Asexuals and Libido

[goldenlady]

I have a normal sex drive sometimes of the month(which porn and masturbation aren't enough), low sex drive sometimes, and nonexistent sometimes.

Figure that one out. Bipolar might have something to do with those sex drive mood swings.(duh!)

[GarboFour]

ha, i've already guessed out the results.

[Windmill]

I don't even understand what the heck a sex drive is. Is it a desire for sex? Because I've never had that desire.

Same with masturbation. My friend once said, shocked, when I replied when I was 15 "What, you've never masturbated?!" And I was like... no... trying to figure out what masturbation was, and I still don't know if I quite get what it is, because I've just never bothered to look it up, because it seems its something I'd just do naturally and know what it is but I've never done anything to incite an organism or whatever, so, er, I dunno. Never wanted one.

Heres something I got from a quick google search;

Hi there I like to find new ways all the time to masturbate...I use toys, shower head, my husband likes it when I find things around the house ex. hot dog, carrot, cucumber, popsicles etc, also, I have also tried just change of scenery which helps I find cause it gets me more worked up, like on my deck, in the kitchen, on the dryer etc. I hope this helps

WTF. Someone replied they use a shower head. Why. would. you. want. to. stick. that. up. there.

My innocence is far too great, really.

[Calime]

I'm quite close to goldenlady's description - sometimes very active, sometimes not at all... it depends on the day and on the mood.

[Solodancer1]

Not a drive. A saunter, sometimes turning back the other way, sometimes circling and wandering. Even that I'm uncomfortable with. A walk to nowhere.

[Astryda]

I have no libido at all.

[Sciatrix]

Heres something I got from a quick google search;

Hi there I like to find new ways all the time to masturbate...I use toys, shower head, my husband likes it when I find things around the house ex. hot dog, carrot, cucumber, popsicles etc, also, I have also tried just change of scenery which helps I find cause it gets me more worked up, like on my deck, in the kitchen, on the dryer etc. I hope this helps

WTF. Someone replied they use a shower head. Why. would. you. want. to. stick. that. up. there.

My innocence is far too great, really.

Er, they don't. If I understand the concept correctly, the point of the showerhead is the warm water, not the metal object itself. I don't think most showerheads would fit.

For myself, very little to no libido/drive.

[sassyeggs]

I have no sex drive, I'd have thought I'd notice if I had one.

[josephine2]

normal

[deadname]

Though I voted normal, I was conscious of the fact that I have no idea what statistically normal would be. As far as the desire to have sex goes, my brain's standing at the crossroads of nil and nuh-uh with its arms folded. Instead, what I have is an obnoxious physiological reaction, much like the sensation I get in the shower when, happily soaking under the hot water, somewhere else in the house a toilet flushes, momentarily diverting the hot and steamy and leaving me pressed against the tiles at the back feeling betrayed. It's like that, but with blood. Gross.