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CrazyCatLover

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In theory I'm indifferent to the whole idea, and I'm not bothered by the thought of other people doing it. Whatever, that's their business.

However, if I find an 'erotic' story in a book or magazine that goes into detail about a sexual encounter, or if I see images of the 'reproductive parts' shall we say, or pictures of 'it' taking place, or if a friend describes a sexual encounter in a way that leaves nothing to the imagination, then I feel grossed out and a bit sick. Depending on the situation I sometimes also feel amused at the same time, but the revulsion is always there.

If I imagine myself doing it, I feel icked out. If I imagine other people doing it (ie no real images, just images in my head) then I'm OK with it. So I guess I'm pretty similar to you in that respect.

Same here. You put that much better than I would have. Images of the reproductive parts usually don't disgust me; they just look like any other anatomical illustration.

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ProdeFemme

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It did when I was younger, but not so much now.

However, I still getting irritated in record time with the excessive PDA's of some others. Not disgusted, but really annoyed, while everyone may be thinking it, I'm the loud-mouth who actually yells "Get a room already!" :lol:

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Talley

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I'm not disgusted by sex, no. I can see why some people do it, and some people don't. I just don't feel much of an inclination to do it. I think a relationship can be perfectly functional and lovely without.

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Amcan

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No not in the least. Unless it comes to me. Me and sex yuck. But everything else...nope not disgusted.

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Adm_Twister_JCOM

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I'm very disgusted by sex, anything having to do with it, and its prominence in our society. I tend to be very vocal about PDAs, but am a little more tolerant when it's my friends who I see doing that.

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kt8

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I can't even imagine myself having sex. I pretty much don't care, I'm indifferent. Other people can have sex if they want, just leave me to my happy oblivion.

-Katie

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Shinnok

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I change. Sometimes I see it repulsing, sometimes indifferent. It depends on the day I guess. I've never had it and I'm pretty sure I never will but I find sex jokes to be hilarious. I enjoy sex dreams....a lot..since in a dream I can do it with whoever I want, fictional or real (mostly fictional lol)

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Vampireseal

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I can read about it, and see it on TV and I generally feel indifferent to it. I saw porn once and found it to be like watching people eat: faintly disgusting and mostly tedious.

I don't mind discussions about sex in general, but for myself, I can't envision myself having sex. It just feels alien and inappropriate, like copulating with a chair or giraffe or something.

Heterosex and homosex does not repulse me any more or less than the other. It's kind of all the same to me.

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tisha313

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Receiving pleasure i.e. oral sex does not disgust me. I happen to enjoy that and can orgasm from it. When I was in a relationship that's all I wanted.

the problem is penetration. Never had a good experience with it, ever. Whenever my ex boyfriend used to climb on top of me, I would be rolling my eyes or secretly laughing at how ridiculous it was. I think it was because I wasn't that into him, the whole act seemed cheesy, and I felt like I shouldn't be doing it. Sometimes the way he touched me turned me off, his hands were rough, his breath smelled really bad. Ugh. I couldn't wait until he got to the oral sex so I didn't have to see the ridiculous look on his face when he was on top of me.

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merkat82

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I'm not repulsed by sex, in fact it's quite an interest of mine and not something that I view as distasteful or dirty at all.

Ditto. I can read explicit sex scenes/descriptions in novels or non-fiction books, I can talk about it, I've watched programmes and films with quite explicit sex scenes (some of which would be classed as soft porn) and in my area of study (ancient history) there are many depictions of sex and much discussion of (mainly male, homosexual) sex acts. Its only at extremes that I would be disturbed, particularly if it includes depictions of non-consensual sex. I'm not remotely repulsed by the idea of me having sex, I can and have been involved in sex in the past; I'm just pretty indifferent as to whether I do it or not.

I relate to this so well except that I have not been involved in sex in the past. Sex in general just doesn't bother me and is sometimes interesting in the right context (so long as I'm not doing it myself).

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gazster83

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well i wouldnt say im disgusted by it i can only say i just dont fancy it. i dont even like it when the subject gets brought up in conversation.

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ThePieMaker

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I'll be quite honest, the act of sex itself does gross me out a little. I can talk about it like an adult and be mature and whatnot, but when I REALLY think about it, I'm a little bit grossed out.

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kwiatuszku

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it doesn't bother me if it's two people in love

it really bothers me when it's someone talking about having sex with someone they don't even care about

i can understand sex as a way to share your love but if there's no love it's just disgusting

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AVENCakes

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I'm disgusted when real people are involved. I read several comics with sexual situations, one of which could probably be called porn. Yeah, it gets annoying sometimes, but it's well drawn and written, so I'm okay with the occasional bit of sex. There's one that involves sex/sexual situations in every strip, and I think it's funny as heck.

I hear actual people just say something as innocent as "I'd rather not admit to my mom that I'm having sex" and my brain clicks off and is like "ohgodgrosspeopledonotactuallydothatdothey"

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Mad Larkin

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I am not disgusted by sex,but i do find the whole thing uncomfortable and rather unneccessary, i have done it on many occaisions when i was younger,when i was married,but it was more because i had not realised i was asexual then. I was doing it because i thought it was something i had to do

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It doesn't disgust me, disturb me or make me uncomfortable in any way talking about it.

I just prefer not to incorporate it into my lifestyle.

You could probably annoy me, though, if it was all you talked about(I knew a few people who were like that). But even then. I wouldn't be offended in the slightest. I'd just tune you out.

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Sex is a natural part of most human beings, and it is perfectly normal for two people who love each other to wish to express it in an intimate way such as sex. It's also the only way I'm here on this earth, so I'd better be thankful for that.

...However, as much as I try to talk myself through the logic of it, I still kind of get grossed out. I think it's great if a couple in love gets married and has sex as a way to get closer and express their deep love and commitment, but I still get a tad uncomfortable when sex is brought up in conversation. Sexual jokes are also just wrong (IMO), and seriously, there is a lot more to this world and a lot more activities in life much more fulfilling than sex (in spite of what media and fellow college students want me to believe).

Yeah, and - as immature as this sounds - the remotest thought of me + sex = GROSS!!! AAUUGH!!! RUN AWAY, RUN AWAY!!

;) You get the picture

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KJDragonfly

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It doesn't make me disgusted, but it does make me uncomfortable- very uncomfortable. I can think about the theoretical better than the practical though. I believe sex is socially constructed and artificial in so many ways and I find that fascinating. But the thought of two people I know having sex- ugh.

Katie

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Cassiopeia

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Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on this. I have always felt a bit sick about the thought of myself having sex, but I don't really feel disgusted or repulsed by the thought of others having sex.

I guess I'm interested to see whether sex is something that just doesn't appeal to you or whether it is something that you find disgusting.

I read/write and draw porn, I have no issues talking about sex in depth or anything related to sex, I'm just not interested in doing it myself. I HAVE had sex, done "Kinky" things, but never understood the big deal about it and what people find so enjoyable. I've always thought "I could be doing so many other more enjoyable things at this time"

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Toxic Jello

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I'm very indifferent towards it. I think it's beautiful, not disgusting at all--it just doesn't appeal to me, the physical aspects.

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anonymous7337

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YES OH LORD YES!!! Sex not only disgusts me, it ANGERS me!!! If people weren't abusing sex so mch this day and age, maybe I wouldn't be very disgusted with sex... but that's not true, so I am... I am VERY disgusted.

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