tommas Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 I like to cross-dress now and then but only in the privacy of my own room. No one knows apart from people who read this thread. But what i wanted to know is that would you be okay with dating a cross-dresser and would you prefer to date a male who is asexual but like a man man (hope this makes sense) or do you not care? This is for fun by the way and not something which would be done in public. Link to post Share on other sites
The Pofessional Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 I guess it depends what qualifies as "going out" :^) I think different people have different idea of what qualifies that label. My idea of a date with someone is pretty similar to a day out with friends. Movies, going for walks, museums, sitting around watching TV, joking, video games. Except that you're doing it with one person, instead of a group. I would love to do that sort of thing one-on-one. Doesn't matter if they're cisgendered or otherwise. If they like to have fun, that's fine with me :^D (If they're cuddly, that's a bonus) Link to post Share on other sites
Great Thief Yatagarasu Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 Why the hell not? (although I'd prefer if it was something they told me, rather than something they leave me to find out) Actually, I feel the need to elaborate on this - I would prefer that the guy was honest about the cross-dressing and were to tell me at some point. If it were just a small hobby that he only occasionally did, then I suppose I'd let it slide if he were to not tell me for a while - but if it were a BIG part of his life, and he left me to discover it for myself, then I'd be pretty mad. That's what I meant. Link to post Share on other sites
Palovana Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 Hell yeah. As long as I like them as a person, it wouldn't really matter to me how they express themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
Faelights Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 They're just clothes... =P So yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Fitzwilliam Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 Doesn't matter to me. I myself like crossdressing as a male and binding. I typically keep it to my room as well, but I enjoy it. So I understand :P Link to post Share on other sites
Pamcakes Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 I wouldn't mind. He'd need to buy his own knickers, though (or give me the cash to get them for him, if he was too embarassed) - I wouldn't want him stretching mine. P. Link to post Share on other sites
5_♦♣ Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 I'd go out with any Asexual male, provided that we're compatible, of course. Link to post Share on other sites
Narval Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 Yeah, I would. Though I don't really see any relationship, no matter the person, going much further than best best best friends status. I'm just not into cuddling, kissing or any romantic contact. At least I don't think that I am. Link to post Share on other sites
Ace of Swords Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 I'm a crossdresser too, so it would be kinda hypocritical for me not to. Anyway, I'd date an ace that I was compatible with so even if I wasn't a crossdresser, it wouldn't be an issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Shiver Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Depends what you mean by going out. If they dressed like a typical male when we go out on a real date, but dresses like a girl in the private, then that would not bother me. If they dressed in a dress out in public I would not date them but will hang out with them as a friend. I'm just not attracted for women, but I do find butch girls pretty cute. So I guess can't have someone I'm dating be prettier in a dress then me. XD Link to post Share on other sites
Kiki Asexual Superstar Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 When my ex came out as transgendered to me, he suggested that I should date a male who liked female clothing but who did not wish to transition to a female body. He thought that it would be easier for me as an asexual female to find a male in that community rather than in the sexual community at large. He was the only sexual ex that I had that genuinely seemed okay with my asexuality... Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I like to cross-dress now and then but only in the privacy of my own room. No one knows apart from people who read this thread. But what i wanted to know is that would you be okay with dating a cross-dresser and would you prefer to date a male who is asexual but like a man man (hope this makes sense) or do you not care? I'm in the same boat. Since I am heteromantic and male-bodied I could only say I would date a female-bodied asexual who liked to crossdress similarly as long as we were compatible. As someone else said, it's only clothes. I find the other responses encouraging, too. :) (I would not wear someone else's knickers though, so no worries there. ha!) Link to post Share on other sites
Anath Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 Why wouldn't I go out with a crossdresser? :D I love crossdressers, and I find them to be just as dateable as men who don't crossdress. Link to post Share on other sites
Goldberry Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I don't really know. I've never thought about it before. I suppose it depends on if I deem that relationship important to me; i.e. that person is very significant to me and there are many things that help us to fit together, so I can look beyond that, or even be interested in it. Maybe we could crossdress together. I haven't voted yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Damaris Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 If I really like someone, it doesn't matter what they wear, in private or in public. Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I don't really care how I dress, so I don't really care how anyone else does. Link to post Share on other sites
Steam Wolf Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I, like many others in this thread, would not care. I would welcome it if they so wished. Link to post Share on other sites
never odd or even Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 depends by what you mean by cross dressing, heck i've many friends who have cross dressed and had fun, but none of them were transgendered, and been attracted to three transwomen [two who i didnt know about at the time, one i did] and it has not bothered me at all, in fact, they were my best relationships in my very small reservoir, and i like[d] their feminity. also, the fact that i am trans and would cross dress if i could gives me zero reason to object at all :P i'm actually in a relationship with a trans ace atm Link to post Share on other sites
Cirdan Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I voted no, however like others it really depends. I actually don't tend to fancy girly girls, so a girlfriend with an androgynous/slightly masculine wardrobe wouldn't be a problem. I don't really count this as cross dressing however. Rocky Horror style dress definitely wouldn't be my cup of tea, unless it was fancy dress/for comic effect. Link to post Share on other sites
Pamcakes Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 I feel the need to add a caveat to my earlier comment; crossdressing doesn't bother me, but I wouldn't want to take on the baggage of someone else's crippling psychological issues, so as long as he was happy and comfortable with himself and his crossdressing, I'd be totally comfortable - I'd even buy him pretty things for gifts on occasions like his birthday, or Valentine's Day! But if he had big hangups and self-esteem issues because of it, I'm not sure I'd be willing to take that burden on. P. Link to post Share on other sites
RandomDent Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 You kidding? I can only hope he's my size and we can wear each other's clothes! Link to post Share on other sites
Saolin Posted January 5, 2012 Share Posted January 5, 2012 As long as what they choose to wear is classy, I would date anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Kirin Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 Honestly, I have no interest in dating... but going out with a crossdresser would be a lot of fun. Just to see how many people we could mess with. Link to post Share on other sites
Jillianimal Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 I think I'm biased since I don't care to date to begin with, but if I was interested I don't think it would matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Murmur Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 Absolutely! Why not? Link to post Share on other sites
.diva plavalaguna. Posted January 6, 2012 Share Posted January 6, 2012 Not if they look really, really bad or are way too emotionally demanding. Link to post Share on other sites
FrozenCherry Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Yes but only if he shaves. There is nothing much uglier than tons of long furr on guys legs who is wearing a skirt... Sorry but it is terrible. Link to post Share on other sites
Moon Thief Posted January 8, 2012 Share Posted January 8, 2012 I would definitely date someone who was a crossdresser. If I like the person and who they are then that's all that matters. Link to post Share on other sites
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