Is there any meet ups for Sexual Partners of Asexuals

[Abs86]

I recently in the last year found out my husband is asexual and am struggling we have been together for 15 years but it all makes sense now.

It would be nice to be able to talk to others in the same situation and how to cope please. 
I live in Southampton.

[blaigorn]

Hey @Abs86 unfortunately there aren't a lot of resources or support groups out there. at least not ones that I found. You've found by far the largest support group here in these forums. I encourage you browsing as you can, reading the several experiences and options you have. For most of us it is a journey. It's certainly not easy to overcome or live with such an incompatibility, but knowing there are people in the same situation, and able to make things work certainly helps.

 

I've also started a Discord server about a month ago, for a more real-time, informal space to find support. If you are interested you can join here: https://discord.gg/5HkwdJ2PZP

[Olallieberry]

I'm not aware of any other place, virtual or otherwise, besides AVEN and @blaigorn's Discord where the SPFA's can gather.

 

Welcome

[Abs86]

Thank you both for your reply’s just thought it may be nice to meet people in person with similar experiences locally.

 

I will take a look at the discord app thanks. 
 

[Hopingforanewchapter]

On 5/9/2025 at 9:48 PM, Abs86 said:

live in Southampton

I'm a few hours north of you, in the UK. London would probably be central meeting point. Feel free to direct message if you'd like to chat. My mismatch concluded with amicable divorce, after a similar length relationship to you.