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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual?

Yes.

2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...)

Yes.

3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now?

No. I have occasionally been intellectually drawn to people, but I wouldn't call that a crush.

4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)?

I've never been in a romantic relationship with another person, but I would very much like to be.

5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married?

I would very much like to find a life partner. I don't know about marriage, it would have to be something we both agree on. But I'm not against it.

6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption)

Not sure. I might want to have to raise a child with a person I love at some point in my life, but it's not a necessity to me. Not yet anyway.

7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people?

Hand-shaking is fine, but I'm not big on kissing hello.

8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people?

Very much depends on the people. Might love it with someone. Might hate it with someone else.

9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people?

No.

10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium)

Yes.

11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past?

Yes.

12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people?

No.

13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person?

Never happened. Might happen with someone I love, out of curiosity or as a way to feel close to them. Not a necessity, though.

14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing?

No.

15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?

My parents know, my brother and a few very close friends.

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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual?
Yes
2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...)
Yes, aesthetic and psychological
3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now?
yes
4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)?
yes
5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married?
Yes
6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption)
Maybe
7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people?
Depends
8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people?
dislike
9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people?
no
10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium)
no
11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past?
no
12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people?
no
13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person?
Yes
14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing?
no
15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?

One person knows, my best friend

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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual? yes

2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...) yes

3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now? no

4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)? yes

5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married? maybe, unsure

6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption) yes, hopefully adoption

7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people? depends on the person, usually yes

8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people? dislike

9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people? no

10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium) no

11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past? no

12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people? no

13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person? no

14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing? no

15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?brother, sister, and a few friends know, haven't told parents or extended family

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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual?

Yes.

2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...)

Yes

3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now?

Yes, in the past but I think it was mostly about an interest in the attraction and emotions that sexual people have when they are attracted to me. I am fascinated by how it works but I don't experience it myself.

4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)?

I never have and don't plan on it. This may change once I have adjusted to knowing I am asexual, it has only been two weeks.

5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married?

No, unless it was marriage as friends :)

6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption)

No, I don't think intentionally bringing children into the world is morally responsible :)

7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people?

My body wants hugs but it makes me uncomfortable, especially after a few minutes of sustained physical contact. I like massages though.

8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people?

Never kissed or had romantic physical contact of any kind.

9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people?

No.

10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium)

Yes, when I thought I was heterosexual. See #3, it is more about emotions than sex for me. After knowing I am asexual, the arousal I feel from porn/erotica is much less, and if I imagine myself in the situation my arousal is immediately gone.

11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past?

Yes, high libido.

12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people?

No.

13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person?

I'm not against the idea in theory, but I know I would say no if asked by a random, clean supermodel so probably not if I had to guess.

14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing?

Not sure.

15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?

Told 4 family members and 3 friends. I felt a personal need to tell family so then know who I really am. Others are mostly female friends with some romantic interest in me, I want them to know so they don't hold out for a possible romantic/sexual relationship that won't happen, and hopefully we can stay friends.

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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual?

No, I consider myself demisexual.


2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...)

Yes, intellectual, spiritual, romantic, etc.


3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now?

Yes, in the past.


4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)?

Yes, I have a partner, we just had our first anniversary.


5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married?

Yes, in the past, now divorced.


6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption)

No.


7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people?

Like, with people I know fairly well.


8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people?

Like, with partner only.


9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people?

Yes, in the past (was sexually active for 10 years).


10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium)

Yes.


11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past?

Yes.


12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people?

Only my partner (not acted upon).


13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person?

I was sexually active in the past. I would like to try with my partner, only if he's interested.


14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing?

Yes, BDSM.


15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?

Some close friends know about my demi-ness.

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1. yes

2. yes- aesthetically, psychologically, romantically (i guess)

3. i guess? yes, probably

4. no, no, yes

5. no, no, no. (marriage no, cohabitation yes)

6. do i? no would i? possibly in the future

7. it depends on the person

8. no opinion. (no experience with this)

9. no, no

10. yes

11. yes

12. no

13. no, no, no

14. yes

15. no one in my family, only about four friends and collegues

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1. yes
2. yes (aesthetic)
3. yes
4. never been in one but I might like to be in one
5. no
6. no
7. indifferent
8. never had any
9. no
10. yes all the time
11. yes all the time
12. Not when they are around
13. Currently no, but maybe someday
14. Lesbian romances?
15. none yet

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1. Do you consider yourself to be asexual?

-Yes

2. Do you experience non-sexual attraction to other people? (eg. aesthetic, physical, psychological, etc...)

-Yes

3. Have you ever had a crush or do you have a crush on someone now?

-Yes

4. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, in a romantic relationship with another person (or persons)?

-Yes

5. Are you, have you been, or would you like to be, married?

-Yes

6. Do you have or would you like to have children? (Through conventional means, through surrogacy, or through adoption)

-No

7. Do you like or dislike non-sexual physical contact with other people?

-I dislike it to a certain degree

8. Do you like or dislike affectionate contact or kissing with other people?

-I enjoy it.

9. Are you, or have you been, involved in sexual acts with other people?

-Yes

10. Do you ever become sexually aroused by porn or erotica? (Of any medium)

-No

11. Do you ever masturbate, or have you done so in the past?

-Yes

12. Do you ever become sexually aroused by other people?

-Yes

13. Do you have, or have you ever had, or would you like to try, sexual intercourse with another person?

-Yes

14. Do you have, or have you ever had, a fetish that could in any way be interpreted as sexually arousing?

-Yes

15. If you consider yourself to be asexual: How many of your family, friends and colleagues know about your asexuality?

-A few of my close friends know of my asexuality.

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