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First happy asexual moment


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Just thought I'd share a nice moment. I came out as asexual about a week ago, and felt a huge sense of relief knowing I'd never have to worry about having sex again. I was on the tube to a friend's birthday in London. I looked around at everyone and knew I had no sexual attraction to anyone, beyond a very mild aesthetic appreciation for one guy. I felt really relaxed and happy, like I made sense and didn't have to pretend I found anyone attractive. It was the same when I got to the bar/club. There were a lot of very good looking people, and I didn't feel a flicker, but that was a really nice feeling, like I could stop pressuring myself to fit in and just enjoy the night. I'm not happy to be asexual, but I'm happy that I know I'm asexual. 

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This is amazing to hear! :)

 

Yes, it can really remove a huge weight from you knowing that you don't have to be attracted.

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