Reindeer Posted Sunday at 01:15 PM Share Posted Sunday at 01:15 PM So my general calm quiet demeanor is deeply triggering to some people. However, it's also very calming to others in most reguards. I learned to be this way because I grew up in a lot of chaos and had to essentially therapist, watch over and take care of everyone from a young age. At 18 I was able to safely evacuate everyone from the house while my father had a mental break down and tried to end himself, asking me to assist(I told him I couldn't help him). Yet this demeanor has always triggered my mother who is Bipolar and that is why when I was younger she stated she had to abuse me. I was making her do it. Now I can not say so long to my grandfather because of it and I feel like it's unfair to him. How do I make myself less triggering? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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