I'm not completely heterosexuality

[special_peple32]

A normal guy will get an erection when he sees any girl naked. But I see ugly girls naked, no libido, no erections. 

I'm not completely heterosexuality, so what am I?

[Ceebs]

Wait, what?

 

One, although it's possible to get an erection merely from seeing someone naked, physical arousal often takes more than that. Heterosexual men definitely do not always get a boner from seeing literally any woman naked. That would be weird. Even if it's their partner they're really attracted to, insta-boners aren't usually how it goes in my experience.

 

Two, you specifically said 'ugly girls'. I mean, if you're going to get a hard-on just from looking at someone, it's probably not going to be someone you think is ugly...

[special_peple32]

@Ceebs  Ordinary people will get erections when they see ugly and pretty girls naked, but I only get erections for beautiful girls

[Ceebs]

1 hour ago, special_peple32 said:

@Ceebs  Ordinary people will get erections when they see ugly and pretty girls naked, but I only get erections for beautiful girls

I don't know if this is a shitpost or what. I wish my 'ordinary' heterosexual male partner was here to back me up on this lol. When we have sex, he's not always just ready to go the moment I remove my clothing and I know he's attracted to me. The interaction has to go a little further than just me getting naked. I have no idea where you're getting your ideas. I've actually never heard of a straight man who gets physically aroused by literally every single naked woman he ever sees, including ones he finds unattractive.

 

I'm bisexual, do you think I've got turned on by every naked body I've ever seen regardless of the person's sex/gender?

[Monke Jimmy]

I think you need to reconsider what heterosexual people experience, mate. I'm sure there are some people like that, but there's a lot of variation and I think most people sound like you. 

[Ceebs]

Do you watch a lot of porn, or...? Where have you picked up this idea?

[uhtred]

There is a lot of variation, but most men don't get erections just from seeing even very attractive girls naked.  Some amount of age dependence too - younger men on average are more likely to get erections.

[Windmills of My Mind]

What uhtred said.

Also, I am glad that I don't get erections for every naked female body within sight. It would make it rather inconvenient to enjoy naked recreation which I like a lot. I have seen a great many females naked. Some very attractive. Some, very unattractive. The majority in between. It has never led to an erection at inappropriate times.

 

It may be the case for teenage boys. I do remember back in those days erections could happen to me at any random time and place, however inconvenient. Attractive females could definitely trigger this, and they might just as well occur for no reason at all. This tends to reduce to a more comfortable degree with age.

[Skycaptain]

To start with, aesthetic attraction. Not everyone has the same reaction to aesthetic stimuli. One person's attractive need not be another person's attractive. Some people get aroused simply by visuals, others need other stimulation as well, such as tactile before they become fully aroused.

It's no different from some people liking sweet foods, some savoury, some everything,some none, some just don't respond to taste .

 It gets even more complicated when you consider that some people might find their genitals get awakened even when their mind has no desire for sex

[Olallieberry]

9 hours ago, special_peple32 said:

@Ceebs  Ordinary people will get erections when they see ugly and pretty girls naked, but I only get erections for beautiful girls

I don't know where you get this idea. I don't think it's true.

 

And like someone else said - just seeing a hot/pretty girl naked isn't always enough to turn on even the most heterosexual guy. So much depends on context.

 

Maybe you're seeing ugly girls naked in very unsexy situations? Or maybe they just aren't attractive to you. This doesn't mean you're not heterosexual.

 

It's also fine if you're not completely heterosexual, but this doesn't seem to be a major clue to that.