Guest Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 I’m aro ace virgin and are proud to be myself and love myself for who i am. So it definitely don’t bother me. I’m glad that i’m not gonna have sex and glad that it isn’t a condition of life. Link to post Share on other sites
AceMissBehaving Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 That would be perfectly fine with me Link to post Share on other sites
jay williams Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 It better not bother me because I am never going to have sex again, at least not piv sex. I likely could not do it if I tried. As an older male erectile issues surface. So it might be impossible without some medical aid. I have zero interest in a medical aid to assist in doing what I never liked in the first place. No sex for me. Link to post Share on other sites
kimberbu2 Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 Pretty sure I would be fine without it. I've gone through having my hormones checked just to satisfy a past relationship to show that my lack of wanting a sexual relationship was my choice and not just me being "hormonal." Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 5 hours ago, Cocothecoconut said: I’m aro ace virgin too and am proud to be myself and like myself for who i am. So it definitely doesn’t bother me. Fixed it LOL Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 13 minutes ago, will123 said: Fixed it LOL I don't think it needed "fixing". Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 9 minutes ago, daveb said: I don't think it needed "fixing". I just changed it to apply to me Thankfully when I've come out, nobody has said, "But you don't know what you're missing". I had one opportunity to have sex (before I found out asexuality) that I turned down. No regrets then or now. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 37 minutes ago, will123 said: Fixed it LOL What do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted August 28, 2019 Share Posted August 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, Cocothecoconut said: What do you mean? I edited the quote to reflect my similar feelings. Nothing wrong with what you posted. Link to post Share on other sites
fooledbysecrecy Posted August 31, 2019 Share Posted August 31, 2019 hasn't bothered me to this day and don't think it will in the future Link to post Share on other sites
SerenDisglair Posted September 2, 2019 Share Posted September 2, 2019 I don't think I'll be bothered at all Link to post Share on other sites
idkwmoi Posted September 2, 2019 Share Posted September 2, 2019 Sounds like heaven to me. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted September 2, 2019 Share Posted September 2, 2019 5 hours ago, idkwmoi said: Sounds like heaven to me. After I figured out I was asexual, it felt like that Link to post Share on other sites
Life Posted September 3, 2019 Share Posted September 3, 2019 Not at all Link to post Share on other sites
dee615 Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 On 5/24/2019 at 6:59 AM, will123 said: Indifferent, I like that! Ditto. I'm a ferociously avid internet browser ( er) but I've never once looked up the mechanics of sex. Just never felt interested enough to do so. And I even realized this only a few years ago! I'm interested in the psychological aspects of different kinds of sexuality, but that's it. Link to post Share on other sites
Techie Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 13 hours ago, dee615 said: Ditto. I'm a ferociously avid internet browser ( er) but I've never once looked up the mechanics of sex. Just never felt interested enough to do so. And I even realized this only a few years ago! I'm interested in the psychological aspects of different kinds of sexuality, but that's it. In my case, I have at least learned a lot of the details involved since over 90 percent of the population is allosexual and I figured I need to at least be somewhat cognizant of sexual behavior in order to maintain my "secret ACE identity" in conversation with my peers. I obviously do not partake but at least being armed with the knowledge help me avoid long drawn out discussions on being ACE. Link to post Share on other sites
kenny. Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 nope, wouldn’t bother me at all Link to post Share on other sites
Chamomile_Serenity Posted October 19, 2019 Share Posted October 19, 2019 On 10/16/2019 at 12:06 PM, Techie said: "secret ACE identity" Somehow I'm imagining a superhero badge that you flash to come into AVEN...maybe some retinal scans. Link to post Share on other sites
Whore*of*Mensa Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 Nope. Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 I always think what a chore it would be to be expected to have sex on a regular basis. No thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
TreMartEyes Posted November 11, 2019 Share Posted November 11, 2019 Never had sex last intimate encounter was 14 years ago have needed it since probably wont need it in the future Link to post Share on other sites
Nima Posted November 17, 2019 Share Posted November 17, 2019 Would it bother YOU, if you never have sex/never have sex again? nope. not at all. I'd much prefer it that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Calligraphette_Coe Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 It's been over 30 years for me, and 15 years since I had major surgery to save my life. If I had to have major surgery again, I would, but only if I had to. That other thing? Not so much. I think cosmetic surgery would be more fun. That doesn't leave scars. Link to post Share on other sites
toujours Posted November 19, 2019 Share Posted November 19, 2019 I don't think I have had enough sexual experience to say I've had a great sexual experience. So up until now, no, nothing I'd miss. I would miss intimacy, though. Link to post Share on other sites
TreMartEyes Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 Haven't had sex in my life still a virgin. Really haven't found the need to change it -Tre Link to post Share on other sites
everclear1973 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Definitely no. My previous and only relationship in my life was to please my ex-boyfriend, who I wasn't interested in sexually. I stayed with him to make him happy because I loved his company. I will never have sex again. I find it disgusting and completely uninteresting. Link to post Share on other sites
Gypsy1315 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 I would be happy if I never had sex again. Link to post Share on other sites
Armaius Posted December 28, 2019 Share Posted December 28, 2019 No, it wouldn't. I'd prefer it that way honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
IceQueenn Posted January 16, 2020 Share Posted January 16, 2020 Not at all. I'm much happier without sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Ree83 Posted January 20, 2020 Share Posted January 20, 2020 It used to bother me but probably just because of the social view that it is normal and I felt like I wasn’t. But it doesn’t bother me now that I never have and probably never will. Link to post Share on other sites
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