Cupcake_Master Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 The thought of sex grosses me out some times. I'm fine with it most of the time,I am writing a book with a rape sex scene,and a few sexual references,but sometimes it just makes me squirm. It's only human sex too. I'm fine with any other sort of mating,except dog or cat because of the whole overpopulation thing,but..? Why? Link to post Share on other sites
FallenAngel Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 There's a similar thread http://www.asexuality.org/en/index.php?sho...c=42652&hl= Link to post Share on other sites
Cupcake_Master Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Hm,I checked that one out. I guess it's similar,I didn't think it was similar enough at first glance Link to post Share on other sites
ily Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I don't think we'll ever figure this out because it's a chicken-and-egg thing. Does sex gross you out because you're asexual or are you asexual because sex grosses you out? That said, I think it's probably a good thing to not enjoy writing a rape scene. Link to post Share on other sites
Eras Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Sex doesn't gross me out, I'm just not interested in it. Link to post Share on other sites
Porygon Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Because genitals are oozy and icky? :/ Link to post Share on other sites
Filmfan Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I don't think we'll ever figure this out because it's a chicken-and-egg thing. Does sex gross you out because you're asexual or are you asexual because sex grosses you out? I think that's a good way to put it. I've always thought of sex as gross and a bit odd. But I don't know which came first. Maybe the grossed out part. Link to post Share on other sites
Charlieee Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 I don't think we'll ever figure this out because it's a chicken-and-egg thing. Does sex gross you out because you're asexual or are you asexual because sex grosses you out? That said, I think it's probably a good thing to not enjoy writing a rape scene. Yeah, that's a really interesting way to think of it, I never have like that. For me, I think it's the former. I used to be unbelievably grossed out by sex, I thought it was extremely disgusting and I wanted absolutely nothing to do with it.... Recently, though, I spent a few weeks living with some extremely sexual friends of mine, and now I'm completely fine with sex, and I'm actually a bit curious about trying it myself.... So it was that sex grossed me out 'cause I'm asexual, but that's since changed. :) So yeah. I think everyone has different reasons for feeling like they do about sex. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
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