Bolivar Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Hello...i'm fine ...i just want to know if a asexual person feel or have an orgasm...I love my wife but sometime i don't understand how can she go with her life and no have sex...if i don't started nothing happens...I'm new in this...i just want to get all information to take a decision...Thanks anyway... Link to post Share on other sites
The Great WTF Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Some asexuals can and do have sex, enjoy it, and have orgasms. We don't desire sex, that doesn't mean we don't have libidos. Most of us just don't care. Others are repulsed by sex. Some enjoy it and a few actively seek it out, but for the most part sex is something we are perfectly happy without. Link to post Share on other sites
darkbluent Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Can an asexual orgasm? Yes, nothing in the definition of Asexuality prevents one from feeling or having orgasms - it's purely about whether you feel sexually attracted to other people, not what you end up doing or not doing. However, it should be noted that some people simply do not feel or have orgasms, even when they feel sexually attracted to others, a condition called Anorgasmia. The causes are diverse and range from anti-depressant use, trauma to the nerves supplying the gential region, mental disorders and natural insensitivity to stimulation. Does an asexual desire orgasms? Maybe. There is no steadfast rule on this. Some asexuals enjoy orgasm, others are impartial and yet others will never get into such a situation in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest member25959 Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Short answer: Yes. Asexuality is basically the lack of seual attraction, this doesn't mean that you can't feel pleasure or experience orgasms, however. Link to post Share on other sites
qqaazzaa Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 As the others have said yes asexuals can enjoy sex, but not all asexuals do. Link to post Share on other sites
5_♦♣ Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 It varies from Ace to Ace. Some do, some don't. Link to post Share on other sites
MadRat Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 I have libido and I can feel pleasure and achieve orgasms but only by myself. Presence of another person would ruin everything for me. You don´t get how your wife can live without sex, I don´t get how sexuals can desire sex with other people more than masturbation. :lol: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Murmur Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 It varies from Ace to Ace. Some do, some don't. Indeed. Sometimes I feel like a slut, sometimes I don't. Wait a sec.... Link to post Share on other sites
Bolivar Posted April 27, 2012 Author Share Posted April 27, 2012 Thanks for all the answer...i'm asking that...because i read in some other sites that it's impossible....and for that they are asexual person ...they don't like sex...don't feel nothing... Link to post Share on other sites
Pax F Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Some asexuals can and do have sex, enjoy it, and have orgasms. We don't desire sex, that doesn't mean we don't have libidos. Most of us just don't care. Others are repulsed by sex. Some enjoy it and a few actively seek it out, but for the most part sex is something we are perfectly happy without. This ;) Link to post Share on other sites
The Great WTF Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 Thanks for all the answer...i'm asking that...because i read in some other sites that it's impossible....and for that they are asexual person ...they don't like sex...don't feel nothing... Then they were confusing asexuality with lack of libido. It's an annoying and common misconception. Link to post Share on other sites
Starr Posted April 27, 2012 Share Posted April 27, 2012 i just want to know if a asexual person feel or have an orgasm. I'm one of those aces with a high libido so yes some asexuals can feel and do like the pleasure / orgasm etc but like others say it varies cause all of us are different :3 Link to post Share on other sites
darkbluent Posted April 29, 2012 Share Posted April 29, 2012 Thanks for all the answer...i'm asking that...because i read in some other sites that it's impossible....and for that they are asexual person ...they don't like sex...don't feel nothing... Okay its definitely not impossible for an Asexual to enjoy sex! The only thing they dont feel, by definition, is a pull to have sex with particular people (aka, sexual attraction). Soem asexuals don't reach orgasm, some don't find sex enjoyable at all... but this isn't true for all asexuals. Only thing that is true for all asexuals is that lack of feelings of sexual attraction to other people. Link to post Share on other sites
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