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Has anybody started experiencing sexual attraction as you got older?


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I'm a 37 male and I think I've finally started experiencing sexual attraction. When I was younger, I didn't really want to have sex and identified as asexual.  In the last year and a half, I have started thinking about sex a lot. Every woman I see I find myself wondering what she looks like naked and have even started watching porn.  I visited a brothel this year to lose my virginity and found that I enjoyed sex more than I thought. I'm not sure that I'm asexual anymore. I was wondering has this happened for anyone else later in their life?

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Yes, it took until I was 48 to identify as grey/demi. 

In some cases the old cliché is true, you just have to meet the right person 

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yikes. I'm 43.  You were 48 you say?

All right, well.  That is helpful to know when it comes to planning for the future and all its unimaginable possibilities.

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I never understood sexual attraction, even when I did participate in the act it wasn't because I felt any certain way it was just something to do because that's what the other person wanted. 

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