was the trust and experiencing different feelings (feathers, cold air, warm air, a couple of swats from a riding crop) at the discretion of my partner. But knowing I'd always be safe was a great feeling. I think if I had a partner where sex wouldn't be any part of the equation, I'd find more things I enjoy.

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Hungerwolf

Well, I'm particularly into girls farting. Especially on my face. The idea of a beautiful lady passing wind kind of expresses a duality- Beauty and grossness, and I like to experience that. It's also kind of a matter of timing- You don't usually hear girls fart in daily life (unless you are a girl). And it's a thing that only happens a few times a day. So the idea of being there to witness it, especially in an already moderately rare situation like facesitting, is like seeing the stars align.

Since I'm biphilic, I like some guys farting too, but I'm much pickier and it's more about domination.


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little_miss

I'm just realizing now that a "thing" that I have had since childhood is what we call a fetish. And that "funny" reaction that I have always had to said situation is what we call arousal, at 25.

And here I thought I never had felt arousal at all.. :mellow: I am hesitant to list it as it is embarrassing and abnormal.

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Member4445

Korean Puddle Ducking.

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Dirge

Being on the receiving end of capture, torture, domination, mental invasion, body horror. Of course, this is restricted to my imagination and entertainment choices, in the interest of avoiding permanent trauma.

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nomore

I like being physically overpowered by girls... not huge muscle-bound grotesques, just your girl-next-door type who happens to be physically fit. I like to be held in wrestling holds where I can't escape- especially 'scissor' holds using her legs.

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RedPanda3

Is something still considered a fetish if it isn't related to sexuality or sexual arousal at all? My daydreams consist of being dominated physically and pain, but absolutely none of it involves anything sexual and I don't get sexually aroused by it - it's more just like an emotional arousal I guess, not sure how else to describe it. I'm masochistic, but it's not sexual at all.

I feel like such an oddity, because I try to research about people who are masochistic but not sexual and don't come up with many hits. Everything online about masochism is related to sexuality and sex. So, is not considered a fetish in my case but something else entirely?

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Preppy Punk

I get a certain pleasure from playing or listening to certain types of music, as well as physically fighting.

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I Ban AVEN

AVEN has been banned by me.

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Hungerwolf

I pretty much just fap to suppress the urge to urinate, but when I do I think of transforming into an animal or person or something against my will.

There's a whole bunch of content for that. It's called Transformation. Do you look at that?

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I Ban AVEN

AVEN has been banned by me.

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abacct

I have non-sexual fetishes for hair and suits. If a guy has really nice hair, all I want to do is run my fingers through it. It's usually the first thing I notice in other people. My suit fetish is actually suits and military uniforms. There's something about lapels and ties on suits and the professional professional look on military uniforms that make a person more attractive.

I do have one fetish I have that I guess you could consider sort-of sexual, and I don't normally tell people about that one, but I have a pregnancy/childbirth fetish. I feel aroused, I guess you could say, when one of those two topics are brought into play, but I would never, ever want to have sex with a pregnant woman or be pregnant myself. I don't want kids and I have no desire to even be touched by anybody, much less have sex.

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Vyanni Krace

I've definitely got a thing for being tied up. Both my wrists and my ankles. I also like my throat feeling a little restricted (which is why I like to wear chokers), but that's all. I don't like any other parts of a submissive role, or the idea of someone dominating me. Or anything like that. And none of its sexual.

(I went into school wearing a choker on Red Nose Day, and I didn't think anything of it, except that I quite liked the way it looked, and how it matched my clothes, and stuff like that. But then one of the boys who likes to annoy me said 'Why you wearing a collar? Do you like to be dominated?' *Cue stupid laugher*. I felt dead embarrassed, but I said 'Its a choker you dimwit. A gothic style of necklace.')

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RedDragonLover

Most of mine are, as another person said similarly, BDSM related. But hoo boy YES do I have them as an Ace.

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missquinn

Add me to the list of AVEN members with kinks! Some of mine include breath play, degradation, blood play, bondage, and spanking. I also like fictional gore and vore. I'm not active at all in my local BDSM scene at the moment, but I'd like to get more involved in it sometime in the future. I went through a really bad relationship and have a lot of trouble trusting someone enough to allow them to dominate me (I'm a switch with a strong submissive side); I would really like to know some ways to incorporate kink--without sex--into something that can be done without a partner, but in a safe way. I don't even know if that is possible. :(

I scored as "Self Sexual" on the OK Cupid quiz, with my second-highest (83%) score being "Asexual Fetishist".

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Linctagon

I like hentai.

Not hardcore disgusting shit either. I like more the softcore or love-orientated hentai.

I have a 2D complex. I don't have a single piece of regular porn. Watching regular porn makes me feel filthy.

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EllieWinters

Hello This is my first post in these forums. I'm a 17 year old male and I've had almost no interest in sex/relationships for years.

But I was wondering, do any other asexuals have fetishes? I've seen a post similar to this already but I'd like more specific answers.

If you have any could you please share them? Thank you

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Hello, welcome to this wonderful site :)

I think this is a very difficult question. because when I see certain things I don't really associate them with sex. I don't find these objects/scenarios arousing by themselves.

If and when I masturbate I have a few scenarios in my head, but I'm not actually involved in them. I'm kind of watching or sometimes instructing from the sidelines, and as soon as I climax the sexual connotations have totally gone and they aren't appealing to me in any way.

Anyway, tightlaced corsets feature, so does bondage, but I have no desire to actually do these things in real life...

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Darknight

*cough* okay then.. well, I read a lot of male/male fanfiction and I like gay porn and through that have discovered a lot of stuff that turns me on but it all only works in my head and I have no desire to do any of it. Amongst those things are: light bondage, asphyxiation, dom/sub, non-con and there's a lot more apparently.. :unsure: Not sure if I'd call that a fetish though.. hmmm..

Setting my heart a-flutter: gorgeous hands.. hmmmmmm

D :ph34r:

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Cristalake

So many fetishes... hair, lingerie, shoes, voices (thank you Benedict Cumberbatch), pain, bondage, ice, heat, pet-play, D/s... yeah... The list goes on... Though for me, it's not really sexual. It's a mental attraction (if that makes any sense to anyone).

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Someone Else

I wish people came in a greater variety of colors. Ok, that's probably not a fetish, but I still think it would be neat. ;)

Edit: And as fall girl said earlier on, many fetishes themselves are very interesting, even if I personally don't have them on my own.
And I agree with Dawn Marie, it's a trust thing and with the right person and the right trust, there might be somethings more.

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xerotigercat

I have a Master, I like fursuits, I am a furry (most of whom are gay or sex sluts I seem to be the exception), and a couple others

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Strawman Perk

Clean-cut men in formal wear. Any race, any height...just gotta be clean cut in a suit, uniform, or a tux and...

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(Pretty tame by most standards.)

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NinjaRobot

Pain. Other people's pain. Sadism seems to be the closest thing to describe it, but it's really nothing to do with dominance or anything, just that people in pain from injuries or whatever turn me on. And to a lesser extent, vulnerabilities in general. Though the latter is more of an intrigue thing than an actual fetish.

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Cimmerian

I have a few kinks. I'll put this first part in spoilers since it doesn't fit the flow of the rest of this. ^^;


One of the first ones that I think of is something that I've only recently realized is a kink but is only appealing in fantasy/writing. It's also one I won't talk about in any detail beyond this because it disturbs and rather embarrasses me that it is a kink and has been since I was young.



Kinks:
-Collarbones
-Hipbones
-Having powerful, leader-types of people freely hand over control of some sort to me. It's not so much that I have a list of things I want to do with the control as it is just knowing that the ones that usually do the ordering would obey me.
-Curves on women
-Thrones... possibly with restraints
-Temperature play and wax
-A number of different accents as well as different languages.
-Fingers running through soft hair
-M/M couples
-Andogynous appearances (more often on guys, but to some extent with girls)
-Watching toned areas of muscle move


Fictionally,
-Male Mafia/Gang leaders
-M/M fiction
-Emotional scenes, strong bonds between characters, and trust being handed over.
-After care in BDSM. (The M/M genre certainly likes their BDSM fiction... but the aftercare is the best.)

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Poison

Mine is hairfetish. I am addicted to hair.

Mine is also hair fetish :) I love to get some haircut, ( it can be too short ); on the other hand, playing hair, washing or maybe blow drying hair are my other interests..

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The Scarlet Shadow
I watched some porn and laughed too hard after yack reflexion was over. Such a weird thing to do... wacko.gif No any understanding or interest to that. Just wanted to see what action is. Could not care less.

Yack reflection? What is that?

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The Scarlet Shadow

My fetish is tickling, with bondage, but I wouldn't need bondage to enjoy it. I like the domination of when one person tickles another, and I like the form of flirting that comes with it too.

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