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I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to do so my mom and I were moving and one of my friends helped this move and he was in her bedroom helping her pack stuff up and found a bunch of nude pictures of my mom. I know he took some because there is something in his back pocket that I was too embarrassed to say anything to him. Should I say anything or not?

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Giving topics ultra-general names is not a good practice... A title should give some idea what the topic is about.

 

I don't think that you should say anything. After all, they are adult people and if they want to do such things as nude photos, you can't do anything about it and it's not even your business. I absolutely understand that it must have been very embarassing for you. I am a nudity-averse person too - first of all terrified about possibly being seen naked (I make no exceptions), but I also don't want to see others naked. My mom is not a super-careless person and we anyway don't live together anymore (I live by myself), but when I was younger, in the summer she would often sleep on her belly in panties only - I always avoided seeing her get up... (I wear pajamas with panties and a sports bra underneath all year long... Not even a short-sleeved pajama in the summer - I often have a rash in my elbow-pit due to my allergy, particularly in the summer, when I sweat more, and having some cotton fabric touch it feels better.) So I understand your embarassment, but you would surely embarass your mother even more if you let her know that you have seen the pictures.

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41 minutes ago, everywhere and nowhere said:

I don't think that you should say anything. After all, they are adult people and if they want to do such things as nude photo

no he's saying his friend stole some of the naked photos which is a violation of the mother's privacy :o He doesn't mean the friend photographed her - the friend stole the images OF the mother!

 

43 minutes ago, everywhere and nowhere said:

o I understand your embarassment, but you would surely embarass your mother even more if you let her know that you have seen the pictures.

Yes but in this case it might be WORSE not to say anything as it would be potentially worse for the mother if a random man has stolen the naked images of her :c

 

2 hours ago, greg3 said:

I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to do so my mom and I were moving and one of my friends helped this move and he was in her bedroom helping her pack stuff up and found a bunch of nude pictures of my mom. I know he took some because there is something in his back pocket that I was too embarrassed to say anything to him. Should I say anything or not?

i know it's embarassing but it's EXTREMELY important you ask your friend for the pictures back. You HAVE to get them back for your mother's privacy. Yes, she should not have left them where someone else could access them but she might have completely forgotten about them (I left random porn in an art book once and accidentally loaned it to my dad with the porn still in. FOrtunately it was pics from an adult magazine, not of me, and I told him I was using the images for anatomy reference when he asked about the images Y_Y) ..So it can happen, but the fact that they're of her means they're extremely private and your friend should not have them. so please try to get them back off your friend, then sneak them into your mother's stuff in a way that seems 'natural' so she doesn't know you saw them! say to your friend ''i'm so embarassed but please could you give those pics of my mum back? i saw them in your pocket and i know how bad she'd feel if she knew someone else has them. I'll sneak them back in her stuff so she doesn't know we saw them'' - it'll be worse for her when she discovers they are missing and doesn't know who took them, imagine how bad she'll feel :c 

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52 minutes ago, Major West said:

no he's saying his friend stole some of the naked photos which is a violation of the mother's privacy :o He doesn't mean the friend photographed her - the friend stole the images OF the mother!

Oops... Sorry, I indeed misunderstood.

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1 hour ago, everywhere and nowhere said:

Oops... Sorry, I indeed misunderstood.

I read it that way first too because he said ''I know he took some'' which made it sound like the friend TOOK some of them (as in photographed the mother) which would indeed be confusing but probably best not to say anything as it's their business as long as they're both adults over 18. But no when I re-read the friend actually stole naked photos of the mum which is a whole different ballgame Y_Y Hopefully he can get the photos off the friend and sneak them back into the mother's belongings!

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