human_being Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Is there anyone here who is in their late twenties or early thirties and never had sex or a relationship before? Just wondering though. I might be the oldest living virgin in here. I am, Human_being Link to post Share on other sites
Cate Perfect Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 You're not. I know there's at least one virgin over 40 on the site. I'm sure she'll speak up soon. I'm 26 and a virgin. Also a relationship-virgin. Cate Link to post Share on other sites
pejoratist Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Virgin is such a silly, human-fabricated term. In a modern sexual sense, it is impossible to define, and from a biological sense, cannot be indicated or proven to exist or not. Is it a state of mind? A record of sexual action(or lack thereof?) What is it, really? It's nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Shockwave Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 32 year old virgin here. Link to post Share on other sites
Silly Green Monkey Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 I agree with pej on this. I don't even know if I'm a virgin or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Oz Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 If you don't have sex for long enough do you turn back into a virgin, or is it just considered a dry spell? :lol: Had sex a grand total of 3 times in my teens - just couldn't get into it. The last time was 1977. Link to post Share on other sites
DenyMePlz Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Rest easy human_being......I'm a 49 year old male and I remain a virgin. I didn't start out as a teenager with that intention......I played spin the bottle as a junior high kid, had make out sessions in the back seat of my car as a high schooler, but I was just never ready to take that final step. It caused me a great deal of angst during my 20's, thinking there was something wrong with me. I like women, my body reacts as it should in the presence of an attractive woman, but I just never felt the necessary urge to do more than look. Fortunately, with time I've come to enjoy my celibacy and accept myself for who I am. Link to post Share on other sites
Oz Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 DenyMePlz, I can identify exactly with what you said. The only reason I went the final step was a teenage fear of ridicule. Link to post Share on other sites
DenyMePlz Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Oz, I just found it easier to lie and say I had. Link to post Share on other sites
Cate Perfect Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Me, too. DenyMePlz. At this point most people assume I have and don't ask anymore anyway. Cate Link to post Share on other sites
Kez Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 20 and still never been kissed. Link to post Share on other sites
Oz Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 20 and still never been kissed. XOXOXOXOX :D Link to post Share on other sites
Kez Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Bleagh, pppleahg, bleagh. Never! :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
coralleane Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 20 and still never been kissed. ...21 and never been kissed. ;) Nor do I intend to be! ~Coral Link to post Share on other sites
Kez Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 *thinks* Hey, I'm almost 21! Well, in less than 6 months. Link to post Share on other sites
Vicious Trollop Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 21 and unfortunately have been kissed... although, it might have taken me a whole lot longer to figure out I didn't like it if I hadn't. So it's all good. Anyway, virgin, thankfully. Link to post Share on other sites
Tanasha Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 21 also. Never been kissed, never had a relationship/ etc. I'm just not a 'people person'. :) Anyway, I'm glad to have company on this one. Link to post Share on other sites
Cate Perfect Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 21 and unfortunately have been kissed... although, it might have taken me a whole lot longer to figure out I didn't like it if I hadn't. So it's all good. Exactly. Until then I thought it would be amazing and fireworky and everything the media tells us it will be. It wasn't. Mouth slug. Blech. Cate Link to post Share on other sites
maia Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Im 24 and still a proud virgin, never been in a relationship, and have only kissed one guy. And....when I did....I was trying not to laugh. I mean, it was just.........wet, messy and not very exciting. Link to post Share on other sites
Bee Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 I am 31 and a virgin. I don't mind, but sexual people seem to have more of an issue with it than me. I also have an appalling record with dating and relationships. And i have never kissed anyone and felt alright about it. It never did anything for me. :twisted: :twisted: Link to post Share on other sites
Justin Sane Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 32 year old virgin here too. I find it far easier to let people assume I am not, rather than enter a discussion that I would find both boring *and* embarrassing. It's an interesting question whether you should have sex at least once to discover whether you are truly asexual. So for me there's still an element of doubt. I don't lose sleep over that though :) I did kiss once, and it left me cold ........ Link to post Share on other sites
cijay Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 You're not. I know there's at least one virgin over 40 on the site. I'm sure she'll speak up soon.I'm 26 and a virgin. Also a relationship-virgin. Cate Speaking up! I'll be 42 in November. I'm not a relationship virgin but I'm sure I don't remain in the mind of anyone I've been out with. I'm probably o ne of those "oh yeah, HER". If you don't have sex for long enough do you turn back into a virgin, or is it just considered a dry spell? This is priceless, it has become my new signature line if'n that's okay! Link to post Share on other sites
Rainchaser Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 I'm 23 (nearly 24! Woo!) and still a virgin. Been kissed, and found it totally boring. Not nasty, in any fashion, but just boring. Better things to do with my time ;) Link to post Share on other sites
katilian Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 30 and a virgin. So fun to explain to doctors/nurses/other people who have a legitimate reason to know. "What kind of birth control do you use?" "Abstinence." *Weird look.* "No, really." Link to post Share on other sites
ChaliceFlame Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 I am a 30 yr. old virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
Hermitess Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 Welcome to our virginal, asexual community human_being Have a piece of Link to post Share on other sites
mimi212 Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 i'm the same as you, human being, except that i'm 25. Link to post Share on other sites
maia Posted October 25, 2004 Share Posted October 25, 2004 30 and a virgin. So fun to explain to doctors/nurses/other people who have a legitimate reason to know."What kind of birth control do you use?" "Abstinence." *Weird look.* "No, really." Hee hee, Ive had that too. A while ago I wasn't very well, and I had to have all these blood tests and stuff, and the doctor asked me if I could be pregnant. I said no. "Are you sure?" she said. "Er, yeah, pretty sure" I said. She then asked me when the last time was that I'd had sex. When I replied never, she didn't say anything but......she looked at me like I was mad. Link to post Share on other sites
Nugan Posted October 25, 2004 Share Posted October 25, 2004 21 and unfortunately have been kissed... although, it might have taken me a whole lot longer to figure out I didn't like it if I hadn't. So it's all good. Exactly. Until then I thought it would be amazing and fireworky and everything the media tells us it will be. Same here, I felt absolutely zip. My ex-girlfriend seemed to like it a lot though. I guess I should've figured out something was different about me then, instead I just assumed the poor girl was a bad kisser. Anyway, kissing is as far as I've ever gone in a relationship, and really as far as I ever plan to go anytime soon, so I'm 20 and a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
LonePiper Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Virgin is such a silly, human-fabricated term. In a modern sexual sense, it is impossible to define, and from a biological sense, cannot be indicated or proven to exist or not. Is it a state of mind? A record of sexual action(or lack thereof?) What is it, really? It's nothing. Wow. You've got it in a nutshell. I'm going to have to put that quote up on my wall or something. Anyway, 20yo virgin here and since finding this site it has stopped my "feeling like a loser" streak that started at around the age of 16. I have been kissed several times by my ex. It's funny, but the short, pleasant "hi how are you" style and such like I quite enjoyed, but the really long intense ones that she seemed to likeon did nothing for me. Link to post Share on other sites
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