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I googled 'asexual' today and found this sad thread in a forum. The Tread was started a couple of days ago, it is titled 'How To Deal With Asexual Men? Yes, they still exist sadly'.

Some quotes:

"Asexual … Guys who are complete virgins and have never dated and are still in that stage where girls have...cooties or something"

"can he make babies with himself? rofl"

"I've always thought of 'asexual' men as having big egos and thinking they're too good for anyone else."

"if he's really an 'Asexual person' then you can not mold these kind of people. they're in the process of finding treatments"

"Are you sure he's not gay but not letting anyone know?"

"Asexual people will get out of it later."

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*contemplates making an account there*

I've never heard of soompi ..

"And further more, these types of guys aren't exactly sweet because they have no experience with relationships and such."

<_<

yes..that is quite sad.

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Rather sad, but I wouldn't take it too seriously. It's just a bunch of kids talking about stuff they have no clue about. After all, ahjt can you expect from a forum where it says in the header "Ethnicity-related topics - temporary ban - Due to the inability of certain members to properly keep a civilised discussion with regard to ethnicity-related topics, koumi and I have decided to ban all ethnicity-related topics for now."

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Meh. The OP's definition of asexual is basically guys who don't want to have a girlfriend, which, at our age, isn't uncommon if you don't care about social stigma.

The bit that really upset me was the post about Montel. This is an acid test of what half the people watching that would have thought- that we're 'getting treatment or something'.

Although the latest post is by someone who actually knows what they're talking about.

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I just skimmed through all the STUPID posts on that thread, and found this which angers me greatly! :angry:

"You rape him.

<3

_ i reckon you could bring out their... wild side. ;3

at base, we're all just ...'animals'.

when we have to be. :]"

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I've just posted and informed them of this site, hopefully it'll help the poor ignorant souls. :lol:

Yes I'm still evil, but at least I didn't flame them. :rolleyes:

aww thats so nice of you

damn you you beat me to it..and no flames..how disappointing :P

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I've just posted and informed them of this site, hopefully it'll help the poor ignorant souls. :lol:

Yes I'm still evil, but at least I didn't flame them. :rolleyes:

That's great Drazo, let's just hope none of them come on here, make an account, and spam the hell out of AVEN. Cause that could happen. *sighs* That's some people for you.

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That's great Drazo, let's just hope none of them come on here, make an account, and spam the hell out of AVEN. Cause that could happen. *sighs* That's some people for you.

Actually, I incredibly doubt that would happen. Looking at soompi, it's just a forum of idiots who seriously wouldn't care enough to do something like that.

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That's great Drazo, let's just hope none of them come on here, make an account, and spam the hell out of AVEN. Cause that could happen. *sighs* That's some people for you.

Actually, I incredibly doubt that would happen. Looking at soompi, it's just a forum of idiots who seriously wouldn't care enough to do something like that.

I guess so, but then again it could happen. We had a spammer the other day leave a whole bunch of stupid stuff lying around, it's a good thing Amcan took care of it.

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I guess so, but then again it could happen. We had a spammer the other day leave a whole bunch of stupid stuff lying around, it's a good thing Amcan took care of it.

Yeah, although an automated spambot finding web forums at random and automatically spamming them all with links to viagra sites is quite different from bored members of another forum trying to piss us off.

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One of them mentions that he saw somewhere on their site that 1% of people are asexual. There may already be an avenite there. Somewhere

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Sad but unsurprising. Every classification of people, of whatever race, age, class, occupation, religion, sexuality, nationality, size etc is going to have someone out there making unconsidered, offensive remarks about them. No-one is safe from the ignoramuses.

To begin with from the title of the thread I thought this was going to be about like stand-up comedians or something. That sort of joking would be OK, 'cos it's meant in jest and they pick on everyone in turn. But when it's genuine ignorance and spite like this...well yes that is grounds to be offended.

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Most spam now are just automatic 'browsers' or 'posters' running specialised scripts or applications (bots) to post (or even sneak in their profile or signature) as many links to their own highly commercially competitive sites as possible on various sites so the search engines top up their page rank. Basically the reason(s) all lead to money eventually, not (just) to piss us off. Generally hackers or script kiddies would try to hack the site and do as much damage as they can and like to, just for the fun of it or to piss us off.

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I googled 'asexual' today and found this sad thread in a forum. The Tread was started a couple of days ago, it is titled 'How To Deal With Asexual Men? Yes, they still exist sadly'.

Some quotes:

"Asexual … Guys who are complete virgins and have never dated and are still in that stage where girls have...cooties or something"

"can he make babies with himself? rofl"

"I've always thought of 'asexual' men as having big egos and thinking they're too good for anyone else."

"if he's really an 'Asexual person' then you can not mold these kind of people. they're in the process of finding treatments"

"Are you sure he's not gay but not letting anyone know?"

"Asexual people will get out of it later."

I dissagree with all these things I'm none if these except a man.

do you guys think 4chan likes asexuals?

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How idiotic. It's so easy for people to make fun of what they don't understand.

Seems like hippiehop is the only sensible and reasonable person on that topic.

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do you guys think 4chan likes asexuals?

Lol, 4chan.

They probably wouldn't care. Anonymous doesn't really care about anything really, unless they do something to piss them off. But I wouldn't rely on /b/tards to say anything positive about us, of course. =/

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It's a pity really, however I wouldn't be too quick to jump to conclusions, even though I have before and I apologise for doing so, they can be reading this very thread, like we are doing of theirs. -_- So, in all honesty, saying such things won't help either one of us come to an equal understanding of each other. That's all I have to say on this matter. I wish whoever that's involved in this well.

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Yeah, the only post that didn't just make me roll my eyes was the rape one. That just creeps me out, because they might not be joking. *Shudders* I hate people who think that rape or any form of abuse is the answer.

Overall, though, it seems more like they dont understand the concept. It's not that uncommon. I got stuff like that on dA a lot.

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I dissagree with all these things I'm none if these except a man.

do you guys think 4chan likes asexuals?

A large portion of Anon doesn't care, a tiny percentage are asexuals, and a tiny other percentage always throw a huge fit about asexuals, probably because they are insecure in their own sexuality. A few asexuality posts have come up and that's always what the outcome seems to be.

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It's a pity really, however I wouldn't be too quick to jump to conclusions, even though I have before and I apologize for doing so, they can be reading this very thread, like we are doing of theirs. -_- So, in all honesty, saying such things won't help either one of us come to an equal understanding of each other. That's all I have to say on this matter. I wish whoever that's involved in this well.

To me this is no misunderstanding, this is simply sick. An asexual wouldn't make fun of or offend sexual people (as long as one isn't antisexual at least maybe).

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This kinda makes me think of the "I'm better than you" and "I want to be better than you" attitude we humans naturally have. Those who mock or hate asexuality probably sees asexuality as 'prude-ness' and thus makes them feel like they're being perceived as dirty whores/sluts and such, and since everyone dreams of being special or better/the best, people like them naturally put others down because they don't want to seem inferior because of something they can't necessarily help.

Think of it, imagine you were as sexual as they come (excuse the pun) and suddenly a bunch of people started preaching how they don't feel the desires as you do and claim how they have lives with little or no sex let alone screaming desires and drive. Wouldn't this eventually make you feel dirty or feeling LESS than 'average'? Because instinctively we all want to fit in with all others or be better, not worse. If someone else claims they don't suffer from shameful primitive desires and urges (and act on them) it may seem like they have better control, whether instead or as well, and so then we preach against them, deny their existence or otherwise try to make them look bad or wrong.

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Oh, I don't know why you bother with this kind of people... 14w7ups.gif If ignorance is bliss, those guys must be in Paradise...

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Think of it, imagine you were as sexual as they come (excuse the pun) and suddenly a bunch of people started preaching how they don't feel the desires as you do and claim how they have lives with little or no sex let alone screaming desires and drive. Wouldn't this eventually make you feel dirty or feeling LESS than 'average'?

Are we preaching? I hope not. Sex is not filthy - for an sexual it is a really wonderful thing. I really doubt that a sexual would feel dirty because other people abstain from or do not care about sex.

I can understand if someone is making fun of celibates. I would never do that, but I can understand that. But making fun of asexuals or homosexuals can not be tolerated.

Because instinctively we all want to fit in with all others or be better, not worse.

What about subcultures like punks or gothics? They'll do anything not to fit into society.

If someone else claims they don't suffer from shameful primitive desires and urges (and act on them) it may seem like they have better control, whether instead or as well, and so then we preach against them, deny their existence or otherwise try to make them look bad or wrong.

At least as one is not antisexual, why would an asexual think 'I don't care about sex, so I'm better than others'. That doesn't make sense to me. Again: The majority of people do not think that sex is something dirty. Correct me if I am wrong.

But, I aggree that it is very hard for a sexual to understand how it is to be asexual. I experienced this myself when coming out.

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Are we preaching? I hope not. Sex is not filthy - for an sexual it is a really wonderful thing. I really doubt that a sexual would feel dirty because other people abstain from or do not care about sex.

I didn't say we preach against sex or sexuality. But I did suggest we do promote ourselves. That's the nature of AVEN - to preach asexuality to increase our visibility and to let others who may be asexual know that they're not alone.

What about subcultures like punks or gothics? They'll do anything not to fit into society.

What's that got to do with being alike others or finding your place in sexual society let alone sexuality and lack of? Besides punks and goths are a clique, they are alike each other in many respects and generally get along with each other. I generally don't get along well with anyone else, including fellow 'uniques' or sub-cultureless people, does that make me a goth or punk? You are what you are, I am what I am.

At least as one is not antisexual, why would an asexual think 'I don't care about sex, so I'm better than others'. That doesn't make sense to me. Again: The majority of people do not think that sex is something dirty. Correct me if I am wrong.

That's nothing to do with what I meant. I didn't suggest myself that asexuals are better than others or think they are. I'm on about the bashers/anti-asexuals think that asexuals are boasting themselves.

If you were sexual and more or less proud of it (yes imagine youself in the sexual/hyper-sexual's shoes), and then someone came along saying how they have little or no sexual desire and/or drive and enjoy their sexless life, it would be easy, if you had little understanding and/or insufficient intelligence, to think that they are boasting or preaching or such about their control or cleanliness (even though it's not true) and you would likely feel the need to defend your territory or establish that being horny and having a active sex life is still normal and better.

Basically I was just making a general suggestion on why some people hate or mock asexuality. It's one of my morals: "learn/understand your enemy/opponent" and "be forgiving, not tactless", even though they both can be pretty difficult.

Have some :cake:.

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What about subcultures like punks or gothics? They'll do anything not to fit into society.
What's that got to do with being alike others or finding your place in sexual society let alone sexuality and lack of? Besides punks and goths are a clique, they are alike each other in many respects and generally get along with each other. I generally don't get along well with anyone else, including fellow 'uniques' or sub-cultureless people, does that make me a goth or punk? You are what you are, I am what I am.

I understood your first posting that most people want to fit into society. Obviously I got that wrong.

At least as one is not antisexual, why would an asexual think 'I don't care about sex, so I'm better than others'. That doesn't make sense to me. Again: The majority of people do not think that sex is something dirty. Correct me if I am wrong.

That's nothing to do with what I meant. I didn't suggest myself that asexuals are better than others or think they are.

Did I say: 'Drazo, why the heck do you think asexuals are better people than sexuals?' I didn't say that ^_^

I'm on about the bashers/anti-asexuals think that asexuals are boasting themselves.

If you were sexual and more or less proud of it (yes imagine youself in the sexual/hyper-sexual's shoes), and then someone came along saying how they have little or no sexual desire and/or drive and enjoy their sexless life, it would be easy, if you had little understanding and/or insufficient intelligence, to think that they are boasting or preaching or such about their control or cleanliness (even though it's not true) and you would likely feel the need to defend your territory or establish that being horny and having a active sex life is still normal and better.

Basically I was just making a general suggestion on why some people hate or mock asexuality. It's one of my morals: "learn/understand your enemy/opponent" and "be forgiving, not tactless", even though they both can be pretty difficult.

Drazo, I have already understood that in your first posting. It's just that I have a different point of view, and that's fine, that's why we are here and what this forum is for.

These kids are not mature enough to understand what they are talking about. I suppose they will regret their statements when they will be grown-up. I say: Ignore them - don't argue with them.

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But I was merely trying to speculate why they couldn't understand/act hostile to even the idea of asexuality. I don't know whether that is the case or not but either way I agree that they are immature about it.

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I googled 'asexual' today and found this sad thread in a forum. The Tread was started a couple of days ago, it is titled 'How To Deal With Asexual Men? Yes, they still exist sadly'.

Some quotes:

"Asexual … Guys who are complete virgins and have never dated and are still in that stage where girls have...cooties or something"

"can he make babies with himself? rofl"

"I've always thought of 'asexual' men as having big egos and thinking they're too good for anyone else."

"if he's really an 'Asexual person' then you can not mold these kind of people. they're in the process of finding treatments"

"Are you sure he's not gay but not letting anyone know?"

"Asexual people will get out of it later."

Thats stupid! I like asexual people because i am antisexual. But its not fun to watch how u lose. Asexual people cant protect self. Because they are not haveing sex, but they are not hateing it. But antisexuals can protect them self. If some stupid sexual come and says:F### antisexual i just answer. Who are u better than me?

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