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Would it bother YOU, if you never have sex/never have sex again?

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verymelancholic

Eh, I wouldn't really mind, much less if the romantic side is still there. But if an SO wants it, I'll be happy to go for it.

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UnderworldFan1988

I don't care if I ever have sex again but actually maybe for only one reason, to have kids one day but I would need to meet the right person first, I am just not sure about my sexuality at the moment so yeah there is that as well (which is a confusing as hell when your ace lol)

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Asexual_Fujoshi

Not bothered in the least if I dont have it again. 

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FindingTheta

Honestly if I never have sex again i'd be fine with it. Though if I have sex again I'd prefer it be with someone who I love romantically rather than just agreeing to it because I wanted to know how it felt like back when I was in High School.

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Guest

I’m aro ace virgin and are proud to be myself and love myself for who i am. So it definitely don’t bother me. I’m glad that i’m not gonna have sex and glad that it isn’t  a condition of life. 

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AceMissBehaving

That  would be perfectly fine with me 

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jay williams

It better not bother me because I am never going to have sex again, at least not piv sex. I likely could not do it if I tried.  As an older male erectile issues surface. So it might be impossible without some medical aid. I have zero interest in a medical aid to assist in doing what I never liked in the first place. 

No sex for me. 

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kimberbu2

Pretty sure I would be fine without it. I've gone through having my hormones checked just to satisfy a past relationship to show that my lack of wanting a sexual relationship was my choice and not just me being "hormonal." 

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will123
5 hours ago, Cocothecoconut said:

I’m aro ace virgin too and am proud to be myself and like myself for who i am. So it definitely doesn’t bother me. 

Fixed it LOL

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daveb
13 minutes ago, will123 said:

Fixed it LOL

I don't think it needed "fixing". :P 

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will123
9 minutes ago, daveb said:

I don't think it needed "fixing". :P 

I just changed it to apply to me ;)

 

Thankfully when I've come out, nobody has said, "But you don't know what you're missing". I had one opportunity to have sex (before I found out asexuality) that I turned down. No regrets then or now.

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Guest
37 minutes ago, will123 said:

Fixed it LOL

What do you mean?

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will123
2 minutes ago, Cocothecoconut said:

What do you mean?

I edited the quote to reflect my similar feelings. Nothing wrong with what you posted.

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fooledbysecrecy

hasn't bothered me to this day and don't think it will in the future

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SerenDisglair

I don't think I'll be bothered at all

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idkwmoi

Sounds like heaven to me.

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will123
5 hours ago, idkwmoi said:

Sounds like heaven to me.

After I figured out I was asexual, it felt like that 8)

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dee615
On 5/24/2019 at 6:59 AM, will123 said:

Indifferent, I like that! :)

Ditto. I'm a ferociously avid internet browser ( er) but I've never once looked up the mechanics of sex. Just never felt interested enough to do so. And I even realized this only a few years ago! I'm interested in the psychological aspects of different kinds of sexuality, but that's it.

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Techie
13 hours ago, dee615 said:

Ditto. I'm a ferociously avid internet browser ( er) but I've never once looked up the mechanics of sex. Just never felt interested enough to do so. And I even realized this only a few years ago! I'm interested in the psychological aspects of different kinds of sexuality, but that's it.

In my case, I have at least learned a lot of the details involved since over 90 percent of the population is allosexual and I figured I need to at least be somewhat cognizant of sexual behavior in order to maintain my "secret ACE identity" in conversation with my peers. I obviously do not partake but at least being armed with the knowledge help me avoid long drawn out discussions on being ACE.

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kenny.

nope, wouldn’t bother me at all

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Chamomile_Serenity
On 10/16/2019 at 12:06 PM, Techie said:

"secret ACE identity"

Somehow I'm imagining a superhero badge that you flash to come into AVEN...maybe some retinal scans. 

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Whore*of*Mensa

Nope. 

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Acing It

I always think what a chore it would be to be expected to have sex on a regular basis. No thanks.

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TreMartEyes

Never had sex last intimate encounter  was 14 years ago have needed it since probably wont need it in the future 

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Nima

Would it bother YOU, if you never have sex/never have sex again?

 

nope. not at all. I'd much prefer it that way.

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Calligraphette_Coe

It's been over 30 years for me, and 15 years since I had major surgery to save my life. If I had to have major surgery again,  I would, but only if I had to. That other thing? Not so much. I think cosmetic surgery would be more fun. That doesn't leave scars.

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toujours

I don't think I have had enough sexual experience to say I've had a great sexual experience. So up until now, no, nothing I'd miss.

I would miss intimacy, though.

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TreMartEyes

Haven't had sex in my life still a virgin. Really haven't found the need to change it 

 

-Tre 

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everclear1973

Definitely no. My previous and only relationship in my life was to please my ex-boyfriend, who I wasn't interested in sexually. I stayed with him to make him happy because I loved his company. I will never have sex again. I find it disgusting and completely uninteresting. 

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