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AliceInWonderland
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I too would have loved to see his expression.

My husband knows that I use my sex toys often, all by myself, in fact, he will see me take one into the spare room (all alone) knowing what I am about to do, and he will just roll over in his bed and go back to sleep. LOL LOL, I NEVER met a man like this one, that is for SURE, most men come a running, dying to see me do it ???

LOL

Either way, I am not giving up my regular orgasms, just because he doesn't like sex or anything to do with sex.

That just ain't gonna happen, a girl has needs :-)

LOL

In regards to where you mentioned spare room, my husband and I quit sleeping together years ago. He said it was because the bed we had just bought together wasn't comfortable enough - sort of an excuse to me. So, he chose the sofa instead. Then, when we moved into a bigger house, we bought another bed which, to him, was comfortable, so he quit the sofa sleeping and sleeps on that bed. He wanted me to move out of the guest bedroom where I currently sleep and start sleeping with him , but I knew nothing would happen, so why bother? He also snores and watches TV at night, so I'd be depriving myself even more if I did that than what I am now.

I don't use any sex toys. I think they're illegal where I live, but there must be a way around that...

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I think they're illegal where I live

BwuuuH? (insert Scooby Doo surprised sound effect here).

Do you live in North Korea?

I was kinda surprised too, so I looked it up. Turns out you're technically not allowed to sell them in some parts of the Southern U.S. Alabama, for example. Part of the general Bible-belt culture I guess.

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AliceInWonderland
I think they're illegal where I live

BwuuuH? (insert Scooby Doo surprised sound effect here).

Do you live in North Korea?

I was kinda surprised too, so I looked it up. Turns out you're technically not allowed to sell them in some parts of the Southern U.S. Alabama, for example. Part of the general Bible-belt culture I guess.

I don't know how the law applies - if it's the sale, or the use or whatever else. I'm having trouble finding info. on the internet about these laws. However, I could be looking in the wrong places - got any ideas about where to look? But I just found an article that said that the sale of sex toys was just recently overturned in this state; however, I'm going to look into that further to make sure. I'm not in Alabama, but I am in the Southern US. There are similar laws in MA and IN, but it appears that most states where they are prohibited are in the Southern US. I have also heard but am having trouble finding info. on this as well, that it's not illegal to rape your wife in this state where I live. I don't know if it's the Bible Belt currently as much as it used to be, but I think that once laws get on the books, they're hard to change. That's unfortunate.

Also, there are shops here that sell sex-related stuff, but I don't know exactly what - if they're sex toys or something other than that. I haven't been in any since I was eighteen, and I don't remember what they had then, nor would I have known.

My thinking is that it's possible that it could be legal to sell but illegal to use sex toys? I don't know. That's my distrust in the law showing through. I'll have to find out more info.

It needs to be easier than this to find out the info. you want to know about. Maybe I just used the wrong key words when looking up the info.

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AliceInWonderland

Hello again.

Update to my previous posts: I asked a porn shop via e-mail about the laws in my state and other states as far as sex toys being illegal. They wrote that it is illegal to sell them in the states I had mentioned - GA, AL, MS, IN, VA, LA, MA, and TX, but that people who live in these states can purchase the products online or through mail order with no problems. So, if you have totally screeched your life to a halt for fear of doing something illegal because of my previous posts, please consider this post, but make sure in whatever way you feel comfortable that it's okay for you. In other words, don't take my posts as gospel either way.

I personally cannot stop my life completely because of my issues. Sometimes, I just get so tired of being afraid, and being afraid gets boring after a while, too.

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