Kilraven Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 I am not revolted by sex. Neither am I particularly excited by it. I find watching people having sex to be about as interesting as watching people eating. Link to post Share on other sites
*)mich_wils( Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 same here. a friend made me look at some porn one time, and i wasnt turned on in the slightest!i was just like;so how did she get her deriere and bikini line so smooth and hairless.......surely that hurts like fuck!?! though i find the thought of someone elses icky body fluid stuff going into my body kinda YUCK I'D RATHER DIE THAT EVER GO THROUGH THAT.... but heh...i dont really feel that strongly about it!lol best wisheeeeees :D xx Link to post Share on other sites
*)mich_wils( Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 by the way, i am suprised that most people said 'no' to the poll(at the moment, its something like 45/54).i would have expected it to be strongly the other way around!but there you go....life is an endless road of suprise!!! see youes :D xx Link to post Share on other sites
orderinchaos Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 disgusted is a strong word... I was expecting a dead on 50/50 actually. I admit to being one of the no's but it's a tricky one. Link to post Share on other sites
Gorax Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 Not if I can help it! Hehe I'll go vote for "yes" again. Link to post Share on other sites
whirlygirl Posted May 14, 2003 Share Posted May 14, 2003 (*;>)mich_wils() i am suprised that most people said 'no' to the poll(at the moment, its something like 45/54). i've asked others just what does sex feel like? bearing in mind, personally my love is huggling and kissling... Link to post Share on other sites
Gorax Posted May 14, 2003 Share Posted May 14, 2003 It won't let me vote anymore ;_; Link to post Share on other sites
ogbg Posted May 15, 2003 Author Share Posted May 15, 2003 Actually, it's pretty much half-and-half :shock: Thirteen voted "Yes", fifteen voted "No". I was expecting a HUGE majority to say "No", so I'm kinda surprised myself! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Incisivis Posted May 20, 2003 Share Posted May 20, 2003 I'm, ah, not going to answer that poll, because there's no "Er...mostly" answer. Here's my response: Idealized, poetic, fanciful sex is okay to imagine Realisitic, real, sex is "Um, no, icky," :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
atc747 Posted May 20, 2003 Share Posted May 20, 2003 Idealized, poetic, fanciful sex is okay to imagineRealisitic, real, sex is "Um, no, icky," AHH!!! SO TRUE!!! hehe 8) Link to post Share on other sites
Sunfell Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 Am I revolted by sex? No, not really. Bored by it, perhaps, and definitely one to avoid it, but sex is one of those Wierd Biological Things that Happen to Other People. Not me. I do not seek out porn, but I have made quite a study of sex, mostly to find out why it bored me so much. Of course, the literature has tons on performance anxiety, biological sexual disfunctions, kinky and fetishistic behaviors, homosexuality and bisexuality, but asexuality... Nada, unless it was some aside about it being abnormal or something. We're invisible, folks. Or perhaps...transparent. I kind of like being invisible... :twisted: Sunfell Link to post Share on other sites
orderinchaos Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 Something I realised a few days ago ... My reactions to sex depend on the gender mix involved. I'm not disgusted by sex within my own orientation, within the limits of my own idea of what is "normal". I may feel disgusted by sex within other orientations, particularly if it is depicted or shown up close. Also, I tend to separate thinking about and doing - doing is not my thing. I've kept it neutral as I'm pretty sure that people of other orientations and genders or mixtures to various degrees may experience the same thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Rabger Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 I put no, but it really depends, as it seems almost everyone has things sex related that gross them out, and things that dont. I think watching it is disgusting. Porno completely grosses me out. Bring in a room where it was taking place would gross me out. Hearing about it usually grosses me out. Even moreso heterosexual sex, but any of it, really. I find it disgusting how society displaces it, and I can't for the life of me understand sex for the sake of sex, and thats it. However, I can see myself making love to a female partner and not be grossed out in the slightest, and would probably even enjoy it. But in those terms its more of an expression love then simple physical pleasure. So, myself having sex in a loving, committed relationship is one thing, but anything else would go into the "grossed out" catagory. Link to post Share on other sites
Kilraven Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 However, I can see myself making love to a female partner and not be grossed out in the slightest, and would probably even enjoy it. But in those terms its more of an expression love then simple physical pleasure. So, myself having sex in a loving, committed relationship is one thing, but anything else would go into the "grossed out" catagory. I'm not grossed out by sex, merely indifferent to it. I can see myself having sex as part of a committed relationship, but it would have to be instigated by my partner. (I am deliberately vague about the gender of the partner since I publicly identify as bisexual, albeit with a strong preference for the opposite sex, ie: women.) Link to post Share on other sites
Skiddaloxx Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 ((((((((((((((((((Sunfell)))))))))))))))))))) Gotcha! *lol* *hugging without reason* sex is one of those Wierd Biological Things that Happen to Other People. I kind of like being invisible Me too! For some strange reason I don't understand why most of you are so effort-y in making asexuality visible publicly......i have this nice little vision in mind that it's something only coming out at night in the silver moonlight. Somewhat like the "I know something that you don't know feeling".....a secret that nourishes you from inside.....i would hate asexual pride parades!! Ewwwww. That would be so wrong (at least to me). I'd like the 4th orientation to be the mysterious figure, sparkling in the shady wood. SKiddaloxx Link to post Share on other sites
ApolloSeek Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 I am not revolted by sex. It simply has no appeal to me. Sex is perfectly fine for those who want it. What I am revolted at is using sex to manipulate others or try and seperate people from thier money. What angers me is other people insisting that I am somehow less of a man for not wanting it. Link to post Share on other sites
Gorax Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 What angers me is other people insisting that I am somehow less of a man for not wanting it. *LOL*!! That is one of the most retarded things the human race has to offer. Sometimes I go in public chat rooms and whenever a fight starts, they always make it about sex. What the fuck? The guy with the bigger penis is automatically the victor? Will his big penis (whigh gets sucked daily by 5 "hot chix" I might add) break through his chat-fight opponent's computer screen and knock him unconscious? Oh, can't forget the "i bet u never get laid" insult either! *sigh* Only on the Internet . . . Link to post Share on other sites
xena_trade_center Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 disgusted? mmmm no. I like innuendo, becuase it's fun/silly and thats me. but if it ever came to the crunch I know I'd be like "you want me to put what? where?" :o and then I'd shreak, wave my hands about, while running as fast as I can without looking back. If anything goes past innuendo, I totally blush and then start feeling "disgusted". Link to post Share on other sites
ogbg Posted July 4, 2003 Author Share Posted July 4, 2003 Will his big penis (whigh gets sucked daily by 5 "hot chix" I might add) break through his chat-fight opponent's computer screen and knock him unconscious? LOL!!!!!! I'm gonna remember that line :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
Graecisiva Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 No, definately not disgusted. Like someone else mentioned above, I sort of view it like any other activity, like cleaning your place, or having to go fill up gas for the car. It's not incredibly exciting and neither is it repulsive. It's just there. For those who like it and crave it (ie. sexuals), good for them. I'm actually glad for them but am also unable to understand it, and glad that I do not fully understand it! Casual sex, committed sex, kinky sex, straight sex, queer sex...whatever sex...is just sex. I don't find all those fluids and the exchange of them disgusting but neither am I enthralled or interested. Will someone pls pass the potatoes.. <--indifferent (to sum in one word) Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 As possibly the only person on this entire board who actually has sex fairly regularly, I pretty much had to click "no." :roll: It doesn't disgust me; I'm pretty neutral about it. OTOH, as other have said, there are definitely aspects of sex which disgust me. I won't list them off... 'cause that would be disgusting. :shock: Btw I've seen precisely 2 porn videos in my life. I laughed through the whole first one - it was anime porn, and it really was bizarre and hilarious. I feel asleep during the second one (which was more, um, traditional, I guess). Link to post Share on other sites
orderinchaos Posted July 5, 2003 Share Posted July 5, 2003 *Stomach warning for anyone vulnerable* :) As possibly the only person on this entire board who actually has sex fairly regularly, I pretty much had to click "no." :roll: It doesn't disgust me; I'm pretty neutral about it.OTOH, as other have said, there are definitely aspects of sex which disgust me. I won't list them off... 'cause that would be disgusting. :shock: Btw I've seen precisely 2 porn videos in my life. I laughed through the whole first one - it was anime porn, and it really was bizarre and hilarious. I feel asleep during the second one (which was more, um, traditional, I guess). change "has" to "has had" and that's me. I think the count was something like 60-80 when I sat down and worked it out. and my reaction to porn was similar. my first bf was showing me it to try and get me horny so I'd sleep with him. It had the reverse effect, but it wasn't at all a disgust thing. In this porn movie they actually tried to have a plot. I've summarised the plot at the bottom of the message. I was laughing at the poor excuse for a plot and the tacky music and my bf was getting very very frustrated. He was getting off on it, I was not and was finding it hilarious. We broke up a few days later (with my virginity intact). :P --- Two guys chat in a bar on one side of town. A guy (in car) and a girl (outside car window) argue at other side of town and he drives off angrily. The two guys go off to some pool centre, the other guy rocks up there too. They all walk in, check each other out rather obviously, then there's various random shots of pool playing. Then cuts to just blatant (and impossible) sex in a sterile environment filmed at every possible angle for over 15 minutes (with tacky 80s home-shopping-channel-style music playing ambiently in the background). Impossible levels of panting and moaning over the top. The "finale" scene is so overdone it's not funny. Then they all walk off, the "straight" guy drives off again, and the two guys head off and have 15 mins of sex out the back. Link to post Share on other sites
xstarzx Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 i'm not repulsed by sex but i am repulsed by the expectation that i must want it and i must be obsessed with it. Link to post Share on other sites
ApolloSeek Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 i'm not repulsed by sex but i am repulsed by the expectation that i must want it and i must be obsessed with it. Right on!! You hit dead center. That's exactly what I think Link to post Share on other sites
aury Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 i'm disgusted by the very idea of sex, not to mention bored w/ it as well. also, i ahte the fact that i can't sit down & either read a book, magazine, or watch tv & sex is either being shown or discussed. but then again, it shouldn'r surprise me, considering that the world is overrun by a slew of nymphos & sex addicts. :? Link to post Share on other sites
P Orridge Posted July 8, 2003 Share Posted July 8, 2003 I posted a no vote. I often like the idea of sex - in a caring realtionship with strong feelings being expressed and hitting a physical high. I can also get turned on by soft porn. But my actual experience of sex with other people has not matched the theory and left me feeling pretty cold. P Link to post Share on other sites
Orpheus Posted July 14, 2003 Share Posted July 14, 2003 I'm not anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
ogbg Posted July 14, 2003 Author Share Posted July 14, 2003 :shock: :shock: :shock: Link to post Share on other sites
Gorax Posted July 14, 2003 Share Posted July 14, 2003 W . . . What happened? :shock: EDIT: Nevermind. Read the other post. Link to post Share on other sites
AgentNyder Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 I think hearing my mother having sex one night put me off forever. There's nothing worse than listening to your parents having sex. :x Link to post Share on other sites
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