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Have you ever experienced an orgasm?


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  1. 1. Have you ever experienced an orgasm, either by yourself or with a partner?

    • Yes, and I enjoyed it
      139
    • Yes, and it was just OK
      50
    • Yes, and I was indifferent to it
      24
    • Yes, and I didn't like it
      5
    • No. I've never tried to have one (either by having sex or masturbating)
      57
    • No. But I have tried to have one (either by having sex or masturbating)
      52
    • Other (please explain)
      11

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Doesn't matter if you are a virgin, or if you have experienced it alone or with a partner. Help me draw the picture. :)

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Like I said on another topic a few months back, they are mildly enjoyable, but not really that great. There are many things I enjoy more than an orgasm, like listening to Linkin Park, programming my computer, making web pages, and reading technology books. I'm not really much of a physical person, and I prefer to feel emotional or intellectual joy rather than physical joy. Besides, they only last like 20 seconds at the most, which makes them even more meh.

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My answer was no, but I tried. I'm a biological female, and I tried to masturbate two or three times, but I got bored really quickly - and I'm kind of, though not extremely, squicked by vulva, so any general touching in that area is unappealing to me - and stopped.

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Now and then I have them simply to reduce stress (it's less effort than real exercise). They're enjoyable but I'm pretty sure I get a bigger rush of oxytocin from watching Blackadder.

Mmm, Blackadder.

*fap*

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Enjoyable, but for such a short time, and not as much as people say it is. It's nice, but not totally mind-blowing. And yeah, I've only had them by myself... it's kind of like getting a massage. Nice, but you could totally do without one.

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CrazyCatLover

Yes, with someone else. I enjoyed it, but have desire to repeat the experience.

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  • 2 weeks later...

I've had them by myself, but I'm indifferent to them. Biologically, they just sort of happen without any discernable reason most of the time.

I see them kind of like belching. It happens on occasion, but then it's over and you move on with your life.

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Marco - Proprietor of Doom

enjoyable, provided my hand doesn't cramp or I get a headache after.

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I can't seem to pleasure myself enough to orgasm. When I did have sex I don't think I've ever orgasmed either. I hear it feels like you are about to pee?

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Hot_Air_Balloons

I'm a virgin. They can happen to me sometimes, without even "touching" myself. It REALLY SUCKS and is painful. Maybe I really have a disorder, especially because they happen so easily. I HATE them. But then again I hate being aroused anyway and really don't get anything out of it.

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Yeah, I've had them by myself. To me, it's not really a good feeling, not bad though, either. It just feels like a sneeze or other bodily function that releases tension. *Shrugs* I don't get why people go so crazy over it. Besides, I would rather waste my time on more important, fulfilling things, like punk rock, and :cake:

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oneofthesun

Give me 5 minutes... Seriously, I have the art of self-induced orgasm down to a science. I barely need physical stimulation anymore (which may just be the one advantage of female anatomy). OTOH I can't even get aroused in the presence of others.

I'll never understand why some people tout orgasm as a reason to have sex - They are a dime a dozen to me. Like my friend once said, no one knows how to get you off better than you.

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I can't say I think of them as pleasurable, more intense. And only done to get rid of that damn libido. They aren't a big deal and I can honestly say that if THAT is the end result with sex, seems like an awful fuss and waste of time to me...

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Dylan-Michael

Seriously, The only reason I give myself Orgasms is to rid myself of the Horrible teenage sex drive. Give my Five mins and I'm good. (Actually, there are a lot of things I'd rather do with that five minutes) As oneofthesun said, they are like a sneeze, a body function to remove tension. I hope the day I turn 18 the Urge magically goes away.

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Stormy Wether

With a lot of help from a good vibrator - but it never seemed worth the effort. The physical part happens but not the release that's supposed to be the point of it.

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*fap*

LQTM

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  • 8 months later...

I love this feeling.

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OurLittleMiracles

I masturbated by accident at first and it was really awkward when I came (no climax, simply all of the sudden I reached threashold). After that, I remember feeling a pretty goody feeling when I came. Since then, the joy has faded (the past 2-3 years).

Asexuals are known to have relatively normal masturbatory behaviour (arousal, orgasm) [i replicated this in my first poll as well http://www.asexuality.org/en/index.php?/topic/58479-questions-for-asexuals/ ].

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I'm autosexual :P. Yes I've experienced it due to masturbation. I like the feeling and I'm satisfied by it to be honest.

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By myself yes, and I absolutely felt repulsed by the feeling.

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Vampyremage

On my own its fairly easy and enjoyable. With a partner its only happened a few times and I'd just much prefer to go solo.

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I haven't experienced one, though my boyfriend and I have tried. Came close once or twice, but never actually gotten there. It's obscenely difficult.

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I suppose I might have, but it wasn't while I was awake...

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I picked other.

While I had sex few times back in time I don't think I had an orgasm O___O (sexual friends say I would have understand it...)

though I don't really care to have one either

*noms on :cake: *

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Yes. And I enjoy it a lot. I've only had it by myself and wet dreams. It feels the best the first and second time you have one, so I enjoy it while you have it.

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I can make it happen in like 30 seconds flat on my own. Longer if I don't cause myself to tense up.

TMI Below!

Clitoral only.. Not so much with insertion..

I have had them during intercourse but most of the time only when I am helping myself out.. :blush:

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