icebear Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 Hello everyone. Thank you for this awesome community. I'm very happy I found this. I'm 33 and I actually never stopped to think about the possibility of being asexual. I mean I've had tons of sex in my life and often masturbate. But one day I read on a random post on reddit the definition of asexual. I mean, I did know that was a thing, but after reading how that person felt I was like, yeah! That's me! It felt a bit weird because all my life I tried soooo hard to fit in and I would go out with many many people and have lots of casual, random sex thinking that it would finally make me feel something if I just tried hard enough. It got to the point where it was mainly a self punishment tool. Now that I'm older and have re-evaluated a lot of things in my life, I'm more comfortable with who I am in many ways. And learning about asexuality is kind of a relief, and with such good timing. A weight off my shoulders, if you will. I don't feel the need to feel "normal" anymore but it's so refreshing to see myself through a new perspective! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
alto Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 welcome! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LeChat Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 Hi. Welcome! [a pic of a cake decorated as a light brown (with, a bit, of white on the ear and around the mouth) teddy bear's head.] Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sister Mercurial Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 Hello and welcome! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 @Sister Mercurial - amazing cake. And I'll give @icebear a more icy, i.e. polar, bear cake. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
awadama Posted September 12, 2022 Share Posted September 12, 2022 Hi and welcome! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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icebear Posted September 13, 2022 Author Share Posted September 13, 2022 Omg thank you for the welcoming messages and especially for the cakes! That's so sweet! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LeChat Posted September 13, 2022 Share Posted September 13, 2022 You're welcome! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted September 15, 2022 Share Posted September 15, 2022 Welcome! Happy to have you here, have even more cake Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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