Beachwalker Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Sex just isn't a part of my life, and if I never have it again I couldn't care less. I have had relationships end because of it, and am single. I think it is highly unlikely I will ever be in a relationship again because I think it is highly unlikely I will meet someone else who wants a sexless relationship. I am reasonably content being single but am 100% content without sex. What does everyone else think sexuals/asexuals about the thought of not having sex again, would it bother you? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Aromantic asexual virgin, and I would not be bothered. Link to post Share on other sites
truthseeker30 Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 No. Well, maybe one day I'll feel I've never satisfied my curiosity - but on the whole, no. Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I've never engage in vaginal,oral or anal sex so I can't answer this question Link to post Share on other sites
belovedless Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I'm a biromantic asexual woman, who has only ever had sex with other women. If I never had sex again, I would be happy. I don't believe I want to compromise anymore. For now, I know that I won't be compromising in my next relationship (if I ever manage to find another asexual). I wish I could lead a sexless life forevermore. There's been too much of it in my life as it is. Link to post Share on other sites
TheKindredSoul Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Non-libidoist Aromantic Repulsed Ace here who has never had sex. Never going to either. Link to post Share on other sites
Electric Barbarella Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I don't think I would, but... I'm demisexual, so who knows. Only, it's been harder and harder to trust people, so I suppose it could happen that I would enter a relationship and still not have the wish to have sex with my partner. *shrugs* It's not an important part of my life, so if I couldn't do it again, I guess it really wouldn't bother me. Link to post Share on other sites
cdrdash Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Sex just isn't a part of my life, and if I never have it again I couldn't care less. I have had relationships end because of it, and am single. I think it is highly unlikely I will ever be in a relationship again because I think it is highly unlikely I will meet someone else who wants a sexless relationship. I am reasonably content being single but am 100% content without sex. What does everyone else think sexuals/asexuals about the thought of not having sex again, would it bother you? Absolutely would not bother me to never have sex again. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Couldn't care less if I had sex or didn't have sex. I've decided on the "whatever" label btw :P Link to post Share on other sites
Sophiatrist Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Never having sex again would not bother me. On the other hand, never being in a romantic relationship again because of not having sex would. Link to post Share on other sites
NekoGetsu Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Wouldn't really bother me. Link to post Share on other sites
Blunderbuss Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 No. Wouldn't bother me at all. I would be thankful if I'd never have to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Cakey Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 No, I am far to tired to play that game and I have little libido anyway. I have even less patience for all the petty jealousies, criticisms, sulky-shoulders and endless advice on where I'm going wrong. As relationships develop, perceptions alter, as your partner changes from viewing you as an individualistic, free spirited, child of nature, unique in style, to seeing you as someone who has to be different, never listens, makes no attempt to fit in and has a list of imperfections, even you never knew you had! :) But they're only doing for your benefit,because they want you to make the best of yourself, because they care about you, Caring is wonderful, just don't do it with the forensic precision of an insect pathologist, dissecting, a bonsai dwelling, miniature-pygmy flea!!! MEEP MEEP MEEP :) Link to post Share on other sites
Tanwen Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 No, never :D Link to post Share on other sites
Vampyremage Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Would not bother me in the slightest. Now, if I couldn't play with my vibrator on occasion, that would be a different answer entirely ;) Link to post Share on other sites
Rising Sun Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 I'm not really asexual, but my libido is so low that I don't really care about having sex or not in the future. Not that I refuse to have a sex life, but no sex = no STDs, no unwanted pregnancies, and I prefer being deprived of sex rather than being deprived of cake Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Wouldn't make a difference to me in any way, man or woman. Since without a sex drive and a libido that is very low, I don't have the energy to contemplate loseing it to some random person. Link to post Share on other sites
Notte stellata Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Wouldn't bother me (and I don't think any ace would answer otherwise, except some aces who are curious or want to experiment). On the other hand, I don't mind having sex with the right partner(s) either. Link to post Share on other sites
zoidberger Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 I'd also not be bothered in the slightest. Masturbation either, other than I can see random arousal and the whole wet dream thing being more of an annoyance. Link to post Share on other sites
Beachwalker Posted July 23, 2012 Author Share Posted July 23, 2012 Is there a specific reason this is in the Older Asexuals forum? Just curious because I wondered if the OP was mainly interested in the responses of older members. Just my forum of preference. Link to post Share on other sites
runester Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 Goodness, no!!! I do a "Snoopy-dance" in my mind, every morning when I awake, gratefully alone. :) Link to post Share on other sites
test account Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 A post. Link to post Share on other sites
MadRat Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 I´m gray-A, 100% virgin and it would probably bother me if I had sex. <_< Link to post Share on other sites
curtis Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 it would'nt bother me if the reward was a relationship :) Link to post Share on other sites
NotUrAverageBlonde Posted July 26, 2012 Share Posted July 26, 2012 Dont desire it so no it wouldnt bother me.... Even though im only 25 and all... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 Never had sex, certainly not planning on ever changing that... so, very much unbothered. :) Link to post Share on other sites
aland Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 never had it, dont want it. Do want someone to hold, kiss and cuddle though but no fluid exchanges. Link to post Share on other sites
MycroftDiogenes Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 Nope. Don't want it, so not going to have it :P I may change in the future, but right now, nah. I'm perfectly happy not having it~ Link to post Share on other sites
catfancy Posted July 28, 2012 Share Posted July 28, 2012 Nope! I generally operate on the assumption that I won't, anyway. You never know, but I don't really care either way. I'd prefer not to. Link to post Share on other sites
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