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crazy ace

hello world! I think i'm bi/pan/grey, but while I've had crushes every once in a while, dating isn't my style. Is it ok if I just sit quietly in the corner of the closet?

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DarkStormyKnight
10 hours ago, crazy ace said:

hello world! I think i'm bi/pan/grey, but while I've had crushes every once in a while, dating isn't my style. Is it ok if I just sit quietly in the corner of the closet?

Hi! I'm pan/gray as well! Welcome!! ❤️ 

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antisocial_shut_in

Never mind

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colorblind_sunset

I'm pretty confused about my sexuality and have been wondering if im an asexual lesbian... I have been romantically attracted to both guys and women my whole life but never dated women because I felt like it wasn't an option (religious upbringing, small, homophobic town)... I pursued relationships with guys because I liked the companionship but was never interested in sex... but I did it anyway because I felt like that's what you do to be normal... over the years I had some sexual encounters with women and they were pretty electric. but I just kind of happened into those situations...I never planned it or sought it out. the sex I had with guys was awkward and disappointing and uncomfortable, for the most part. long story short, after obsessively reviewing all of my past relationships and encounters, this is what I've concluded.... 

I don't think I'm physically attracted to guys at all but I am in love with one who I have sex with all the time because that's apparently what you have to do when you want a relationship with someone (it feels good, but it also feels weird, foreign and awkward, if that makes sense. it definitely doesn't feel "natural" to me. I feel like there's some guide book I missed)... 

I am definitely physically attracted to women when I watch porn and think about past experiences (I did not feel like I needed a guidebook in those instances...it felt hot and exciting)... but... if I was single....I don't think I'd actively pursue sex with anybody. so am I a repressed lesbian? an asexual lesbian? almost totally gay but a little bit bi? how can you love a guy but feel nothing when you look at his penis? I just don't get any of it.

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crazy ace

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C8H7N3O2

Updated my classification from bi-romantic to demi-polyromantic. I always wondered if there was a term for 'more than 2 but not all' and now I've found it! Everything else remains the same. 💜

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