moreau36 Posted March 13, 2009 Share Posted March 13, 2009 not a virgin. i did actualy want to have sex as a virgin. had it, found it disapointing and boring. had sex a few more times in another relationship, mostly as i felt i had to - plus i liked making her...happy. not had it since (3 years ago) Agreed. I have two sexual experiences and, quite frankly, they were both repulsive and quite regretable. Not to mention that I didn't feel anything in either experience. I would rather stay a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
AFlyingPiglet Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Am not a virgin. Was sexually active in my 20s in a relationship over 9 months to try to prove to myself I wasn't Asexual - guess what, It didn't work! Thankfully I've now accepted that I'm Asexual. At the time, it felt like I was giving my consent to being raped. Needless to say I don't think I will be trying it again. Link to post Share on other sites
Nalle Neversure Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Asexy, not a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
pawprint prettysure Posted March 14, 2009 Share Posted March 14, 2009 Asexy. Not a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
TheSMMG Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 I'm a virgin. I'm simply not capable of sex - and I have tried. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest member25959 Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 Non-virgin, thats how i know for sure i am asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
Steanne Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 I've had sex. I've even enjoyed it, but in the end it's not worth the investment. Link to post Share on other sites
fix Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Virgin! I've fallen in love before but couldn't stand the idea of sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninny Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 I'm not a virgin <_< I liked non-penetrative sex, but full sex just did sod all for me, intially felt good and then it was just friction - I give it a resounding "Meh" Although I don't really regret it, I guess i'm just one of those "try it and see" folks. Makes me squirm to think of it though, seems so un-Ninnyish it's like I was a different person back then, I just can't imagine it now Link to post Share on other sites
monellia Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I'm a virgin and don't intend for that to change. But even though I'm asexual, I'm not completely adverse to the idea of having sex. If it happens, it happens. Link to post Share on other sites
ProdeFemme Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 I'm not. Link to post Share on other sites
ThePieMaker Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Non-virgin, thats how i know for sure i am asexual. <_< ... Anywho, I'm a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
ProdeFemme Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Non-virgin, thats how i know for sure i am asexual. <_< ... Anywho, I'm a virgin. I'll second the <_< I knew I was ace before I ever had sex, don't get me started on that damnable "don't knock it 'til you try it" shite... Link to post Share on other sites
peachy Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 Virgin and plan on staying that way. But, who knows...? Link to post Share on other sites
Rising Moon Droplet Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 17 and a virgin. The idea of me having sex repels and disgusts me (though I'm fine with the idea of other people having sex as long as they don't do it in front of me ;D), so I don't see myself ever having it. Of course, this might change, but for now... Ick! Link to post Share on other sites
CamoQueen N MS Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 yes i am and i plan to stay that way. Link to post Share on other sites
ihatemyusername Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 virgin take a picture :) Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Dandylion Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 Am not a virgin. Was sexually active in my 20s in a relationship over 9 months to try to prove to myself I wasn't Asexual - guess what, It didn't work! Thankfully I've now accepted that I'm Asexual. At the time, it felt like I was giving my consent to being raped. Needless to say I don't think I will be trying it again. This is actually exactly how I would describe it. It's the way I described it in my mind anyway (but never wanted to voice to anyone) >____> Strangely enough, I was active for that same amount of time, but after several months, I had seriously suggested the option of us not having sex anymore. That... didn't end up being the case <_< Link to post Share on other sites
bligyn Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 To show Asexuality is different from abstinence and celibacy. Unfortunately, according to this poll most people would declare we didn't know what we wanted and were being celebate instead of asexual. BTW I am also a virgin and plan on staying one. Link to post Share on other sites
sips Posted July 1, 2010 Share Posted July 1, 2010 had to add my vote as a non-virgin :P Link to post Share on other sites
young.modern Posted July 2, 2010 Share Posted July 2, 2010 I thought that if I had sex, then maybe I would feel some kind of sexual attraction... I was wrong. I'm not even sure if that made any sense. In other words, I had sex because I needed to see if there was any kind of sexual desire in me. There was not. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrozenCherry Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Harlequinn Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 no, i'm not, and i'm glad about that, because having sex allowed me to realize that it was something i didn't want, and saved me a hell of a lot of confusion :D Link to post Share on other sites
Jockey Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Maybe a better question would be whether we've ever had VOLUNTARY sex. I'm no on both counts, but I'm sure there are people here whose loss of virginity was not by choice. Link to post Share on other sites
tintinnabula Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 Nope. I've never even so much as kissed anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Member33070 Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 I'm a virgin. Plan to stay that way for as long as possible. Link to post Share on other sites
MJM58 Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 Yup, and I'm not interested in losing it. Link to post Share on other sites
Nyxks Posted August 13, 2010 Share Posted August 13, 2010 The main reason why I am not a virgin is because I was raped, kind of hard to be virginal after getting raped if I'd had my choice in the matter I'd not have had sex till I meet my hubby and it likely wouldn't have happened till after we got married. Link to post Share on other sites
Wild Seven Posted August 16, 2010 Share Posted August 16, 2010 Not a virgin. Some of it, I've enjoyed, some of it, I haven't, yet other part of it left me hugely traumatized. But I don't regret not being a virgin. I came to understand, for me personally, there isn't much of a fuss around it. It's the whole context mattering more, than the act itself. Link to post Share on other sites
Solas Posted August 16, 2010 Share Posted August 16, 2010 I'm a virgin, but not necessarily celibate. I have no interest in ever having sex, but I'm not repulsed by it. Link to post Share on other sites
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